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How can I not lie but not tell the truth?


Question Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 3:52 pm

Ok well here it goes..

I like this kid who im friends with and ive liked him for a while. When im around him I just have fun and im myself. Well only two people know and when my one friend asks if I like anyone I say no and she says your lying! and I say im not. I would tell her, but then when we are around him she would be like look look! and make me self concious and a month later she would probobly tell him and ruin it all. I feel bad lying to her and all, but I really just dont want her to know.

Am I being too cruel?


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karenR answered Wednesday January 25 2006, 4:02 pm:
I don't think you are being cruel.

If you can't trust her not to act goofy when the guy you like is around then I wouldn't say anything.

You are already friends with the guy and she probably knows that so I would just leave it at that.

One of these days when a guy asks you out...then you can tell her you like HIM. In the mean time, I think you are handling it okay. Keep it to yourself. :)

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