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I just broke up with my b/f because i wanted to be single for the summer and now like no guys are interested in me. i am really regreting my desision, and i really miss my ex. Please help! what should i do?!?!?!

tell your ex you REALLY want another chance and your sorry. plain as that....

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What do i do when im 14 and already fingering my self, i get soo horny all the time i dont know what to do i cant find any guy whos my age and will have sex wit me, i just wanna know how it feels, i dont care I need a girl or a boy just help!

ok, let me tell you something first....you know that if you have sex that you could get aids and all that stuff? and you can never get that moment back! well, i do know that if you finger yourself its normal for teens. even if they dont admitt it. just keep doing that untill you find a great guy who will do it to you.
hope i helped.

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my friend is giving me a really hard time, because i didn't go somewhere with her, she makes fun of me and my myspace http://www.myspace.com/x333333

and she makes fun of me because she really doesn't know me... like she makes fun of that i don't have a bf at the moment, she acts like my time keeper, she schedules things for me, she hurts me, and she gets me in trouble, ALOT.. so how can i make her calm down and stay the way we were or not? help mee!!

o and yeah, she really REALLY needs some help, i didnt go somewhere with her and she is like "you know what? im never talking to you, dont call me, dont im me anymore, and dont even think about me, or visit my myspace, or even look at my things, i sware to god, if you do, you won't be alive by the next day" so she really needs help, badlyy, MENTLE PROBLEMS? maybey?

x0o PLEASE HELP MEEE PLEASE!!!


form - - being bullied

it seems to me like your friends really is having some MAJOR problems at the moment. so wat if you dont have a bf?!?!? thats none of her bisness. i think you should call her up(even though she doesnt want you to) and say your sorry you couldnt go. tell her that your sorry but you cant do everything with her. also tell her that friends dont make fun of eachother and you get alittle annoyed. but dont yell at her or anything though.
i hope i helped!

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Hey. My boyfriend is my best friend as well as my boyfriend. He was my best friend first, 4 years prior. He is dissapointing me as a boyfriend, and though we usually talk everynight, I want to take a break from him for a while. I need advice on what to think about, what to focus on, instead of him. Thanks.

join a sport or go to movies with some friends.

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This is the thing. my friend recently had a cold sore. I've heard that the only way you can have a cold sore (even once) is if you have herpes. Does this mean that she has herpes? Answers would be greatly apreciated. Thanks. Will rate high.

no way! you can get a cold sore even if your as healthy as a horse. almost everyne gets them. dont worry about it. just make sure your friend doesnt kiss anyone bc your friend could give them a cold sore as well.
hope i helped
ask me anything else if you want

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does Fructis Long and Strong Shampoo really work to grow hair longer? any expeiriences? Thanks for any advice

ya i use it and i have long hair

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how do i get a boy to notice me?

1.get a hair cut
2.hair dye
3.flirt with them
4.have an opion
5.put on make up
6.be yourself

i hope i helped and feel free to ask me ANYTHING!

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i moved here two years ago and i have always wanted to become friends with these two girls. They are just typical girls. before this summer during the school year we hung out a couple times but its always becasue of this one friends of mine thats friends with them. Sometimes it seems like they really could care less if i was friends with them or not. I dont wanna ask them to hang out becasue when i do they say they cant. I want them to ask me to go places with them. How do i do that?

ok, well, in my opinion you dont want friends who care less if you were their friends or not. but if you REALLY want to be friends wtih them then find out what their into and talk to them about it. people like it when you have something in common with them.
i hope i helped and feel free to ask me anything else.

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ok i hooked up with my boyfriend and then after i relized i had a small cut in my inside lip. is this bad . its been like 2 weeks since it happened and like do you like anything happened to me? i feel fine but like i dont kno .

um.....how is your boyfriend responsable............and wat exactly is your question...i dont get any of this : (

sorry

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hey kidss----
so theres these kids, theyre my really good friends, && they know im REALLY concious about my weight, && one day i walked in on thier convo && they were like, "i" really put on the weight && looked like i was a big round ball. i really hate getting called fat, but i think my weight is a little more than normal, but i just dont know where to see if its normal or very heavy...im 5'5, && i weigh 109lbs
thankss muchlyy
mucho luvo!
-------me

o my gosh! that is a great weight to be in! your just fine! tell you friends that they should stop making fun of you! you dont need friends like that! that just makes me sick! you sound healthy to me!

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im a 15 year old girl and ive lived with my dad for the past 3 years and its hard to talk to him about girl stuff. how can i talk to him without making both of us unconfortable.
i rate high for good answers. thank you

my friend had that same problem. do you have a grandma or an aunt you can talk to? if you dont then you dont have to tell your dad the EXACT thing just say "dad, i have some girly issues...can you help me or if its too uncomfortable we dont have to" then go from there. hope i helpd.

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My dad died when I was ten and I acted wierd. I didn't cry very much at all. I only cried once or twice. Now I'm 13 and I don't cry about it still. It makes me feel guilty, and I don't know why I can't cry. It also makes me mad because everybody thinks I'm over it, but I'm really not. The last time I cryed about it was last night. But the wierd thing is, is about a month ago I whent to these family riunons, and just started crying for no reason. So here is my question: Am I a freak because I don't cry, and how can I make it so that I don't have the sudden outbursts? Can you help?

i dont think your a freak. just because everyone else would ruin there life over something terible that happend doesnt mean you have to. maybe its just because your tough and loved your dad. your dad would have wanted you to be happy..not cry over him every min of the day! so keep your head high and dont let ANYONE get you down! hope i helped and feel free to ask me anyother question. cookierat123

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ok well my parents have been divoced for 2 years and i live with my dad and see my mom on the weekends. well my dad wants to move out of the city,far away from all of my friends and family, and i have never moved before.i dont want to go to a new high school and i dont want to move away from my family and friends so my mom offered for me to come live with her, but if i do my dad will keep my sister and we will be split up and i will never see her. and if i go with my dad i will never see my mom and i will be stuck with my stupid step mom who is a bitch, who should i go with?

go with your mom. i mean you shouldnt have to leave your family and friends. you could always visit your dad. hey its an excuse for a road trip : ). im not telling you what to do but thats my opion. if you want you can ask me anything else.

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my dad is sooo annoying.. and he is soo strict.. and won't let me do anything hardly.. I always have to go to my mom... what can I do to try and get him to calm down.. cause he is mad all the time.. and what can I do to let me do stuff more?

show him that you can be resposable. do chores when your not asked and then after awhile point out that youve been doing just that. tell him that you love him but you feel that your in NEED of your independence. do yell at him though. just have a calming talk with him. hope i helped and feel free to ask me anything else. : )

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My husband has smoked for years...35 to be exact. We have been married for 30 years. He is slim, but not very healthy, I think. He almost quit just recently and I was so proud of him and told everyone that I was. He was down to about one cigarette a day. I feel like garbage when he smokes because he does it in the house, car, whatever. It makes me feel like a smoker myself. I feel that if I wanted to smoke, I would have kept it up in college, so you see, I know what it is like to be a smoker, but not what it's like to be a non-smoker, even though I don't smoke. I am sorry this sounds bitter. I am mad. Tell me what to do. I am ready to move out. We have a great marriage, but I don't want to feel crappy anymore because of someone else's vice. He refuses to go outside to smoke.

Chanon

ok first take a chill pill chanon! alright now i think that you should have a serious firm talk to him. tell him that you cant stand it anymore! tell him you love him but if he keeps this up you'll be out of the door. if he loves you then im sure he'll understand.hope i helped : )

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ok so i really want to know if this guy likes me.i swim and he is on my swim team, and like when we go underwater he always smiles at me and waves, and when we do drylands he always pats me on the back or playfully hits my arm, and when we kick and stuff like that we always talk the whole way. i mean he is great, he is nice to me and everyone else, he is actualy my height and everyone likes him. whenever we go to swim meets he tells me to cheer for him because he wont do well unless i do. and he asks me to hold stuff and he just goofs around w/ me and he talks to my friends a lot. does he like me?

thnx! 5's for everyone!

well, of course he likes you! that is all of the clues gurly! go for it and ask him out already! i hope you love birds hit it off! feel free to drop off something in my inbox if you have questions.

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I am 13 and i will call the two boys that i fancy 1 and 2. 1 is a real stunner, blond spikey hair, blue eyes a, six pack, and he's my age, but he doesn't like me as more than a friend i don't think although it seems like he's flirting with my sometimes. 2 is 18, dark brown, spikey hair, blue eyes and he's REALLY sweet, but everyone keeps saying he's too old for me, and he doesn't fancy me anyway. What should i do because i really like both of these lads and i don't know which one of them to fancy and whether i should ask one of them out or not so please deal with this question as soon as possible. I will rate you high. Thanks

ok, forget about the whole 18 year old guy bc i think(dont take this the wrong way) he will fall for a 13 year old. go for the 13 year old. i know you said he doesnt like you like that but just try it. flirt with him alot more than usual and talk to him more. well, i hope i helped and feel free to drop something in my inbox if you need anymore help.

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To give a bit of background information, my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and are madly in love with eachother. I gave him my heart.. as well as my virginity and he did the same. But the past few weeks, I've been doubting our relationship. I'll be having dreams of being with ex boyfriends or just other guys, particularly this one guy named Luis. He's a very good friend of mine and a total flirt around me. For a second I thought I had feelings for him and I actually concidered breaking off my over one year relationship with the love of my life for this guy, Luis.I realized it was stupid to end something that is SO good for something that is only going to last a few months IF that much. I called my boyfriend and I was barely crying and, I should've known he would be able to tell I was because as soon as I said hi he said "What's wrong why were you crying?" (He knows the sound of my voice when I'm happy or sad and everything in between like the back of his hand). I told him what happened and I kept saying "Baby, I'm so sorry I don't want to lose you." He told me everything would be okay, but now when I talk to him he seems so distant? If that would be a word to describe it. He's in Maine right now, and I'm back home in New Jersey so I can just like go over and see him right now. I don't know what to do, he just isn't acting the same now, I didn't do ANYTHING with Luis, I'd never do that to my boyfriend. What do I do? I don't want to hurt my boyfriend anymore, I feel so guilty for even having those thoughts. Can anyone please help?

I'm 17 he's 18.

ok, i know that this must be really hard for you. i think you shouldnt have told him that you had feelings or thoughts but i understand that you wanted to be trustworthy. ok, i think you should have a talk with him. you love him(i can tell) and you DONT want to give that all away. i mean really, havnt you heard the song listen to your heart by DTH? o well, tell him that you love him and you want to be with him more than anything else. hope i helped and you can feel free to drop something in my inbox if you want anymore advice.

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This is going to be my first date in my life, so I'm not so good at this right now. We're just going to watch a movie at my house and I don't know of any good movies that we'd probably both like. I want something funny, but a little romantic too. I'd like any suggestions.

princess bride(my fav)
dumb and dumber
um.......i dont know any more the first one is the best its funny and romantic so i think you should watch that...good luck and if you need help on anything else drop it in my inbox.

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Okay. I never ever cry even when im alone. Ive never fallin in love never even close im more like a guy then a girl. Because im a player and everything like that. What all females think the average guy is. Well now im dating a guy named Evan. Hes so cute and we mesh so well together. He makes me happy im not even playing him!! Well he does...Alot of illegal stuff. And he has to handle buisness i understand that. But i he told me one of his ex's came back in town and he turned her down and all this even though it was like his first love. I was like okay hes like yeah i never thought i could do that. But now these past couple days instead of us talking on the phone for hours n hours we talk a few hours a day and i only see him like twice a week instead of everyday. He says he has to go do buisness but its just all of a sudden? and he is acting different then before but he says its because hes under alot of stress. Well i asked him if he was cheating and he said no and got really quiet i was like whats wrong? hes like nothing im under stress and im thinking and i dont know why you even think that. The next day i asked him again and hes like you really think im cheating? He got really mad and was like after me getting cheated on and i know how it feels and how close we are and you still ask me that?

I dont kno what to do i cant tell if hes cheating it feels like it but i have no proof.

Help if u kno what to do or have any advice

well, maybe you think he is cheating on you bc you have never been in love before and your scared for once. maybe you like him alot and DONT want to be alone. i think he is mad because he doesnt know what he did wrong. he could really be in stress and telling the truth. maybe that is wat he did to get you to think that. you should try to comfort him and be his friend and more of course. maybe taht is what he needs right now...just someone to talk to that is his gf. well, if you need any more help drop it in my inbox.

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