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So, Birthday Partyness...
Next week I turn 21. No big deal really, I was legal at 19 were I live.
A while ago me and my boyfriend agreed for a whole bunch of reasons to not focus on our birthdays too much this year, just do something nice for valintines day. Which was totally cool with me. But now my girlfriends want to take me out for my birthday.
The thing is everybody, even myself, wants this to be a girls night thing. I don't even think my boyfriend would want to come to the place they have in mind, but I'm not sure how to tell him that I want to spend my birthday with just my close group of girls. What should I do?
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What's the big deal? Tell him your girls are taking you out. If he bitches, ask him what special night HE arranged for you.
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Maybe have a birthday dinner with him on the day before or a lunch on your birthday then tell him youu are going out with your girls that night,he should understamd
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first off, happy birthday, i turned 21 a little over a month ago... but anyways, you two talked about just doing something for valentines day so you can stick to that... but i think you should go out with your girlfriends and have a girls night out, because every girl needs a night like that!! well invite him first and see what he says... if he doesnt want to join then you can tell your boyfriend that you can see him the next day or even see him that night as well or - either before or after your 'girls night out' Talk it over with him and explain exactly what you would like to do on YOUR birthday, and if our boyfriend really loves you, he'll understand...
hope i helped!
~4evaurs_21~
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:o) WOW!! happy birthday!! Im turning 21 this year aswell... Just tell him that you want a girls night out, maybe see him an hour before you go out with the girls, and then promise him a date the next day? Im sure he will understand, suggest a boys night out for him :o)
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Well, you guys agreed on not focuusing on birthdays. He's your boyfreind and he will understand if you and your girlfriends go out. I don't think he will be mad. Just tell him that your friends want to take you out somewhere, and if he would be fine with that. I'm sure it's no big deal though. Happy early birthday! :)
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You are under estimating the love your boyfriend has for you! I'm sure if you told him you were thinking of having a girls night out he would understand! As long as you promise to have a night with him soon. And if he kind of would like to see the birthday girl then offer to do something with him earlier and do something with your friends in the evening.
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Just tell him that you'll plan another night with him..
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