im 14/f and my friend is hooking me up with this guy and we've been talking online but no matter how much i try to get off the subject hes always like what will you let me do to you the 1st time we meet will you let me finger you n all that shit
and im like really uncomfertable because i never kiss a guy before and i feel like different
should i meet this guy or is he just using me for head
chakra answered Monday June 12 2006, 11:55 am: Don't meet him! Your 14 years old, just a child, i'm guessing he's older than you. He's only wanting sex, please dont meet him, if you do, who knows what he'll do to you, he sounds like a piedophile. [ chakra's advice column | Ask chakra A Question ]
brunettebabe answered Saturday June 10 2006, 5:06 pm: does your friend personally know him? this guy sounds like a perv meet guys on your own tell him politely that your not the right girl for him.. i think he is just trying to get some booty [ brunettebabe's advice column | Ask brunettebabe A Question ]
passionx0x answered Saturday June 10 2006, 11:16 am: This guy sounds majorly skecthy. You shouldn't meet people off line. They could be sexual predators, and never give your address, full name, or any personal info. Be safe when online, the internet is a lovely, but dangerous place. [ passionx0x's advice column | Ask passionx0x A Question ]
kristen22 answered Saturday June 10 2006, 1:41 am: I didn't even read what every one else wrote you but I'm sure there saying the same thing I'm about to say. He's just using you...or shall I say planning on it. Don't meet him. You deserve better than that. The first conversations you should be having with a boy is him wanting to get to know you, not wanting to know what you can do for him. [ kristen22's advice column | Ask kristen22 A Question ]
jumadel answered Saturday June 10 2006, 1:18 am: Hi there, the answer is no. No you should not meet this guy because:
a) He does'nt sound like a very nice man if he's talking about sex the first time he meets you! Especially if he has'nt even met you in person!
b) Theres always the risk that he might be a bad person and might do something to you e.g Drug you, rape you, beat you. (Online could be dangerous!)
c) Not if he does'nt meet your standards as a friend or boyfriend. Especially if you feel uncomfortable.
My strongest advice would to not meet him, and keep safe when online.
You don't know who could be on the other side of the computer?
SoInToYoUx0x answered Saturday June 10 2006, 12:55 am: PERVERT DONT GO OUT WITH HIM. that is him tellin the reason he wants to go out with you is to get in your pants i wouldnt do it if i were you.
♥ Steph [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
karie28 answered Saturday June 10 2006, 12:31 am: If I were you, i'd STOP talking to him and hell, i would NEVER, ever meet him. He just wants to meet you because he wants to release his "horniness"(uh, i can't come up with a more appropriate term, sorry!) and that's through you. Guys like him aren't worth your precious time, dearie.
Just find another guy who will treat you with respect and a guy whom you will feel secure with.
xfoolishlovex1 answered Saturday June 10 2006, 12:08 am: if this guy is already pressuring you to do stuff your not confortable with than hes not someone you want to get involved with other than friends. And anyways.. you want your first kiss and other stuff to be special with someone you really love and trust.
karenR answered Saturday June 10 2006, 12:01 am: Sounds like someone to stay away from to me.
He hasn't even met you yet and can only think of one thing!
You are right to feel uncomfortable about it. That is what they call intuition. Always listen to it.
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