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ugh i feel bad
last night the kid i like asked me out, the only thing is, i dont want a boyfreind right now because there is only 7 days left of the school year until summer! and i go away alot in the summer and i just want to be free and hang and chill and stuff. so i wouldn't be able to see him a lot. so i told him no, but didn't handle it the best way. i like him still and i want him to like me, but i feel bad! what should i do? talk to him about it? still flirt with him?
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tell him how you feel about him, but also mention about staying single in the summer. Tell him that you won't be able to see him, and you'll also meet other people, but get his phone number and talk to him over the summer. make sure that your friendship stays strong so that when you go back to school, you can start dating again. i hope i helped! &hearts:
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well my advice to you is to do wat you think is best. would you like to have a goyfriend at this time?, but if you do talk to him and do happen to go out with him then it will be easy enough as all men know we are easy. it is much harder for us to ask girls out as you dont show signs as much as blokes. so i would say to you if you think he could cope with not seeing you because you are on holiday then do it. but only if you think it is right :D good luck with watever you choose
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You need to explain all of this to him, and say that you're sorry you said it the way you did. However, DO NOT flirt with him. Telling a guy you can't be his girlfriend and then flirting with him...that would be like putting chocolate cake in front of a little kid and saying "You can't eat this." It could seriously hurt him, emotionally. Your reason for not wanting to go out with him is a good one--make sure that he knows it wasn't because of him! Patch things up before it's too late, you don't want to spend your entire summer with this hanging over you.
-Lea
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Tell him the same stuff that you said on here. It would be too hard for you to have a boyfriend over the summer because you travel alot. Tell him that you still like him. I wouldn't start flirting with him until you talk to him about this. He might get mixed signals.
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Talk to him and tell him your reasons for not wanting to date anyone right now and maybe you can start things after summer is over and your a little more settled down.
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Tell him that you like him, but for the summer you want to stay single. Tell him when the new school year starts, you'd love to see if you guys could be something more than friends. He'll understand. You can still flirt with him, after the fact that you told him next year would be better for a relationship. I think he'll be okay with it because a lot of people like to just have fun over the summer. Hopefully this helped. =)
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