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just not ready
I'm 17 & been with my boyfriend who's 18 for awhile now and we have an amazing connection. Our relationship is healthy, fun, and still growing. I'm a virgin, he's not. He's not exactly pressuring me, but when we're both in the mood he'll want to go further. I feel like I lead him on too. How do I tell him it will happen but for now, I'm not ready and pressuring me doesn't help.
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Just sit down with him one day and tell him it will happen just not now. He should understand because if you just hide what you want to say chances are it might happen anyway.Since you said you lead him on maybe he thinks that you want to just talk to him about it.♥
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You need To explain to him that you are not ready and that you will let him know when you are. Pretty much what you told us. If you feel like you lead him on. Explain to him that you dont mean to. Atleast not to the Point o have sex.
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Hi, just tell him that your just not ready yet to have sex. Have you both thought about contreception? Sex without contreception can be risky because you can get things like Genital Warts or the herps virus. Remember to tell him that "if it's not on then it's not on" if you get the meaning. You don't want to have sex, then thats fine. Remember that it's your body and you decide who does what with it. Daniel.
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well if you think he is going way too far then just say im not ready for this and just be brave
Armina103
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You say exactly what you told us.
"It will happen eventually, but for right now I'm not ready and with you pressuring me it's not helping me."
If he cares about you, he'll understand and respect your wishes.
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You just tell him like you told us. Explain that if it seems you are leading him on it isn't anything you're doing intentionally.
Just sit down with him and let him know what is acceptable and what is not. Be sure you have the talk before things start heating up.
You aren't doing anything wrong at all. You do need to talk to him though to avoid any misunderstandings. :)
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