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AHH!! WTH!
omg. my best friend in the world is being a slut. i mena i love the chick to death but her ex-boyfriend who used her then broke up with her to have "fun" over the break are doing any SEXUAL THING U CAN THING OF. theyve tried haveing sex 3 times but dude. the guy doesnt even like her and isnt planning on even asking her out. and shes inlove with him. hes such a man whore and i told her that she can pick up desises and stuff like that but she acts like she didnt even do anything wrong. i dont know how to tell her to stop without coming off as a controlling freak you know. I LOVE HER TO DEATH but i dont want to yell at her and make it to where she cant tell me stuff anymore. PLEASE HELP! what do i do.
ps. SHES TWELVE.
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OMG. she's only 12 and acting like.I don't really know what to tell you. I mean at this point she's already got it in her mind that sex is fine no matter who you do it with. You could try talking with her one more time but i would exxagerate it. I would say that she could get a flesh eating disease (she can) and get pregnant and have saggy tits. Be creative!
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TWELVE?!
Well since she's obviously not taking your advice I would go to her parents. You may feel like you've betrayed your best friend, But you may be saving her from fatal diseases.
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whoa 12.. hmm i was expecting a lot older..but you can try having a talk with her saying like.. (you dont want to sound like a control freak, like you said) just say i dont want to be like controlling or anything.. but i love you to death.. and i dont want anything to happen to you..and tell her how she is only 12 and thats way to young for sex. wayyyy to young. hopefully she'll listen to you. good luck with the situation..
hope i helped
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OMG! Shes 12? She doesn't need to throw her life away over this one guy,tell her the truth and if she is really your friend then she will believe you. If she doesn't then think of a way to get the guy to confess and like record it or have her there where she is not at or just have her there and trivk him into confessing. If he is with another girl sometimes have her like walk in on them I did that to my friend and it so worked. Ok so I'm guessing shes not a virgin anymore lol well tell her that risk of getting a diease,and that some of them can kill you and if you do have one it is embarrassing going to the doctor and telling them that.
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This doesn't really make her a "slut", but obviously she is playing with fire here. She's setting herself up to be hurt. There may be nothing you can do about this, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't try. Remind her that YOU are her friend and that you really care about her and don't want to see her hurt. It's more about the diseases, there is a lot of emotion involved in sex.
What about her parents? I know you don't want to be a tattle-tale, but if she completely blocks you out you may have to go them. However, if you think that they would react badly and punish her for this, it might be better to talk to a teacher or school counselor that you can trust.
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First tell the little gir lto slow down. And yelling is tuff love. Let her know how you feel (like all the i love her to death stuff) in a nice voice at first. Then if she say's something like i don't care or your just jealous or just doesn't listen get tough. If that doesn't work then let her get her feelings hurt, but don't let her HAVE SEX!!! Please think of her mom and dad. Please don't let her make that much of a mistake. Step in there or a cool grown person you know (ages 14-20) when she takes things outta hand. That's what friends are for!! Hope i helped!!
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Okay, first of all, I know from experience that calling her a slut won't do anything, but make you lose your best friend. Trust me, if you're really afraid that she's going to get some disease, then maybe the best thing to do would be to talk to her parents about it... You never know, that could be the one think that'll make her stop. I mean, she's only twelve for god sakes! She's got her whole life ahead of her and shouldn't be doing anything even close to what she's been doing! Hopefully your friend will soon understand how you feel, or if she doesn't then maybe she's not a good enough friend to listen to your concerns... Hope this helps you out!
**Bethany**
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Tried everything you could think of?
I doubt they've peed on each other. Or involved bondage, or facials, or age play, or infantilism, or shaving, humiliation, discipline, S/M, face sitting or breath control, knife play, vore, milking, denile, chastity devices, enema, poop eating, ice, felching, candle wax... I could go on. There are many types of sex.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
Anyway, she's just too young to be doing that. He's obviously taking advantage of her.
If you care about her, you can let her parents know. Then again, she's just going to keep having sex either way.
Try setting her straight by sitting her down somewhere private. Talk authoritatively, but not angrily.
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All right well whether she's 12 or 22 you're not going to get ANYWHERE with her by calling her a slut. That's just flat out mean, especially when a slut really is a person who's having promiscuous sex with a ton of different people, not just one.
She probably shouldn't be having sex at 12, you're right, but it's her choice and it's her body and you're not the ruler of her life. There's really nothing you can do about it because the more you nag her about it the more she'll probably push you away and become more distant.
Just let her know, when the issue comes up, that you're really concerned and worried about her. You don't want to see her get hurt, which is why you're so upset right now. The more she knows you'll be there for her no matter what, the more she'll start listening to you when you advise her against doing things with this guy. But if you do get to a point where you can do that, don't be judgmental. Just emphasize that you really think he is going to hurt her and you wish she'd reconsider what she's doing.
Edit: Sorry that I didn't tell you what you want to hear but don't expect sympathy when you come back crying that you've lost your best friend for being judgemental and throwing around horribly cruel words like 'slut.'
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