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hey jenn it ***** aggain hey i just hurt my wrist like a couple days til the giant clinic...i cant believe it...and now i cant do gymnastics for 10 days.....im soo going to be like the only level 7 that wont be able to do it..oh and i might have to stay away from gymnastics even longer because i might get a cast...just im getting sooooooooooooo depressed...its sooo crazy....i mean first my wrist then my friend...then like no one is coming to the gymnastics party....just if you would give me advise plesase you are great at advise...please jenn...
your the best,
depressed (link)
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heyy ***** yea i was right there when you hurt your wrist i dought that you will have to get a cast! i mean if you do it will all be good! =) i am sure you will get to do something at the giant clinic! for sure! and dont worry about your friend ***** just let it go for awhile! dont let it stress you out! and we are goign to have so much funn at your party even if there really isnt that many people!! i KNOW IT! well i will ttyl babe luv ya! ** jenn **
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my friend kasey whitmer invited me to her birthday party and i said i would go but then my friend ariel price invited me to hang out with her and i would rather go with ariel because last time i went to on eof of kasey's birthday parties everyone got in a fight and then we were looking at pictures from the birthday party and she said "my fourth grade part, the worst day of my life" and i dont want that to happen again so i dont know what to do.. (link)
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okay first off i think that you should tell kasey how you feel and that you would wrather go to a friends house because of what happend last time at her party!.. if you ask her and she says that she really wants you to come ask if it would be alright for ariel to come along also. and if ariel cant and you would wrather hang out with ariel tell her the truth! come back if you need more help! ** JeN **
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me and my bestfriend are in this really big fight we dont talk to each other but we used to be bestfriends the reason we're soo mad at each other is because we both liked the same guy and he ended up askin me out and i said yes and she got all mad at me bc she thought i should say no bc she liked him even tho i know if he asked her out she would have said yes too! im still goin out with this guy and i really dont want to dump him bc i really like him but how do i get my bestfriend(used to be) to respect that?! i mean she will probably just blow me off like usual soo is it even worth it or should i just get a new bestfriend and start fresh there?! i really hope u can help me with this! i really am confused! thanks sooo much u rock my world!!!!!!!!
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okay.. first dont worry i really think that you should be going out with this boy if you like him if she was really your bestfriend she //would// respect that!* so you have to learn to choose who your real friends are. it can be really hard! but that is your decision if you blow off this girl then you may not have a relationship with her anymore once you give up a friend they are hard to get back.. so i would hold on to her! hope i could help you some! =) ** JeN **
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hey i wrote the thing about the guy i like in another state. well see, i broke up with my boyfriend allready because he was being really mean to me he said i needed plastic surgery and stuff like that!! but i have been writting to the guy i met at camp and we really like each other. my friends keep telling me to ask him out but i dont no if i should. i want to say that i like him and i would like to go out with him but i dont no if i should say that in a letter. he is comming to vistit me soon because his friend is moving to Ohio! but i am not sure if i should ask him out because i dont no what he is doing at his school. i trust him totally but i dont know if he will say yes.
i really need some help!! please can you help me??
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okay.. well i can understand why you broke up with your old boyfriend that was really rude for him to say that.. it is good that you are keeping in touch with this guy that you met at camp that way he cant forget you! and i do think that you should tell him that you like him and ask him out (( when he comes to ohio )) and when he comes get his phone number and call him and keep in touch with him_ i doubt that he is doing anything bad or wrong at school like you said you trust him.. and dont worry about him saying yes if he doesnt > then you guys can be really good friends! =) i hope i helped you some if not come back! GOOD LUCK! *JeN*
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well, i really like this one guy i met at camp. he told me that he liked me to but at that time we both were in a relationship. we said we would break up with our g/f and b/f but the only thing is he is still at camp and i am not. i am scared he will start to like someone else and then we wont go out. the other proublem is that he lives in another state. what should i do??? (link)
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well** i think that you should stay with your old boyfriend ** you may like this other boy but you will not get to see him at all if he is living in another state! but my oppinion is that you should get this boys screen name or e-mail address and then you can talk to him! if you need more help come back! hope i helped a little bit//
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well i really like this on kid but hes 2 years younger than me! i see him a lot at my country club in the summer but i never see him during the school year! every time i look at him hes always looking at me but then turns away! i want to ask him out but im afraid all of my friends will make fun of me cuz they always say "how can you like him! hes 2 years younger than you!" and today my friend asked him if he was scared of me and he said yes..what should i do?
sincerely,
I like him (link)
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first off dont let your friends make you decisions you kno what you can choose to like him.. you can like WHOEVER YOU WANT! plus you are never going to see this boy often.. if you really like this boy so you can go out in the sumemrs and you kno what in the summer you may just choose to be bestfriends with him you never kno! abviously he isnt the right guy if he said he is scared of you soo.. my oppinion is that! i hope i helped some! GOOD LUCK! =)
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hey jenny its ***** *****!!!...i also went to woodward with you but this is kind of like ******* problem im getting depressed and hate to say it but jeaous because you and someone else is getting there giants and im trying real real real hard but i just cant get them and im scared to do them and im not giving my 110% because i just am sooooooo scared......and im getting really really depressed just like ******.....sooooo if you could please please help me right about now i need some confidence and courage
your the best,
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heyy *****.. dont get depressed it is all a mind thing.. first what you need to do is you have to really want this bad! and you have to keep trying and trying and you are doing EXCELLENT!! all you need to do it flip your wrists and if you dont do that really well work on your freehips and try and flip your wrists in the strap bar_ and ***** i kno how you feel about getting jealous i am jealous that you can do your fulls by yourself and i cant yet.. :/ but you kno what i just i am proud that you can do that.. // i know that you can do this i really really believe in you ***** // B3STFRI3NDS4LIF3!
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Okay there is this boy i have been going out with sence like school and this summer i have never seen him and he is hardly on...pretty much this is how it goes.....i always tell me friends gosh he is never on then they say i just talked to him last night....soo pretty much when im off he is on...and when im on he is off.....and now i dont even if he likes me....and im thinking about breaking up with him....but i still kind of like him...soooooo what should i do????please helps me!!!!
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well this is totally up to you but i can help you but i dont kno if that is what you are going to want! i kno how it feels when you really want to talk to someone.. but i think you need to talk to him try asking his friends for his number and call him and say hey.. you kno what__ i am not sure if you like me anymore do you? and if he says yes then at then end of your convorsation say i will call you or you call me and plan times to call eachother.. and if he says no blow it off.. ** this may be really hard for you ** but may be the right thing// but it doesnt sound like he is treating you very well.. soo.. do what you think is right.. i
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hey...well i do gymnastics with you jen...i went to woodward with you...well anyways...sometimes i always feel like i am never good enough...i feel like i never get any of my tricks...its like everyone keeps getting all of there tricks before me and i am getting depressed and stressed out about it and thats all i tihnk about!i absolutley LOVE AND ADORE gymnastics but sometimes i hate it cause i just dont feel like i am any good AT ALL...you might know who this is...we fought a lot at woodward too for a hint
help me PLEASE!!
byebyes (link)
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heYy ******! dont get depressed cause your body is moving at the rate it wants you to go in.. dont feel depressed i kno that you can do those giants and backhandsprings on the beam!! i mean you are AWSOM3 at gymnastics and it is the sport that you love!
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hey im the 1 who wrote that im going to jackson and when it was the last day of school i told every1 that their still my friends and i still want to hang out with them and especially this one girl! well i like this boy now at jackson and she found out and now she likes him and went to the movies with him and with all my other friends and she didnt even invite me when i invite her to everything! what should i tell her?
help me plezz! (link)
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yea that is really great that you still want to hang out with your other friends.. and i understand taht you like this boy! ` this girl// might just like him because she is trying to make you mad..dont let this get to you cause you kno what if you make it look like you dont like this boy she wont like him anymore cause she will kno she didnt make you mad! so that would be my #1..i know what it feels like to not get invited to something that everyone else does so dont let taht get you mad.. cause everyone is going to forget about it so they wont be talking about it as much and it wont hang out with ya! hAha! =) but if you want to talk to her i would tell her that you dont really like the way that she is treating you and tell her how you feel. like how you are getting left out and how she likes the same guy! ask her why she is doing this to you and this might really help what it going on! dont let this ruin your time and JACKSON because JACKSON is the best school ever!!! hope i helped some if not come back again! * gOoD lUcK *
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I have this friends we've been friends for like 3 years now!..and we hang out all the time were like best-friends!-but she alwasys copies me!! with everything! what i do what i put in my profile what i say! who i like who my friends! I can't even take it anymore!..at first I didnt really care but now its getting out of head what should I do? (link)
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heyy!.. i think taht you should talk to this /girl\ and say heyy this i have noticed that you copy me a lot and i am getting kind of sick of you doing this!.. _ but you dont have to say this in a rude way you can say this without being rude;)_just remember tell her you are still best friends but just tell her you dont want her to copy you as much and i am sure she will calm things down and not let it get out of hand..you may even want to put her in your profile if you dont already have her in there because just remember this girl looks up to you and that is why she is doing this and if she knows that you like her she will stop cause she was trying to get your attention by doing all these things she really wants you to notice her!.. come back if you are still having problems hope i have helped you some! =)
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hi..i am really upset becasue i just found out my friend was anerexic casue she picks at her food and i can just tell she is! i am really worried about her what should i do to try and get her to stop. :/ PLEASE HELP ME THIS IS A BIG EMERGENCY answer this as soon as you can *thanks* (link)
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this is very serious and you need to tell an adult about this because anerexia is very life threatning! if this is not taken care of she might not even be here anymore you need to tell her that she can not be doing this to herself or she wont be able to have all the good times she has been sharing with people in life and she will relize that this is not just a game to look skiny! and if she doesnt stop you are either going to have to tell this to her parents a guidence counciler or someone that can deal with this problem!.. god probably just wants this girl to be herself the size she is cause he loves her no matter what she looks like!! and you need to keep an eye on her at school / lunch and make sure that she is eating!
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ok so theres this girl and i really like her as a friend but i dont think she thinks of me as a friends i think that she is just using me to copy all of my stuff and i dont like it!! she always askes where did u get this and this and this and all this other stuff that i want to keep to myself! she always goes behind my back and says stuff to my friends that is not true! she never likes to invie me to stuff with her other friends and i really dont like it help me out !! o and u no who this is! (link)
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yes hi *****! i think taht you should talk to this girl about how you feel like how you dont appreciate her doing things behind your back!.. and if that doesnt work tell her that you want a break from her and go hang out with different friends/ friends that you enjoy being around and ones that you can trust!.. hope i helped you at least some! ;)
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hi i need some help from you! i dont kno what to do because i have been going out with this guy for about 2 months now and i really really like him. all my other friends have kissed a boy already and i havent. should i kiss this guy i mean should i makeout or what? do you think he will like it? when do you think would be a good time? i am really worried and i dont know what to do will you please help me!! *H*E*L*P* (link)
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well i think that you should do what you want you shouldnt just do something that you might not want to do just casue other people are doing this!_and if you really want this kiss to happen then let it happen and yes he will like it TRUST ME!.. he will be flatterd to kno that you feel like that about him..listen to your heart thats the time thats the time you should kiss him dont get to serious till after you have held hands and you get really nervous around him thats when you kno it is the right time!_* come back if you need more help!*
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Im going to jackson next year and i am soo scared that no1 will like me !! i dont no if the ppl will think im crazy about what im wearing or what my hair looks like or anything!!! im going crazy and i dont no what to do with frineds!do u think they will like me or hate me or what!?!?! help me out plez! (link)
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wow! i go to jackson too so i tink i will be able to help you out a little bit.. =) i am sure everyone will like you and you will fit in just fine! just be yourself and people will like you because of who you are and if they dont then... they are not truly your friendz! i can give you some advice tho.. i kno a lot of girls that like to wear sports clothing like adidas and nike* and girls like to wear their hair in either a messy bun which is really easy or in just a plain pony tail> there is nothing to worry about! you will fit in JUST FINE! i am sure everyone will like you!.. well i hope i have helped some if not come back_*
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hey its me again who wrote!>>>well during school I was bestfriends with 4 girls we were like all in a group and this whole summer not one of them as invited me over called me but theyre all doing things together and not inviting me!..and we were bestfriends during the whole school year but now I'm making other friends and they are so nice I can talk to them about anything and I can trust them and we hang out a lot more than I do with my other friends..but I don't know what I should do cuz I think I like these other friends better that I just made I feel like I'm happier with the friends that I just made because in our group with the 4 girls ((not including me)) we always got in fights someone was always fighting in our group but they were good friends but they never even talk to me online anymore never invite me to do things with them never even call me nothing! idk what I should do!...
*H.E.L.P!*
yeah its me again who wrote ^^that and you said>>
but you cant totaly ditch these 4 girls cause if you totaly let go then it will be really hard to get your friendship back with them (link)
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your solution is very bright you should just move away slowly or you can talk to them and say that you have found some new friends and that you would like to hang out with them more often
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I've been going out with a boy for about 5 months now, and we promised that we were always going to be honest with each other. He would always tell me how much he cared about me, and he told my friend that he would never do anything to hurt me..
He asked another girl out behind my back.. He never even told me that he felt that way, that he wanted to see someone else. I would have broke-up with him if he wanted to see someone else.. You can't stop someone’s feels for someone else. I dont even know what I did to make him want to do that to me. He hurt me going behind my back like that. I don't think he even knows how hurt I am, or if he even cares. I heard that he really liked this other girl when he was still going out with me. I don’t know what to do. I still care about him so so much. Having him in my life means the world to me.. I just wish I could mean as much to him. Should I tell him how I feel? I'm so scared that I'll get hurt again if I talk to him though. Maybe I should just leave him alone..
Please help.. I'm so confused!
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well this boy might not kno how you feel about him and so he is losing interst you really have to talk to him about this as soon as you can!.. and you are right you may not be able to stop him from liking this other girl but you can get him to come back to you!..by/ telling him how you feel, let him kno that you kno he did this to you, and so on there are mant solutions for this problem!_ you can also give this problem a rest for a little bit but taht is totaly your choice cause you may really want to get this problem out of the way..you should ask him for the total truth and if you feel he isnt telling the truth do what is best.. if you feel he is that is great and you guys can keep going on with your relationship!* i hope i have helped you at least a little bit if not come back! thanks for sharing with me!
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well during school I was bestfriends with 4 girls we were like all in a group and this whole summer not one of them as invited me over called me but theyre all doing things together and not inviting me!..and we were bestfriends during the whole school year but now I'm making other friends and they are so nice I can talk to them about anything and I can trust them and we hang out a lot more than I do with my other friends..but I don't know what I should do cuz I think I like these other friends better that I just made I feel like I'm happier with the friends that I just made because in our group with the 4 girls ((not including me)) we always got in fights someone was always fighting in our group but they were good friends but they never even talk to me online anymore never invite me to do things with them never even call me nothing! idk what I should do!...
*H.E.L.P!* (link)
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you can try talking to your friends that are supposably leaving you out and and talk to them about how you feel..and see how that turns out like with them playing with you and not leaving you out! but you cant totaly ditch these 4 girls cause if you totaly let go then it will be really hard to get your friendship back with them..if you have found new friends that is great that you feel happy with them too but you cant be attached to them you have to spend time with everyone which may be a really hard thing to do! i hope i have helped you at least a little bit if not come back! thanks for sharing with me!_*
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well I asked this kid out and we've been going for like 3 days now and I really like him but I just have a feeling he likes this other girl that hes liked since 4th-7th grade he tells me he doesn't like her anymore but I think he does and I don't know what I should do!..answer me as soon as possible please!!!! (link)
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well if you really like this kid that you have been going out with then you should still go out with him but tell him that you want the total truth about this other girl he has known for a while..and if you truly feel that this boy is lying to you then you kno that he doesnt treat you very well and you cant really trust him..and if you feel he is really telling you the truth then he probably is and they might just be best friends! that happens a lot in relationships like this! and then people totaly missunderstand eachother. i hope i have helped you some but if thing are still not working out between you come back and i will try and help!=) _☼
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one day when i was babysitting i couldnt find one of the girls that i was babysitting and so i ran outside cause i heard her screaming and i saw a man in front of the house and he was asking her to get in the car and show him where to go on a map i ran and grabbed her and i am afraid i am going to get fired what should i do?. i mean i am kinda afriad to babysit for them again! PLEASE HELP ME!!! thank you. (link)
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well first off you need to get the plate
numbers.. that is the biggest thing that you should worry about after you have the child! after you have gotten the plate numbers go inside and call the police ameditaly and they will search for this car!..next call and talk to those parents and tell them to come home! dont be afraid that you are going to ruin their night out! this is a very important thing to do. you will not get fired casue these parents will then kno that you are very responsable! but dont be afraid to go over and babysit again.. because what are the odds of this happening again..? // not very likely to happen // so just remember this next time you go over and babysit! i hope i could help you some! =)
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