Okay. I never ever cry even when im alone. Ive never fallin in love never even close im more like a guy then a girl. Because im a player and everything like that. What all females think the average guy is. Well now im dating a guy named Evan. Hes so cute and we mesh so well together. He makes me happy im not even playing him!! Well he does...Alot of illegal stuff. And he has to handle buisness i understand that. But i he told me one of his ex's came back in town and he turned her down and all this even though it was like his first love. I was like okay hes like yeah i never thought i could do that. But now these past couple days instead of us talking on the phone for hours n hours we talk a few hours a day and i only see him like twice a week instead of everyday. He says he has to go do buisness but its just all of a sudden? and he is acting different then before but he says its because hes under alot of stress. Well i asked him if he was cheating and he said no and got really quiet i was like whats wrong? hes like nothing im under stress and im thinking and i dont know why you even think that. The next day i asked him again and hes like you really think im cheating? He got really mad and was like after me getting cheated on and i know how it feels and how close we are and you still ask me that?
I dont kno what to do i cant tell if hes cheating it feels like it but i have no proof.
cookierat123 answered Monday July 4 2005, 11:24 pm: well, maybe you think he is cheating on you bc you have never been in love before and your scared for once. maybe you like him alot and DONT want to be alone. i think he is mad because he doesnt know what he did wrong. he could really be in stress and telling the truth. maybe that is wat he did to get you to think that. you should try to comfort him and be his friend and more of course. maybe taht is what he needs right now...just someone to talk to that is his gf. well, if you need any more help drop it in my inbox. [ cookierat123's advice column | Ask cookierat123 A Question ]
xl_h0ll0w_Li3s_lx answered Monday July 4 2005, 9:25 pm: alright well that girl obviously is trying to get after him now and thats something you really need to get a hold of i mean you have to talk to her and be like .. um .. me and him are dating now i mean yeah you guys can be friends but he has a girlfriend you had your chance you ruined it and noiw your running back to him .. and then be like i dont know you could be really cool just from what im seeing your trying to get the kid im really starting to like .. and then talk to him about it and be like alright i trust you but i need to make sure you dont have feelings for her anymore make them two go to the movies and see if anything happens .. and be like this is the only way i can find out and if not that then sit him down be like .. i really like you alot and i trust you i just dont know how to feel im getting all confusion in my head because your first love is back and trying to get with you ..
x0xdReAmEr answered Monday July 4 2005, 8:29 pm: EWLKL FROM ALL THE SIGNS IT SEEMS LIEK HIS CHEATING BUT SINCE YOU ACTIALLY ASKED HIM AND HE SAID NO- thats different , ua=sally someone woudl say to ask him if he is but sence you already did , well maybe you should see wat his doing liek wat kind of bissness he always has to do and stuff ! G00D LUCK H0PE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT !
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