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ok well im a 15/f and my bf is a 16/m. we have been together for over a year now and i know what people are going to say your 15 sex can wait and i know it can. i mean i want to wait until later on in life but yet i sometimes feel like im ready to do it with him.. i mean me and him have talked about it before and he says he thinks hes ready but it all depends on me. i mean i love him to death and never felt this way about a guy before..he tells me he loves me alot and wouldnt make me do anything i wouldnt want to..hes told me that hes never felt this way and wouldnt know what to do if he lost me. but i mean when i say i want to i know for a fact ill chicken out because im so self conscience and like because of pain and possible bleeding. we talked about it last night and like when he wants to and stuff but he told me its up to me. like how do i know if im ready? how bad does it hurt? and like would i bleed alot? like i dont want to screw up and stuff like im scared to do it how do i get over it?
sorry its so long
thanks
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I'm going to give you some sites because they will say it much better than I could. :)
http://www.pamf.org/teen/sex/virginity/
http://www.scarleteen.com/sexuality/ftmemoir.html
And an excellent source of all things for teens...
http://www.coolnurse.com/
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so my friend told me to put the words "Via Hiptop" in my AIM profile. what does that mean? (link)
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This is what I found. I don't understand it much but perhaps it will shed some light for you. :)
via hiptop
a phrase which appears in the profile of someone connected to AIM with a hiptop device, such as a T-Mobile Sidekick, Sidekick II, Sidekick LE, hiptop, hiptop2, etc. The hiptop is the brainchild of Danger. Learn more about the hiptop at hiptop.com.
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can someone please find me a link the the FIFA World Cup seeding chart?! i was looking at it yesterday and i cannot find it for some odd reason!
i will rate 5's if you can get me the link! thanks! (link)
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Hope this is of some help. :)
http://sportsillustrated.cnn.com/2005/writers/grant_wahl/08/17/us.rankings/index.html
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Ok so i want to know what are the grades called from 9th to 12th I know that 9th is a freshman but what`s 10th, 11th, & 12th? Answer it like it is down below ok thnx!
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9th is a freshman (as you know)
10th is a sophomore
11th is a junior
12th is a senior
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Ive seen this girl I like. How do I go about asking her out on a date? What are the steps and how do I do it?
Im a 15/m nearly 16. Please help, I rate 5's for great advice. (link)
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Its a little scary the first time you ask someone out on a date. Mostly because of the fear they might turn you down. If you ever want a date though, you just have to make yourself do it. It should get easier after the first time.
Since you're probably out of school already, you just call her on the phone. Might be easier than
doing it in person anyway. You ask her if she would like to go to the movies with you on Friday night (place and day of your choice).
If she says no, then you say OK thanks and find another girl to ask out. Don't let it intimidate you and don't give up on asking.
If she says yes, then you arrange a time to pick her up, decide if you want to go eat first, all those kinds of things. Have an idea of what you want to say and even write it down if it makes it easier.
Good luck! Hope she says yes. If she doesn't get right back on the floor and ask someone else. :)
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I'm feeling bad about something. Well last night after work one of my friends asked me if I'd like to go out to the bar to meet one of her single guy friends. She said he was really nice but he had a handicap- he walks with two canes. Well I met him and he was a nice guy- he kept engaging me in converstation. What I didn't like was he seemed a little pushy- he was already asking what I was doing on my day off and wanted my number. I gave it to him out of guilt. Honestly I was not attracted to him- his handicap had nothing to do with it. Anyways I told my friend afterwards that he was a nice guy but I didnt want to date him- she said "why"? He would treat you like gold- and thinks it's because of his handicap. I told her I just didnt feel a chemitsry. She said she understands. Anyways- what am I going to do when this guy phones me? (link)
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I can understand your not feeling a connection with someone the first time you meet them. Just to make it a fair decision though I want to give you a point to ponder.
It could be that with his handicap, he finds it difficult to meet women, nice guy or not. No way am I saying you should give him a pity date...don't take it that way. I'm just wanting to point out that he could have been a little over eager when you first met. That might have been why he seemed pushy at first, and could have been the turn off.
So, if in the back of your head you are thinking, he was such a nice guy but I just wish he hadn't been so pushy, try talking to him about that. Tell him you wouldn't mind meeting as friends and getting to know him better. Let him know he is being pushy! It may help him in the future if you don't want to date him.
If you really just didn't like him though then tell him you just aren't interested in getting into a relationship right now. Treat him as you would any other guy. :)
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I'm 17/f and I've known my best friend since we were both 6, and I spend a lot of time at her house. She has a younger brother, who is 14 and a sophomore next school year. So he's kind of like my little brother too. Anyway, I found out a couple of weeks ago that he is getting into pot. I'm not into that at all, and neither are my friends, and I was really pissed off when I found out, because I considered him smarter than that. One of his new friends has already been arrested for bringing it to school, and I'm so worried that he's going to screw up and get caught. He's a smart kid, and he's got a lot going for him. His sister knows what he's doing, but he told her if she tells their parents he'll hurt her. And unfortunately, I think he's serious. My friend is losing a lot of sleep over this, and I keep worrying about him, too. So my question(s): I know you can't get addicted physically to pot, but what about mentally? Will this lead to him doing other stuff? Is this something we need to let him do on his own, or should we tell someone? I'm kind of stuck. I care about him a lot, and I just don't want to see him screw himself over. Any input is appreciated. Thanks! (link)
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It is illegal and he is underage so addictive or not he shouldn't be smoking it. He is breaking all kinds of rules that could have serious consequences. Someone needs to let his parents know to keep him out of trouble.
As for his threats to hurt her, whats he going to do? Do you think her parents would let him? Very doubtful. He will be mad for sure but I don't think his threat carries much weight. At 17
your friend shouldn't let a 14 year old intimidate her.
People can become "dependent" on almost anything.
Try denying a coffee drinker their morning coffee! So yes, a person can become dependent on it. Good or bad.
I think weather it leads to "other stuff" just depends a lot on the person. I have known those who smoke it and get up and go to work everyday and are seemingly not affected much, others are rather lazy. None of them moved on to bigger addictions. Some do though I'm sure.
I think, considering his age, his parents need to be told. Might start by letting them know about this new friends having been arrested for it. Probably not a person they want their son to hang around with. Doesn't mean he can't be friends at school out of their sight though.
I have to advise telling. Hard as it will be, because we don't know for sure what it could lead to. Better to be on the safe side. :)
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I'm 17 & been with my boyfriend who's 18 for awhile now and we have an amazing connection. Our relationship is healthy, fun, and still growing. I'm a virgin, he's not. He's not exactly pressuring me, but when we're both in the mood he'll want to go further. I feel like I lead him on too. How do I tell him it will happen but for now, I'm not ready and pressuring me doesn't help. (link)
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You just tell him like you told us. Explain that if it seems you are leading him on it isn't anything you're doing intentionally.
Just sit down with him and let him know what is acceptable and what is not. Be sure you have the talk before things start heating up.
You aren't doing anything wrong at all. You do need to talk to him though to avoid any misunderstandings. :)
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Hi! i am from India. my baby is 2 yrs old and since me and my husband are both working i have arranged for a babysitter for her for 8-9 hours. my question is : how does baby sitting help her and how does it harm her? i am very confused and require advice on babysitting and what should i look in a good babysitter? (link)
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Here are some basic tips. I want to add that if you EVER feel something isn't quite right...trust those instincts.
http://www.ehow.com/how_3328_find-baby-sitter.html
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ok so abot 4 weeks ago i cracked my collar bone. And it dosn't really hurt anymore but there is this huge bump. It's not supposed to be healed for about another week and a half but i'm worried is this gunna go away?
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Its a calcium deposit and it will probably be there forever. It is where the bone is healing.
My hubby graceful guy that he is has broken both of his. Both have knots on them.
Oh, he didn't break them at the same time. :)
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im 14/f and my friend is hooking me up with this guy and we've been talking online but no matter how much i try to get off the subject hes always like what will you let me do to you the 1st time we meet will you let me finger you n all that shit
and im like really uncomfertable because i never kiss a guy before and i feel like different
should i meet this guy or is he just using me for head
please help
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Sounds like someone to stay away from to me.
He hasn't even met you yet and can only think of one thing!
You are right to feel uncomfortable about it. That is what they call intuition. Always listen to it.
Really, you don't want this guy in your life. I wouldn't even talk to him online anymore. :)
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Hi, I keep getting notices in my email that say there is a question in my inbox, or someone answered my questions, and when I come to the advicenators site, it also says that I do have questions and answers waiting for me. But then I check it and there's nothing there, even though it says that there's "Inbox (1)" or something like that.
What's going on? Just a glitch or something?
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More than likely the question was deleted. Either by the one asking the question or it may have been a duplicate question and been deleted by a moderator.
I do know a lot of questions by one user were deleted today because it was asked to over 15 different people...which isn't allowed. :)
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okay im really scared. because i just shaved uhh "down there" for the first time and now its turning red. is this like, really really really bad?\\13f
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Its irritated. Now that its done use baby powder and maybe some lotion. Whichever you have on hand or whichever works best for you.
Here is a website with some tips that may help you avoid the irritation in the future. :)
http://www.free-beauty-tips.com/pubichair.html
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Funny how you gave 5's to those who laughed (haha) at you. Just thought you might like tips on how to make it feel better. Silly me :)
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Im 17 and i have had my Period 6 Years. This is the Second time i have missed my Period the first time was when i first started. I usually start around the 21 and last month i didnt. And it hasnt started yet. Im not sexually active any more. So i havent had sex in a good 9 months. Should i just wait. And see if i ever start? (link)
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If you haven't been sexually active, just wait it out. You probably just missed a month. It isn't unheard of. :)
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im having revival at my church all this week. i forgot to ask off from work, and im the type of person that hates to inconvenience people. i got someone to work for me monday. my only two days are today and friday. today, im supost to be training a new girl(about the 5th one theyve had me train),so, their definetely gonig to be inconvenienced. plus, tomorrow,i have a family graduation party to go to. i just feel bad asking for the whole week off, and inconveniencing them. any ideas on what i can say?
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Just explain what it is you are wanting to do with them. Most places of business try to accommodate their good employees whenever possible.
Since they trust you enough to let you train people, they must consider you a pretty good employee. Even if they are unable to give you the entire week off, maybe they will someone help you get as many days off as possible. :)
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Hey, i'm looking for a digital camera, small, not over 200. any suggestions on some good ones? thanks. (link)
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At Walmart I bought a Kodak easy share camera. I am very happy with it. Takes good pictures and has a lot of features. :)
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When i made this account i had a email account. but since then like a month ago i had to delete that email account and i read that you have to have a valid email account is there a way i can put in my new email?
I really wouldnt like to get suspended from this site. (link)
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Contact Dangernerd with your new address.
dangernerd@gmail.com
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Hi, i am 15 nearly 16 and my teenage years which i should be enjoying are being ruined. ever since i was young i have had an obsession with babies and at one point i almost slept with someone i had only just met, to get pregnant. luckily i couldn't go through with it and after a while and a great deal of thinking i managed to bottle these feelings up and get on with my life and hopefully get a degree to become a high school teacher. Since i have entered year 10 i have been taking child development which is 90% about babies, also a girl in the year below me is pregnant and is really excited and I'm just so jealous! everyone i have talked to said "it just my hormones" or "its just a faze" but its not, its more than that. it is making me depressed and my GCSE's are suffering because i cant tell the teachers why i am always so down and moody so they just assume i am being immature, then cocky when i say that I'm not being immature. I'm not a big clubbing fan so if i did get pregnant that wouldn't bother me and my best mate had a child at 16 (she is now 19) and she says its great and she hasn't missed out anything she wouldn't sacrifice anyway. please help me, i just don't no what to do! (link)
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My guess is your friend has parents who did all the sacrificing. Unless she is married to a husband with a decent job. That really isn't fair to them, nor is it exactly taking responsibility for your actions.
The cost of having a baby and taking care of it yourself are astronomical. Been there done that.
It really isn't fair to a baby or your parents.
Concentrate your efforts on getting your education so you can provide a good home for a child one day. You'll want a home of your own.
And go out and have fun with your friends. Make yourself do it. Those kinds of things only come around once in a lifetime. :)
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All these girls in my school wear low cut shirts, and short short skirts. My school dosen't enforce the dress code at all. What bothers me is when I'm caught looking at some girl's clevage they say things like, "Hey!" I just get kinda angry because why do all these girls wear clothes like that then not like it when people stare at there ass n' stuff. I just don't get it. They get all upset when guys try to touch them and stuff. That I can understand. But they have to understand that gusy act like that becaues they dress the way they do. My question is: Why do girls dress like that, then be mad at everyone for acting the way that they do? (link)
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I suppose because they get away with it.
Next time one of them says something like that to you, politely tell them that if they don't want ogled by guys with healthy hormones...wear a turtle-neck. :)
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This probly a really stupid question.
But what are Cankles and how do you know if you have them. And i was watching this show and a few guys on it said that they wouldnt date someone that had cankles.
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It is someone who has very large lower legs.
It is a mix of calf and ankle. The persons calf is so big around you can't tell where the calf ends and the ankle begins. :)
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