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What di I do?
Ive seen this girl I like. How do I go about asking her out on a date? What are the steps and how do I do it?
Im a 15/m nearly 16. Please help, I rate 5's for great advice.
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well try to be a bit more friendly than you usually would like if you are watching a movie with her and she is leaning on you then maybe stroke her arm with your hand/finger. or just give her nice looks as you walk past.... really just be an overally smoothy. but dont go rushing into things. sometines speed is bad (believe it or not) the longer you wait and give signs the more she will feel for you and the greater your chances will be. but when you ask her out (hopfully you will get to that stage). dont actually say the words "will you go out with me" as it makes you seem...kind of.... normal and not romantic. just say how you have felt fot however long you have felt it for and maybe run your hand through her hair and if it feels right kiss here but as i said speed is bad go slowly and see how she reacts.
if she pulls away and says no then just close your eyes... look donw and say sorry i dont know why i did that. basically say that u must have gone too fast and it wont happen again. but never give up mate.... if she is the real thing never give up!
Best wishes im sure ull do fine :D good luck
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well dont be pushy or something most girls dont like that. just be cool sit next to her on the bus in class or whenever and ask like it's no big deal.and dont be suprisd if she's gonna be a little shocked or something (if she really likes you i think she will be) if she sais no then dont be all sad just say okay and leave her alone and then you can be sad later. but i'm pretty sure she will say yes =)
good luck
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If you're really nervous about asking her out, how about trying to arrange a group date the first time? If there are a few of you it gives you the chance to talk to her in a more relaxed environment, then, if you get on well, you could ask her if next time you could make it just the two of you.
It is a very scary thing to do but if you like her that much it's worth going for. After the first time, it should get easier. Ask her to something where you don't have to talk all the time if you're concerned about 'drying up', like a movie or amusement park etc. Keep it low pressure for both of you. If the first date is a success, you could try a second where you are more able to spend time talking and finding out about each other.
If you remember she is likely to be nervous as well, it may help.
Best of luck to you.
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The best thing to do is to talk to her and get to know her be nice we like it when guys are nice. But not too nice then we know you are trying to hard. But yeah talk to her sometimes and get to know her and then later ask her on a date.
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Its a little scary the first time you ask someone out on a date. Mostly because of the fear they might turn you down. If you ever want a date though, you just have to make yourself do it. It should get easier after the first time.
Since you're probably out of school already, you just call her on the phone. Might be easier than
doing it in person anyway. You ask her if she would like to go to the movies with you on Friday night (place and day of your choice).
If she says no, then you say OK thanks and find another girl to ask out. Don't let it intimidate you and don't give up on asking.
If she says yes, then you arrange a time to pick her up, decide if you want to go eat first, all those kinds of things. Have an idea of what you want to say and even write it down if it makes it easier.
Good luck! Hope she says yes. If she doesn't get right back on the floor and ask someone else. :)
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dont leave it too long, she mnight get taken. try and ake oppertunities to talk to her and flirt with her and then just honestly ask her out. Give her time to think about it if she needs, as long as your not sleezy and dont use a "line" she'd be lucky to have you. good luck xxxx
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calm down lover boy. just take it slow watch her find out things she like use that to your advantage and when the time is right put those things into action by find out what she like you wont go wrong.
JAzzy**
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