Ok I have this friend who is always calling me names like stupid and if I say something to her like o thats real smart(jokeing) shell hit me.I know she is kidding but everytime I tell her to stop she never does.How can I get her to stop calling me names and hitting me?
advicemaster answered Saturday August 6 2005, 3:46 am: tell her to shut you and leave you alone. I had a friend like that once and she made me feel stupid all the time and like she was right and you know what i'm not friends with her anymore. YOu don't need a friend like that. [ advicemaster's advice column | Ask advicemaster A Question ]
karenR answered Friday August 5 2005, 7:39 am: Tell her you aren't going to hang out with someone who treats their friends as badly as she does. If she is a real friend she will knock it off. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
xcheerbabex108 answered Thursday August 4 2005, 11:48 pm: 0o0 thats a tough one. I really dont want to tell you to stop being friends with her, but maybe when shes an okay mood maybe ask her why she does that. I doubt she has a real reason, but try talking to her. And if that doesnt work, give her a break for a bit, and see how she reacts after. Just make sure if you give her a break she wont get mad.
Supermanlover45 answered Thursday August 4 2005, 9:00 pm: Tell her to knock it off. If she doesn't then just say back off and walk away. I know it's not that easy to do but trust me it will be worth it. Or you can say something like yeah your a great friend you always hit me when I joke around, or you can ask her why does she enjoy to abuse you mentally and physically. Well hope I helped! Good luck with that friend situation.
tada answered Thursday August 4 2005, 8:47 pm: TRUE FRIEND THAT YOU LOVE NEVER HITS YOU OR CALL YOU NAMES SO IMMATURE!!! but like if you ask her to stop and she doesnt just try to punch her and call her names and tell her how it feels if you dont wanna do that then you can just stop talking to her! sorry i know that not the best but hope i helped! [ tada's advice column | Ask tada A Question ]
K2204 answered Thursday August 4 2005, 7:06 pm: i had an abusive friend like that, and i never could get her to stop, i would fake a stumach ache, or something like that, to go home. or if she left the room, then i would call my mom and tell her to call me back and say I had to go home. I couldnt take it, and it never ended either, she was verbally and physically abusive, the only reason it isnt a problem now is because she moved. try to just get away from her when she starts acting like that. and tell her that you dont do that to her, and that when she does that, she is not the kind of friend that you want to have, so please stop. tell her fermly, and look her in the eye.
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ARii1433 answered Thursday August 4 2005, 7:00 pm: Wow. Talk to her. Tell her she has to stop, or she'll lose you as a friend. Make sure she knows what she did- you do NOT want to just ditch her and not tell her what went wrong. If she doesn't stop, say, "I warned you, and I was serious. I do not want to be friends with someone who constantly makes fun of me and hits me. I'm sorry." And walk away. Don't let anyone except you and her get involved. GO0D LUCK!! xo [ ARii1433's advice column | Ask ARii1433 A Question ]
cookierat123 answered Thursday August 4 2005, 6:40 pm: you need to have a firm conversation with her. tell her that you love her as a friend and all but she really needs to stop hitting you. but if she doesnt stop after that then just ignore her for awhile...give her the cold sholder. if she wants to know y your not talking to her then just tell her that she wont stop and then go back to not talking. if she says she sorry then start talking to her again. i know it sounds kinda mean but you kinda have no choice. i hope i helped and feel free to drop somthin in the inbox!
xRoOxiSxBlOnDex answered Thursday August 4 2005, 5:56 pm: If she doesn't stop then she's not that great of a friend. Just explain to her that you don't really like it. If she still doesn't listen, just don't hang out for a while. Give her time to realize that you ARE being serious.
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twistedsister17 answered Thursday August 4 2005, 5:56 pm: First of all, she is Not your friend! That is really mean! I would first ask her to not hit you. And then if she keeps doing it, I would just stay away from her or tell somebody! [ twistedsister17's advice column | Ask twistedsister17 A Question ]
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