Question Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 11:54 pm
Ok so i have known this guy all my life! well a few years ago he moved ..but we still kept in touch occasionally. and also we have always considered each other bro and sis, well he moved back this past summer and everything was ok and all but now he calls me at a minimum of 8 times a day! and every weekend he is with me. now dont get me wrong i love the boy to death but he comes with me and my frieds on our "girls night outs" and then staurday nights he comes to my house then sunday he is hear to! and i dont want to be mean and i have even tried saying things in the past liek well why dont u go do this or that...and even trying to be mean dont work because he doesnt take me serious! please HELP ME i dotn no what i am going to do. and the other problem with him he tells me who i can and cant date..he doesnt liek me are anything he is just..i dont even no how to explain it. and GUys want talk to me alot becaus ethey think im dating him or there afraid he want liek him.
Mckick answered Thursday January 26 2006, 2:26 pm: Hi. Well you need to sit him down and explain to him that he has to do other things beside hanging out with you all the time. He has to give you some space and be able to go out with your girlfirends. maybe you could help him find something to do, like a hobby or some friends he can hang out with. Or desinate a day that just the two of you can hang out together.
good luck
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mesachick51 answered Thursday January 26 2006, 1:39 pm: Dear Frienship/guys,
Sit him down and explain how you are feeling to him let him know that girls night out is just for girls and that he can't come. Let him know though that you like him around but that he is around way to much. You have to have a voice to him or else he won't take you seriously. If he starts to think you are kidding with him tell him that it's not a joke and that you are being serious. I hope I helped. ~MESACHICK51~ [ mesachick51's advice column | Ask mesachick51 A Question ]
thisismydance answered Thursday January 26 2006, 10:09 am: well. see. thats what brothers do. hes taking the whole thing to much to heart. tell him that until he gets a sex change 'girls night out' is for girls only. the rest... i have no clue. he seems to be glued at your hip. i agree with the other person's advice just have a girl that you think he will like and that you know likes him. just have her with you alot and he will be around her alot. and let things work themselves out.
-jodie
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whabit answered Thursday January 26 2006, 2:08 am: Hi there!! :o) Are you sure he doesn't like you?! Well try to get him a girlfriend, because if he has one he would want to spend alot of time with her and he would be spending less time at your house.... Also stand up for yourself, he hasn't got the right to tell you who you can date, you are your own person and you make your own decisions!
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