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Confused About What I Should Do...
Ok, so recently I met this guy I'll call George. I was out with a few friends and we had a good time together. I had met George before that time, but I didn't really talk to him. When I did, George and I got along very well and I began to have feelings for him. The next day, I found that he liked me too. Then, the day after that, I found that my friend, Bob, likes me. Unfotunately, I do not have feelings for him other than those of friendship. I'd hate to hurt him and I don't know what to do. Any suggestions are welcome.
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i would say tell him how you feel, i have to be honest (i am telling the truth) i had feelings for my friend and now one of my other friends is going out with her, i am fine, when she told me i was quite happy as i new she was... if you tell bob that u dont have feelings for him but i do for "george" then i think the may be happy for you and maybe be able to give you some advice. but i wouldnt worry about it if he is a good friend then he will understand.
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No matter What or How you tell this friend of yours that you don't have feelings for him, he will Definitely get hurt. It's natural. Being turned down by the people we like Really Hurts.
Just be honest with him. Tell him that you don't want to go beyond being friends. If he takes this positively, then good for you. If not, remember that you still have this "other guy" to lean on. ;)
Hope I helped you a lil' bit!
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Dont do anything
if bob hasnt asked you out yet then keep on actin natural.
but if he does end up asking you out lay it down for him, don't throw him a bone and be like "i just don't want a boyfriend right now" because that will give him hope that in the future you will go out. so i think you should just chill out until he actually does something; or go out with George.i doubt he'll do anything then.
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if you dont like bob then dont go out with him. and since you like george, i say GO FOR IT. i know its hard, but i bet bob just has a crush on you, so its not to bad. ofcorse it will hurt him at first, but just be honest with him. say something like im sorry, but i really dont think we would work out as anything more than being boyfriend and girlfirend. its straight to the point, short, the truth but also not really harsh. or you could Always go the round of i think of you more as a brother. that always gets the point across. dont worry, go for george. since you like him, dont worry about someone else who you dont like. thats just silly. good luckk
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talk to bob about it... thats basically the only thing you can do... if he likes you he would understand where your coming from and appreciate that you were so honest and nice about the whole thing... i know you dont want to hurt him.... but in the process of doing that make sure your not hurting yourself. he will eventually move on.. you and goerge should give things a shot.... well i hope i helped
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