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how do you keep your clothes from shrinking.. like jeans and shirts!! please help (Indeed)
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Avoid the dryer, iron them and stretch the clothing a bit before ironing. Turn them inside out before washing.
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What is the average height for a 12 year old? (Indeed)
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There is really no 'average' for a certain age. Everyone grows at different times. Some people will be extremely tall at 12, others won't have grown at all for another couple of years. At 12, there really is no normal. In fact, there really isn't a normal... ever.
I checked around the internet and the best for an 'average height' I could find was the following:
http://www.halls.md/chart/women-height-w.htm
And that begins at 20. Therefore, I think if you are between 3 feet tall and 6 feet tall, you're normal.
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Don't worry, the term, " I like the cut of your jib" isn't an offensive comment,most people don't understand it, it just means that i like the way you say or do things. I read your response to the guy who was talking about how to react with girls, you know that guy have gave you the rating of a one, as you so bodly responded in your edited answer. *lol* that cracks me up! I just want to applaud on the way you handle yourself and your way with words.
Much Love,
Victoria (Indeed)
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Hahaha... Jib. Seriously, such a funny word. I watch the Simpsons religiously and the episode where Homer joins the Navy and the Commanding officer says 'I like the cut of you jib' and Homer says, 'Whats a jib?' and the guy just laughs. Its pretty funny. Thank you very much for the nice words :)
And whats this... 15 and you type ::gasp:: COHERENTLY?! You truly are a miracle.
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Does anyone have any tips on how to really project through an entire auditorium while you're singing? (Indeed)
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Its best to keep your head up and at a position on the stage that allows to you to see every area of the auditorium. If you can't see audience members, then they can't hear you. Its a pretty psychologial situation, as Siren already pointed out. In my opinion, I believe it really helps to imagine an enormous voice, and to place yourself as a powerful presence on stage. Its not a good idea to just sing louder, because you'll end up coming off screaming. A lot of singers actually look at the furthest wall, and sing to the wall. If at all possible, have someone stand at the back of the auditorium that you will be singing in and then sing a little. You'll get to do that anyhow if you were practicing before hand.
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ok well here it goes: i got dis cuzin hes like a second cuzin i think nd in my opionin hes cute..but is it wrong to think that hes cute jus bcuz his ma family member? some1 helpppp (Indeed)
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You can think all you want that he's cute, but I would think twice about making any sort of move on your cousin. Your children would have genetic defects!
The law is different everywhere, but in most places, its illegal to marry a first cousin and in some places, even a second cousin. However, its not wrong to think he's cute. Most girls think their male cousins are attractive, especially when they are little and the cousins are older and they treat you so much nicer than your stupid jerk siblings.
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i find myself never being able to sleep until like 2 or 3 in tha morning everynight..i cant ever sleep so i just go on AIM or something like that..any advice? i appreciate it. thanks
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Its because you've gotten your body accustomed to sleeping at 3 in the morning every night. You need to turn yourself around. I do this by staying up a full two days without sleep and sleeping early on the second evening. Its really difficult to do because sometimes you just end up falling asleep as soon as you sit down. It is also not healthy.
Instead, why not try going to sleep slightly earlier each night, or staying off the computer a few hours before you want to go to sleep. I find that being on the computer for a long period of time makes me feel tired, but not actually be able to sleep.
If you find that you can't sleep, do not go on the computer. Just lie there in bed and think about things, but don't think about trying to fall asleep. If you think about trying to fall asleep you will never fall asleep.
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hey when my friend is on her period and she keeps telling me to do stuff forher and her excuses is always " I am on my perios and i dont feel good" and i cant help but do it for her cause i am just that good of a friend. Should i tell her to do it her damn self or keep on being a good friend? (Indeed)
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Tell her to get off her lazy ass and do it herself. People have jobs and still manage to go every day. Tell her to suck it up or start pampering you like a princess when you're in her shoes.
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when you are signed in and you click your questions the list of questions you asked pops up how do u delete that list of questions? (Indeed)
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There is no way to delete questions you've asked.
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I know this sounds really nasty but I'm bulimic, but instead of throwing up, I take laxatives. I don't know how to make myself stop. My dad knows and he isn't really doing anything to stop it. Has anyone dealt with an eating disorder who can tell me? (Indeed)
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Well for starters, stop thinking food is the enemy. You need to find ways to make yourself believe that its ok to look however you want, so long as you are happy.
There are treatment centres all over the United States that you can visit, because you do need professional help. This is way above and beyond the means of an online site.
Go here:
http://eatingdisordersonline.com/treatment/index.php and find your state and see if there is a treatment centre near you that you can visit.
Your father may be in denial about the situation. Sort of like a 'not my kid' kind of thing. Talk to your dad again, make another attempt. If he refuses to listen still, then seek help on your own.
Here is a list of things that could result if you continue hurting yourself like this. http://eatingdisordersonline.com/medical/complications.php You have to realize that there is a way to stop and that you need to find a professional to help you. You are killing yourself and no one here can really be that enormous of help compared to how much a help a true professional is. Talk to your father, make sure hes listening, if he refuses to help still, then go elsewhere for support. Tell a friend and have them come with you when you get help.
Emotional support I can help with, but you do need a professional, a doctor. Please feel free to contact me.
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Okay, I'm pregnant. I chose to see my family dotor who has been my doctor for years to go see for my checkups. The problem is everytime I have an appointment and go to tell my in-laws about it they are always comparing my doctor to thier family doctor. Like they say "well Doctor So&So would have never done it that way". And they compare the hospital I'll be delivering in to the one they go to as well. You know, it pisses me off because I think it is my decision what doctor I decide to see, especially in this time of my life, I trust my doctors because i have known them for so long. And I refuse to change doctors because I shouldn't have to. This is my choice. The problem is lately I've been trying to bite tougue my in-laws oppinions but its is getting harder. I don't want to say something mean because they are very nice to me and do alot for me and I don't want to come off disrespectful, so what can I do to keep myself from blowing up at them? (Indeed)
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Revell in the fact that these people have boring enough lives that they want to make you feel bad for a choice of doctors? Okay, maybe not.
It seems these people might actually be concered, they might actually think that their doctor is better for your health and your safety and your baby's safety. But they are wrong, because that isn't their decision to make. They might not realize that what they are saying is bothering you and they may just be saying it so you will 'see things their way' and change to a doctor that they think is best for you. By doing this, THEY are being disrespectful of you. I think you should say something, and it doesn't have to be mean, just mention that it upsets you that they don't approve of your docotr or your choices and that by saying these things to you, you feel that they think you can't make proper decisions for yourself. It would be better for you to calmly say this to them rather then eventually exploding in anger and telling everyone off or something equally scary. If you talk to them about it now, you won't ever have to worry about blowing up.
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one night i got really drunk and i was talking to this kid justin (who wasnt drunk) then i feel asleep and i wake up and im naked and hes ontop of me on the bed and hes naked and as soon as he saw me wake up he ran into the other room...i dont no what happened really...i try to ask him and he tells me that he was just touching me he didnt like rape me or nething....but i would no if we had sex right? or if we didnt nething more...i no he put it in my mouth bc i had the taste in my mouth..but i would no rigth? please help meee
PLEASE HELP! (Indeed)
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If you have had sex before, and recently - you may not be able to tell. You can get a rape test done and I would suggest you do because if you find out later that something more did happen, then there won't be any concrete proof. Having a rape test done will ease your mind in knowing and if they discover that you were in fact raped, then the guy can be held accountable. What a pile of garbage this guy is. He needs a serious kick in the face. He took advantage of you when he knew that you could not stop him, when he wasn't drunk and had full control over himself. He needs to be held accountable because if he gets away with this, he will just do it again because he knows or at least believes that he can get away without any repercussions. Go get a rape test done at the hospital, tell your parents and they can press charges.
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ok i really feel like i have an awesome boyfriend! he doesnt drink very often, and he doesnt do drugs (like weed)... which is something pretty much every guy my age does around here! well about a month ago my sister had a graduation party and my boyfriend came... there was a lot of alcohol there so we drank a lot and both got pretty drunk (its ok my parents were here to regulate!).. well about a week ago i found out that at my party my cousin gave my boyfriend cocaine, not a lot..i guess he was out of it so my bf licked the bag clean or something? just a little powder.. i dunno i dont get it. but anyways, my boyfriend doesnt even smoke WEED! so it was really hard for me to accept... and when i asked him about it, he denied it & said he didnt remember! and other ppl at the party say they think he was pressured into it.. i kinda just let the whole thing go.... do u think theres something else i should do about it? (Indeed)
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Well if hes not addicted then you just need to make sure he never 'experiments' ever again. You can get addicted from the first try. If he is, don't just get rid of him, you can help him.
Talk to him about it. If you can't communicate in a relationship then it is doomed to fail. So tell him that you've been thinking about it and all you want is for him to be honest with you.
You might want to kick the crap out of your cousin though.
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im 12 yrs old i dont know anyone who has had sex (well people my age and a couple yars older) but when i read some of these problems on advicenators most of the people are like 13 or 14 and say that they have sex a lot its kind of creepy my sisters 14 but she hasnt had sex im wondering if these people are either lying about their age or more mature than me. i feel like when im 13 or 14 that il be soo pressured into sex and stuff. i hear these unbelievable stories of guys and girls having sex since they were 12. its so perverted and i mean is it weird im not ready or as into it as other people are? (Indeed)
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It shocks me as well to be honest. Well, it used to shock me, I've since become accustomed to it I suppose. I think that (not to come off sounding extremely grandmotherish here) media has a lot to do with it. The strange thing is, this was never an issue for me because everyone thought kissing was a huge enormous deal when I was 13, apparently things have changed a lot over a couple of years. I think the reason you feel a little confused about the situation is that you are a hell of a lot less susceptible to pressure. This is a really good thing. Theres plenty of time in the world to do these things and have sex, theres no need to rush into it at 12. Its scary to think of people having sex at 12 really.
Its not weird at all, you should only be doing what you're comfortable with doing. Eventually, you'll feel a lot less weird about it and by then, all of the people have sex since they were 12 will have all contracted diseases and have kids and no job. Think it through before you have sex and if theres any doubt in your mind at all - don't do it. Good job on actually BEING mature for your age, as opposed to just thinking you're mature.
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Ok this question is for all the sexy ladies out there. Why is it that when a guy looks at a girl and makes a sound or says something about it, we get yelled at or lectured? I mean you can't tell me that you girls don't look at guys and mention something to your friends everynow amd then. I'm single and I still get yelled at for looking. So please answer. (Indeed)
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Believe it or not, girls in general don't like sounds being made at them and a guy yelling 'hey baby' doesn't really attract us to you. Why do you get yelled at for that? Well because its rude and dispite the fact that everyone likes compliments, you'll always get a negative response from a woman. We also don't really liked to be gawked at. Yea sure, we say stuff amongst ourselves about guys we see, but you see very few girls yelling out car windows like idiots telling guys they are hot. Theres the difference. There are better ways to interact rather than staring at a person. Instead of staying at a distance, go up and talk to a girl instead of yelling things or staring, that way a girl knows you are actually interested in talking to her.
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Wow, thanks for the one rating. I didn't take anything personal. Its not really my fault if you don't properly clarify what you are saying in your question and I'm not a mind reader. If you want accurate answers, provide something a little more detailed then 'making a sound'.
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How do I clean my kids' bathroom, when the thought of going in there sickens me? (Indeed)
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Make them do it. Damn bratty kids can't clean their own damn bathroom! Just kidding. But seriously make them clean it. Or at least have them help. If they know they have to do some work maybe they won't be quite so messy.
If they are far too young to even pick up a brush well... think happy thoughts because it will only get worse the longer you leave it.
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what exactly does a guy do when he eats you out? (Indeed)
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Makes use of the tongue... a lot. I can't speak from personal experience on this one however, so all I really know is that its the tongue doing the work. Not a lot of stuff grosses me out really, but this seems to hit the jackpot on the gross level to me so its agonizing for me to answer this. Anyways, he uses his tongue and I guess explores (k seriously this is killing me to even type). Theres probably some hand action thrown in there to mix things up and using the rest of the mouth besides the tongue, which would be the lips.
Be grateful, that was not easy for me to answer heh.
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whats a orgy? how do you get one? (Indeed)
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I think you may have confused orgy with orgasm, but nonetheless... An orgy is 'indulging' in a lot of something and is usually associated with a lot of sex, at once with multiple people.
How do you get one? Err... do a lot of one thing at once. Drink a lot of water! Invite some friends over and drink lots of water with them. Its an orgy of water drinking.
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i'm 12 and i started my 1st period june 15. i heard u were supposed to get it every 28 days and i'm about a week late if that's the case! could i be pregnant, i mean i havn't had sex, but could i be? plz help!
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It won't be every 28 days for possibly years. You aren't pregnant, unless you've been fooling around with someone a lot, however, its pretty damn unlikely. In fact, I'm sure you aren't.
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I had sex with my boyfriend 2 nights ago (4 times)and yesterday afternoon i started bleeding in that area. I'm not supposed to get my period for another week .. and im still bleeding..
can sex cause u to start your period early?
or is it because i was having sex for only the second time and i got my cherry popped?
why am i still bleeding? (Indeed)
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Theres a difference between bleeding like a cut and your period. Bleeding like a cut is just blood and not really a lot of it, while your period is bleeding and well, other stuff too. So, if you think it might be a cut causing you to bleed, I grabbed some info off www.scarletteen.com:
"What can you do? Wait for a week to heal up. that means no penetration of any kind. avoid tampons, manual sex, and anything else that involves something going into your vagina. If it has been more than 3 days and you're still bleeding, or you feel pain, see a doctor. your injury could be a little more serious.
In the future, use water-based lube with condoms. you're a lot less likely to bleed that way."
4 times is a lot and that might have caused your problem.
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I have auburn/light brown hair and I want to temporarily dye it. I've been told Kool-aid will work on blonde hair.. but will it work on darker hair? My natural color is almost black... so that might have an effect too....
What color of kool-aid should I use on my hair.... and will the kool-aid wash out...
my parents wont let me dye my hair permanently again... so I need something that will wash out in the next day or two....
Please help me! (Indeed)
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It won't work on your hair unless you bleach it first.
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