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my mom got a phone call she doesnt know from who but she says it was some white guy(i dont talk to any white guys so idk who it even was) that told her that i wasnt a virgin and that i had sex my bf at his house and that i thought i was pregnant and that i am on birth control. more then half of that was a lie thank god she believed me but now she wants to get me checked out. she took away one pack of my birth control and told me i shouldnt be takin them. (against my religion to have sex be4 gettin married) and i was almost done wit that pack so idk f it wil fuck my body up. and since i couldnt tell her i got them from planned parent hood i told her some person at school gave us them as a sample. now she wants to go to my school and find out who gave it to me. she thought i had school today when i really didnt. i wrote a note sayin i was goin to go to school instead got on the buss meet up with my boyfriend went to the beach and after when he had to go back to school i went to my best friends house. i am scared for my life right now. i throw away ALL condoms,birth control pills(a whole years worth), and the day after pill ( i am amd about that because i wanted to keep them just in case. ANY ADVICE??
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that sucks about your mom.. guys can be jerks.. he was possibly jealous and called to get back at you.. But about the other thing.. it wont mess up your body to stop in the middle of a pack or anything.. ive done it before because ive lost mine.. your period will mostlikely just come earli or a little late not to worry. Planned parenthood is just that.. they will help you out and give you what you need. they also have morning after pills incase you need thoes as well. do not be afraid to ask them.. that is what they are there for.. dont stop having sex unless its truly what YOU want to do. Religion is a decision you have to make your self and no one else should or can make it for you. Good luck with everything!
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I'm sorry because I know this isn't what you want to hear but your Mum is just trying to look out for you. Regardless of whether this person was lying to your Mum, the fact is that you are having underage sex which is also against your religion. Not only are you breaking the law but you're contradicting the beliefs your Mother raised you to have and she is every bit entitled to react this way.
Now, the best thing you can do to try to fix this situation is the one thing you will not want to do. You need to talk to her about it and be completely straight with her. Say "Mum, yes, I have been having sex. I know I'm underage and I know it's against our religion but I wanted to do it and I did. I'm sorry if I hurt you at all." If you really want my advice, you should really tell her that you skipped school as well because if someone really is out there keeping an eye on you like this, you need to tell her before someone else does.
Yes, Planned Parenthood will most likely be able to supply you with some more birth control pills but I would STRONGLY recommend that you abstain from sex until you are old enough to do it legally now. It's good to hear that you have been responsible about it, as a lot of young girls don't put themselves on the Pill. However, the fact still remains that you are only 15 and by lying to your Mother and doing these things, you're making life very difficult for yourself. You say that you are scared for your life right now. Would you have been in this position if you had held off from having sex until you were older? Or if you had talked to your Mother about it? The truth of the matter is that this is the sort of situation that arises when you break the law and lie to people snd skip school.
The best thing you can do now is to try to sort the situation out. Don't have sex at least until you are 16, talk to your Mother and apologise for what you have put her through and tell her you skipped school. Also, make sure that you catch up on anything you missed at school because I promise you that if you fall behind now, you will regret it for years to come. Sadly, I am saying this from experience, so try to work it all out like this and everything will calm down.
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