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My name is McKenzie and I'm a freshman at Reedley College, I love to help people out with problems and to write. I want to be a writer someday. I love to make friends. Ask any question and I'll attempt to answer it.

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13/m. me and my girlfriend have been going out for two months now. but im a pagan which most people think is devil worship but thats really not the case. but the point is shes christian and i dont want her to think im a devil worshiper, cuz im not, and break up with me so should i tell her about my religion or keep it ro myself?? plz help me

Tell her about it and how she can help with your religion. She'll wanna help. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Is magic real? Can you really hypnotize people? I saw this thing on tv where this guy made this girl float..sounds totally not real but if you saw it you would probably believe it. But anyways, is it actually real?

Well that's your opinion if its real or not. In my opinion magic is not real. I don't think there's a straightfoward answer to this question. Whatever you believe. Hope I helped!

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ok well me and this girl...lets call her cindy...are friends i guess but if we're around certain people she ignores me and acts like i'm not even there but if its just us then shes nice to me and we act like friends....so i don't get it are me and cindy friends or not?

Maybe she's sending different signals or maybe she gets along with others differently. Give it time. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Does anyone know where I can get a Kodak digital camera with a low price?

Try Save mart or the Dollar Store. Try convient stores. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Is it normal for a girl my age to like another girl? I mean, i don't think i'm a lesbian or bisexual, but i heard it could be normal for someone my age (which is 15 btw) to be... "curious"? am i just weird?

Its perfectly normal- you're just curious about others. I don't think you have to worry about being bisexual or lesbian. Just accept yourself for who you really are. Hope I helped!

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15/f
i have a friend, and anytime we are hanging out alone or with other GIRL friends..shes normal and acts herself. but whenever we're hanging out with guys..she acts like a complete idiot, saying stupid things, acting stupid...just making herself out to be the stupidest girl ever!! and shes not stupid at all. after a party last night me and another friend told her and she was just like "you guys do it too and i don't care what people think" we do act dumb sometimes but we never take it a far as she does and after seeing her act so stupid- we will never do it again. she does it to get attention from guys and she gets it but its totally negative attention. its funny for a while, but then it gets annoying and everyone knos shes putting on an act. how do we get her to realize what shes doing is annoying and looking bad on herself?

Just tell her that she's making herself out to be a fool in frotn of guys. If she doesn't listen, she'll see how much of a fool she acts like. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Ok I have this friend who is always calling me names like stupid and if I say something to her like o thats real smart(jokeing) shell hit me.I know she is kidding but everytime I tell her to stop she never does.How can I get her to stop calling me names and hitting me?

Tell someone because you don't deserve that from a 'friend.' If she doesn't stop, stop being her friend. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Hi guys.
Sorry if this is really long...i rate high.
Alrighty.
Well i have a boyfriend and i love him to death. We've been together for over 3 months and ever since ive knwn him he never EVER talks about his problems.
If i know somehtings wrong he'll say things like.."Its not important" or "Its nothing" when i can seeeee that its bothering him a lot. I want him to know that he doesnt need to act all tough around me. And i need him to know that he can talk to me about anything. I just dont know what to say to him.
Ive tried the usual..."you know im always here for you" and all that and he says he knows but it doesnt change anything.
Do you guys have anything i could say or do that would get him to know that im always there...and ready to listen?
Any advice is great advice!!
Thanks...
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Well he probably thinks you wouldn't understand his problems. Give him time. If its important enough and he loves you, he'll tell you what's bugging him. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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ok well i'm 13 and my boyfriend wants to have sex and i really dont think i'm ready for it.how do i tell him wiht out him thinking i dont like him anymore

Just say, I'm not ready to do this. You're way too young and you have your whole life ahead of you. You don't wanna end up married at 15 and having kids at 18. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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My one year anneversary is coming soon, and i have no idea about what to do, i want to make it special and something that me and my boyfriend will never forget, i dont want the usually movies or dinner thing, we do that almost every weekend, so i want to do something we have never done, and please dont say have sex, because we want to wait until were married, please give me some sweet and romantic ideas, im so blank right now!!! thanks in advance...♥

signed,
need your advice!!!

Give him dinner or watch the stars together. Romantic ideas are always nice. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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I am talking to my ex-boyfriend on sunday at church I am going to set down and just tell him how I feel.But I just talked to him the other day before we got off I said I love you to him and he said same to you what does that mean does he still love me? what do you think?

It means he still has feelings for you. Depending on what he did before, its your decision on whether to take him back or not. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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I recently recieved a goldfish from a friend. It's orange mostly, with clear fints, some black patches, and a blue stripe next to the fin. I THINK it's girl but i'm not sure lol. What should i name it? And is there anything imparticular i should know to help me keep a goldfish content and healthy?

Thanks,
Panda

Remember to feed her 24/7. If its a girl you might name it Wanda or Gill. Also remember to change her water once a month. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Ok, my friend is really shy about everything. Like making out, holding hands, etc. Is there any way he can be less shy with girls? Thanks!

Get him around girls a lot. That usually brings the jitters down so he'll know what to expect. Get him some friends that are girls, take a girl to the mall, movies or where he feels comfortable. He'll open up soon enough. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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can anybody suggest a really good men's cologne for me. I'm 15/m and i'm looking for something masculine, sexy and powerful, and it has to last. My price limit is $100.

Axe usually turns girls on. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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I know not to trust anyone on the internet. But what are ways to find out he is a normal, nice guy? I'm not giving out any information, i'm not that stupid. But how can I get proof from him?

Well you can't really get proof from him. Don't trust anyone and NEVER meet face to face. He may turn out as a rapist or a killer. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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my friend likes me a lot.. and he told me he did and he told my friends he did.. and sometimes all he does is tell me how much he cares about me.. but then out of nowhere he stops calling me and ignores me and then a few days later hell call me again.. why does he do this?

Maybe he just wants to see how'd you react. Guys do that sometimes. Just tell him how you feel about it and he might stop. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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ok i had asked a question this morning buti have to say something else that i need advice on that happened tonight...

ok well i just gto home from a party and this guy tommy asked me to have sex with him and i said no and he called me a tesse and alot of other guys called me a tease b/c i wouldn't let them do ne nasty stuff to me the tommy took me into a room and put duck tape on my mouth and then un zipped his pants and mine...and then he took the rest of my cloths off and made me stand on the bed naked he was just lookin @ me...then he fingered me and raped me and he told me that if i told ne one that he would do it agian and kill me...there was no way for me to go b/c hes a football wresaler and really strong...by the way im 16 and he was 18...i don't want to tell neone because hes on of my moms ex boyfriends son and she treats him like a son and i would never think that he would do nething like that...HELP what should i do?

You have to tell someone. He could be put away for raping a girl. Dial a friend for help or 911 for the police to arrest him. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Hey you guys seem to have really good taste in movies. I was wondering if you'd give me any recomendations. Anything that deals with
psychology, drug use or a movie that makes you think. I've seen Thirteen and Spun so anything else would be great. Thanks alot.

Million Dollar Baby is a good one. Try searching on the web for these movies. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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How can I get 2 sizes smaller (in jeans) fast? I use these workouts that I found in the Seventeen magazine. You're supposed to get a hot body in 2 weeks. But is there anything that I can add to it? I don't really like running because I used to a lot and it didn't help.

Don't eat a lot of fried foods, fast foods or junk food. That will add to your fat. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Alright, so I work in this fast food place, and it's pretty horrible there. It's a shady company to say the least. Anyways, I've been working there as long as the manager, and that's longer than anyone else becasue they're always hiring new people since everyone's always quitting.

Anyways, I gave my two weeks notice on Sunday, and on Sunday night the assistant manager told the manager that he had had enough because something else had happened. So I had to go in yesterday because my boss wanted to talk to me, in other words, she begged me to reconsider.

Everyone loves the assistant manager, just because he's nice and fair, so I know two guys who are going to quit because he quit. So basically, this place is screwed. Now I feel really pressured to 'reconsider' even though I really don't want to work there anymore. It's just a bad place to be, but I feel bad for my manager. What should I do?

If you don't want to work there, then just leave. Your manager will be ok. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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