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My Best Friend Hates My Boyfriend!
Reader,
Well my friend (female) she hates this guy that just asked me to go steady with him. I accepted but then I remembered that my friend and him had been going out 3 years ago and they've hated each other ever since they broke up. She keeps telling me to break up quickly but I really like him. On the other hand I really don't want to lose my friend. What should I do?
Signed,
Confused
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Well I understand that your friend is very upset about you dating her ex. But your friend shouldn't tell you who you can or can't be with because it upsets only her.
But if you feel you still want to remain friends with her then you two should find a time to just talk about the situation. You can tell her your love for your boyfriend is something important and special to you, so is the friendship you and your friend have. And honestly, three years is still a bit way back...she shouldn't hold on to a grudge and let the past affect what's happening now.
Don't let her hatred for you boyfriend get in the way of what you truly want.
Hoped this helped you a little! =3
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Your friend is probably hurt you're dating her ex. Understand where she's coming from, but don't base your decisions off of her. Think for yourself, if you like him, date him. Your friend shouldn't control your love life.
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Your friend cannot and should not control your relationships. If she were really your friend, she wouldn't tell you to dump him just because SHE doesn't like him. You're the one dating him, not her.
--Jack
(16/m)
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