i am a really bubbly person and i like to be around the gals, but im not very confident when it comes to love. i am in a bit of a pickle right now actually and i have been asking for help :(
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Location: london
Occupation: student
Age: 16
Member Since: June 11, 2006
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i've had a crush on this guy for what feels like forever. he seems perfect for me and he flirts with me. he's really nice and really like him. i wish we could go out but both of us are extremely shy about that and so i don't know what to do. if i don't tell him how i feel i'll feel like i'll never be able to tell him. what can i do? (link)
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if you want to go out with him then just litterally tell him how you feel, and if you are sure that he likes you then it will all be perfect. maybe you should tell him how you feel and as you get more intimet (cant spell sorry) you should move closer to him and when it comes to the final thing you say he may either kiss you or you kiss him... but take your time as speed kills ! never rush into it. do it when it feels right and only ONLY if you want to
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Ok, so recently I met this guy I'll call George. I was out with a few friends and we had a good time together. I had met George before that time, but I didn't really talk to him. When I did, George and I got along very well and I began to have feelings for him. The next day, I found that he liked me too. Then, the day after that, I found that my friend, Bob, likes me. Unfotunately, I do not have feelings for him other than those of friendship. I'd hate to hurt him and I don't know what to do. Any suggestions are welcome. (link)
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i would say tell him how you feel, i have to be honest (i am telling the truth) i had feelings for my friend and now one of my other friends is going out with her, i am fine, when she told me i was quite happy as i new she was... if you tell bob that u dont have feelings for him but i do for "george" then i think the may be happy for you and maybe be able to give you some advice. but i wouldnt worry about it if he is a good friend then he will understand.
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Ive seen this girl I like. How do I go about asking her out on a date? What are the steps and how do I do it?
Im a 15/m nearly 16. Please help, I rate 5's for great advice. (link)
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well try to be a bit more friendly than you usually would like if you are watching a movie with her and she is leaning on you then maybe stroke her arm with your hand/finger. or just give her nice looks as you walk past.... really just be an overally smoothy. but dont go rushing into things. sometines speed is bad (believe it or not) the longer you wait and give signs the more she will feel for you and the greater your chances will be. but when you ask her out (hopfully you will get to that stage). dont actually say the words "will you go out with me" as it makes you seem...kind of.... normal and not romantic. just say how you have felt fot however long you have felt it for and maybe run your hand through her hair and if it feels right kiss here but as i said speed is bad go slowly and see how she reacts.
if she pulls away and says no then just close your eyes... look donw and say sorry i dont know why i did that. basically say that u must have gone too fast and it wont happen again. but never give up mate.... if she is the real thing never give up!
Best wishes im sure ull do fine :D good luck
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I'm a little on the ugly side if you ask me.
I don't have a boyfriend ; while all my friends do and I feel left out. It's getting to the point where I'm moody and depressed ALL the time ; and it sucks. I really want a boyfriend. How can I make myself more attractive and look better.
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Also I have another question; My best friend always talks about her boyfriend and it pisses me off. I've told her to stop because it makes me feel left out but she still hasn't. (I've told her many of times) How can I make her stop? (link)
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well first off the more you think about yourself that way, the more deppressed you will get. i used to do this, and my mate told me to stop and it all changed. you are beautiful to whoever the luck lad is who will ask you out. dont think no one wants you because no one has asked you...
it is not a question of making yourself look better but a question of who is right for me. try to go bye personality and not looks...the girl i am liking now isnt the mos beautiful girl admittedly but i love her personality and that is all that matters. looks change quicley and personalitys dont.
as for your friend, if she doesnt stop then is she really a good friend. and if she doesn't stop after a few heart to hearts about how you are feeling then give her a nice slap and see if that clears her head a bit
:D ne ways good luck with what you do and there is some one out there for all of us, sometimes there is two... i like to call that the jackpot!
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hi - ok so i really like this guy. he lives like down the road from me, and we have gone out before. we dont go to the same school, so when we went out it was hard to see each other b/c we are both involved in sports. when we went out we both cheated on eachother, and since we never saw eachother - we just thought it was best to break up. btw, i was his first gf, first kiss, first like everything. this was all in february. now its june, and i want a new chance at him. he says that he likes me, but not enough for us to go out. he told me hes scared that if we go out, he will sqrew things up for us. bc i like him more than he likes me. i really want a second chance with him. do i deserve it? what can i do to convince him to be with me? should i move on? how? please help. i rate high (link)
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i agree with carollani, if this guy is playing hard to get then let him and dont chase him.
if you went out befor then it would be fair enough for you to get back together, but due to the situation fo you both cheating it wouldnt be wise to get back together. as it can only turn out for the worse unless it is true love which me may not feel untill we are much older. but it is not for us to tell you what to do only you can decide and what ever you do he has to think it is the best interests of the both of you. and if he doesnt then you deserve better.
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last night the kid i like asked me out, the only thing is, i dont want a boyfreind right now because there is only 7 days left of the school year until summer! and i go away alot in the summer and i just want to be free and hang and chill and stuff. so i wouldn't be able to see him a lot. so i told him no, but didn't handle it the best way. i like him still and i want him to like me, but i feel bad! what should i do? talk to him about it? still flirt with him? (link)
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well my advice to you is to do wat you think is best. would you like to have a goyfriend at this time?, but if you do talk to him and do happen to go out with him then it will be easy enough as all men know we are easy. it is much harder for us to ask girls out as you dont show signs as much as blokes. so i would say to you if you think he could cope with not seeing you because you are on holiday then do it. but only if you think it is right :D good luck with watever you choose
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