When ever me and my boyfriend have sex he is never able to get me to orgasm. When we are doing it I really don't feel anything, just the movement of him. But it doesn't make me orgasm. What can I do to become (i guess you could say) more sensitive, so that he would be able to make me orgasm?
Elcee answered Saturday June 10 2006, 10:20 am: A lot of ladies do not experience orgasm through penetration at all. Your boyfriend needs to spend more time pleasuring you externally for instance on the clitoris with his fingers. (Try doing this for yourself to begin with and then you could show him what you like) You could also buy a vibrator that the two of you could use on your clitoris (but always make sure it is clean before every use). You both sound young and inexperienced so practice will make it better. It is also quite possible that being young, and perhaps a little afraid of your parents finding out, you may not be able to relax enough to let go. Experimentation will help you both to work out ways to make it a very pleasant experience. Good luck. [ Elcee's advice column | Ask Elcee A Question ]
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