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Question Posted Thursday July 29 2004, 2:17 pm

ok i really feel like i have an awesome boyfriend! he doesnt drink very often, and he doesnt do drugs (like weed)... which is something pretty much every guy my age does around here! well about a month ago my sister had a graduation party and my boyfriend came... there was a lot of alcohol there so we drank a lot and both got pretty drunk (its ok my parents were here to regulate!).. well about a week ago i found out that at my party my cousin gave my boyfriend cocaine, not a lot..i guess he was out of it so my bf licked the bag clean or something? just a little powder.. i dunno i dont get it. but anyways, my boyfriend doesnt even smoke WEED! so it was really hard for me to accept... and when i asked him about it, he denied it & said he didnt remember! and other ppl at the party say they think he was pressured into it.. i kinda just let the whole thing go.... do u think theres something else i should do about it?

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Additional info, added Thursday July 29 2004, 2:24 pm:
a lot of people say it's ok to experiment.. which i understand! but i still worry.. i just want him to be honest with me.

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cowsoink answered Friday July 30 2004, 1:35 am:
I understand. It's hard for kids to say no and trying to protect sumone from them. Try not to worry about. But do try and get the truth. That's the best advice i can give you. I hope this helped!
.::Chelsea::.

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LilMia811 answered Thursday July 29 2004, 6:55 pm:
Well maybe he was so trashed that he really doesn't remember trying the stuff. Hopefully, he was just trying the stuff. If he is using, you will notice, trust me. But if I were you i really wouldn't sweat it. Good Luck! :)

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tinabina answered Thursday July 29 2004, 3:56 pm:
Well i for one will never even "expirment" with drugs. so many ppl die on the firt time the mess with them. tell him that you are worried and ask him if he does think he will expirment if he says he didnt. Peer preszure is something way to many people give into. I do to, but not for anythign liek that. I think that if you do still wanna be with him even if does get hooked on drugs, dont do it just cause he does.
hope it helps

~TiNa~

p.s. if you dotn do something about a problme, it gets bigger

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FernGully answered Thursday July 29 2004, 2:41 pm:
Well if hes not addicted then you just need to make sure he never 'experiments' ever again. You can get addicted from the first try. If he is, don't just get rid of him, you can help him.

Talk to him about it. If you can't communicate in a relationship then it is doomed to fail. So tell him that you've been thinking about it and all you want is for him to be honest with you.

You might want to kick the crap out of your cousin though.

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xo_Meg_ox answered Thursday July 29 2004, 2:23 pm:
i think that if you let it go for a while then ask him about it in the future you may get a more honest answer out of him

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icey0990 answered Thursday July 29 2004, 2:21 pm:
Your bf sounds great so its not worth getting into a fight over...it was just a dumb mistake and from what it sounds..i dont think he`ll do it again

if you want you could talk to him bout it...that would never hurt..maybe show him your concerned.

-hope i helped!-

:) meliss

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