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boyfriend.


Question Posted Thursday June 8 2006, 1:19 pm

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I'm a little on the ugly side if you ask me.
I don't have a boyfriend ; while all my friends do and I feel left out. It's getting to the point where I'm moody and depressed ALL the time ; and it sucks. I really want a boyfriend. How can I make myself more attractive and look better.

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Also I have another question; My best friend always talks about her boyfriend and it pisses me off. I've told her to stop because it makes me feel left out but she still hasn't. (I've told her many of times) How can I make her stop?


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Mrluvaluva answered Sunday June 11 2006, 3:35 pm:
well first off the more you think about yourself that way, the more deppressed you will get. i used to do this, and my mate told me to stop and it all changed. you are beautiful to whoever the luck lad is who will ask you out. dont think no one wants you because no one has asked you...
it is not a question of making yourself look better but a question of who is right for me. try to go bye personality and not looks...the girl i am liking now isnt the mos beautiful girl admittedly but i love her personality and that is all that matters. looks change quicley and personalitys dont.

as for your friend, if she doesnt stop then is she really a good friend. and if she doesn't stop after a few heart to hearts about how you are feeling then give her a nice slap and see if that clears her head a bit

:D ne ways good luck with what you do and there is some one out there for all of us, sometimes there is two... i like to call that the jackpot!

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lover_gurl answered Friday June 9 2006, 12:48 am:
well do any guyz lik you? just be yourself..i did and i waz nice...for somereason guys like gurls that are nice...say hi to every 1 that passes you and you can get some 1 to like you...and also bout your friend u cant realy make her stop talking bout him..it just comes natural...even when they break up..she will talk bout him for a few weeks hope it helped

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xOViLLYxO answered Thursday June 8 2006, 5:23 pm:
1.Don`t say your ugly because you probbly aren`t you might just think that.Sooner or later a perfect guy will come to you but you shouldn`t be worried about not having a boyfriend it's better being single.Just spend more time putting on make up and doing your hair but don`t change yourself just because of guys or wanting a boyfriend.
2.Seems like she`s trying to piss you off on purpose and rubbing it in your face next time she does it just tell her to shut her mouth and be mad at her for a while she will realize it`s ignorant of her to do.

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NyCsweetie answered Thursday June 8 2006, 5:08 pm:
1st. If you think your ugly, its more likely that other people will too. its ok to spend a little more time fixing urself up in the morning, but dont get obsessed. the best thing you can do to make urself look "better" is to show people that you feel good about yourself.
Don't worry too much about not having a boyfriend. i know exactly how your feeling, i went through something similar a couple months ago. i found that just having friends who are boys can take your mind off of ur lack of a boyfriend. and i got to be friends with a really great guy who asked me out after we knew eachother that well. i think in most cases, good friends who are boys tend to make the best boy friends.

2nd. sounds like she likes making you jealous. i dont think theres any better way to get her to stop than asking. if its possible after all the gloating, just try to be happy for her. whatever you do, don't let her get under your skin.

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DefinedEyes answered Thursday June 8 2006, 5:02 pm:
I'm sure you are beautiful. There is no ugly, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. & Beauty is skin deep!
I know it sucks to not have a boyfriend when all your friends do, you are left questioning whats wrong wwiht me? I dont have a boyfriend, and some of my friends do. To be honest, I wanted a boyfriend really bad too at a point, I even felt desperate, but dont be depressed about it, beacuse what will guys think of you then? They look for independent girls, who are strong and can be themselves, and most importantly you need to be able to be happy by yourself without a guy.
You dont need to make yourself more attractive, because then if you get a guy by making yourself prettier its obvious he only wants you because of your looks, and I dont think you would want that right?
Just wait, it takes time but a guy will come to you, and I know you probably hate hearing that, I did too. But its the truth, focus on life, and living it to the fullest, and a guy will find you.
Because nobodys perferct for everyone but everyone is perfect for someone!

Well if your friend doesnt understand that it bugs you, and you've told her how you feel, tell her again, and be serious, if she still doesnt stop, then tell her for the last time, try to make her understand.


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