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need to stop thinking about boyfriend
Hey. My boyfriend is my best friend as well as my boyfriend. He was my best friend first, 4 years prior. He is dissapointing me as a boyfriend, and though we usually talk everynight, I want to take a break from him for a while. I need advice on what to think about, what to focus on, instead of him. Thanks.
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Hey I know where you are coming from my boyfriend was my best friend first too I think you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel maybe yall are just better off as friends or maybe he just needs to here what you want out of it to refocus him!! Don't say you want a break it's better to either go out or fully break up!! Hope this helps!
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well you need to talk to him and tell him that you guys are better of friends..but it sounds like you do need a break from him..it sounds like your letting that whol dating with your best friend thing get to your head..but you might ruin you and his friend ship..so maybe you shouild break up with him..and tell him you miss being friends with him..just friends..but you no..you just got to get it off your chest..and its bad to keep it from him..but really dont think about it and you guys shouild just be friends like the past 4 years..but you no that it might take him awhile to recover if you break up with him..he isnt gonna say alright lets bee friends..im sure he'll be hurt..and he may not even want to be friends..but you halft to tell him staraihght up how you feel..tell him the truth!!do what you feel is right..listen to your heart!!
hope i helped..sorry if i didnt.
*love always*
Bridgette>iloepink101
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You could think about school work maybe? Like concentrate on studying and getting good grade (unless you already have good grades) or maybe you could focus on raising money for something you want. Just whatever you think will keep you from thinking about him. Good luck!
-----Tara <3
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ooh this is a toughie.. id say get a new hobbie and meet a new guy! there is plenty of other fish in the sea.
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surrond yourself with other things like a friends night or have some friends go chill or hang out with you and just be "single" for a night meaning dont think about him or anyone for that matter except yourself and who your with do your favorite things like shopping or getting your nails done or sports or exercise or just blaring music and reading
hope i helped
love talktome224
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join a sport or go to movies with some friends.
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get more involved in a sport, or hanging out with other friends. Just tell him you need to sort things out a little. if he really likes you he'll get scared and want to be around you but give you space...if he doesn't then tell him you two should go back to being just friends. lemme know how it goes.
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why dont you get into a hobby or sport that should take your mind off him well hope i helped and if you have ne more questions drop em in my inbox
-kelly
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umm, i think you should just tell him, right now i just dont feel the same way about you, i need to take a break, for a little while, or something...
kaytie<3
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well you two should agree on maybe dating new people for awhile. and when you two get back together tell a couple of things he could improve on and also ask what you can do to be abetter g-friend.
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