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im such a moron!
one night i got really drunk and i was talking to this kid justin (who wasnt drunk) then i feel asleep and i wake up and im naked and hes ontop of me on the bed and hes naked and as soon as he saw me wake up he ran into the other room...i dont no what happened really...i try to ask him and he tells me that he was just touching me he didnt like rape me or nething....but i would no if we had sex right? or if we didnt nething more...i no he put it in my mouth bc i had the taste in my mouth..but i would no rigth? please help meee
PLEASE HELP!
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You have been sexually assaulted. I don't care if you don't want to tell your mother, you have to. This Justin boy could do it again. Your mother would know what to do.
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You have been sexually assaulted, whether vaginal penetration occured or not. Someone's penis was in your mouth without permission. Someone was laying on top of you without your permission. Someone might have forcibly entered your vagina - without your permission.
See the pattern?
Chances are your mother, like myself, would rather try to help you overcome this situation than focus on your drinking - though I hope you understand that irresponsible drinking is never a good choice.
Whether you were drunk or not, you were violated. I think you need to see a doctor and explain the situation - you'll need to be tested for sexually transmitted diseases and possibly pregnancy. I would also think about talking to a counselor - it's important that you have knowledgeable people to process this situation with.
Being sexually violated is similar to being beaten up - you need to check out your body and make sure it's okay, and then you need to talk through any emotional scars which might have been made.
This wasn't your fault, but you are the only one who can take responsibility for getting help.
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omg you need to talk to someone right away . tlak to your parents and ask them to take you to the doctor . if you gusy did have sex tahts rape! idc if hes your friend or not .. plz talk to someone about it. and plz keep in touch with me about this! hope i helped:) plz rate
xoxo steffy
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well .. u would kinda know .. you would be sore .. maybe sum like bleeding .. chances are if he put it in your mouth .. then who knows what else he did .. but yeah maybe you should talk to your mom n get an appointment at the doctors just to check it out ! rather be safe then sorry =]
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This is a serious situation!! what he did was wrong and violated you in every way possible. you might want to take a test to see if he really did do something more. you would rather be safe then sorry!!
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yeah thats just messed up and its sexual assault he could goto jail for what he did if you truly feel bad and its really getting to you just telly our parents
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Tell ur mom... this is not normal at all. He shouldnt hav done that. its wrong.
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How about getting checked up you know but like I dont think you can because this was probably a while ago so maybe u cant but hey if he did u could be pregant buddi and thats nto good so maybi u should think of this as BEING responsable I mean everyone makes mistakes but now think about it before you do it and go like talk to someone about this that can help u out. Kays!
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Gee,I wonder if he was raping you. I'd say so. He's on top of you,naked,you're naked,he gets off as soon as you wake up. Yeah he raped you. He put his cock in your mouth. Yeah this guy is a total fuckin loser who needs to get his ass beat. No you wouldn't know,if you're not a virgin. If your cherry was already popped then no,you wouldn't know.
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Go tell ur mommy..Thats not normal..One time i was watchin Montel Williams and they had that and a guy raped her just like that and if he saw you wake up and ran away thats not normal..
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ummm maybe u should tell ur mom n go to the doctors because things like that are nothing to mess wit so the best thing is to tell ur parents
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Got drunk, fell asleep, woke up with a naked guy in bed on top of you?
Eek.
I'm sorry to say you probably would not know if he raped you. Though if you were/are a virgin, you might be a little sore, which would be a way to tell.
A doctor would be able to tell for sure, though. by doctor I mean a gynocologist - If you're worried, get an appointment with someone and have them take a look at you.
If not, all you can do is believe the guy when he says you didn't have sex. *Shrug*
I hope this was helpful!
-Siren =)
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wow thats incredubly creepy.
You wouldn't know if he raped you or not, but a doctor would. I'm guessing it's too late to find out if it's already been a few days, but just to make sure, go to a doctor and tell them the story. Don't worry about telling them you were drunk if your under age. That kid is disgusting and needs to get punished.
Don't beat yourself up about it, you should have put "this guys is a complete loser" as a subject.
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Well you might have had sex with him. you should get one of those rape kits done! then you can get your answer! Good luck hope you figure things out!
-holly-
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Actually, there is a chance you might have not known. You should have told someone and saw a doctor and had one of those rape kits done to you, to find tou if he did have sex with you. Now I'm not sure if that could even be done, it is probably too late and that sucks cuz you're gonna be stuck with this unanswered question for the rest of your life.
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If you have had sex before, and recently - you may not be able to tell. You can get a rape test done and I would suggest you do because if you find out later that something more did happen, then there won't be any concrete proof. Having a rape test done will ease your mind in knowing and if they discover that you were in fact raped, then the guy can be held accountable. What a pile of garbage this guy is. He needs a serious kick in the face. He took advantage of you when he knew that you could not stop him, when he wasn't drunk and had full control over himself. He needs to be held accountable because if he gets away with this, he will just do it again because he knows or at least believes that he can get away without any repercussions. Go get a rape test done at the hospital, tell your parents and they can press charges.
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well first he could be lieing becuase rape is a crime. if you could be pregnant you may wanna find out. tell your mom or a friend that you can trust. If anyone eles was home/ where it happned ask if they know anything about what happend. Here are top 3 things to do.
REPORT HIM, EVEN GETING YOU NAKED AND TOUCHIGN YOU IS A CRIME!
DONT GET DRUNK ANYMORE ESPECIALLY IF YOU DONT HAVE ANYBODY THERE LIEK A FRIEND THAT WILL WATCH OUT FOR U!
O YEA.....STAY AWAY FROM THAT KID!
hope it helps
~TiNa~
to everybody, if you go to a party, date, or something, make sure you always take your drink with you. you dont want soemone to slip somethign in it and either kill you or date rape you, or w/e they want to do.
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If you were a virgin you can easily tell if you were raped. Check to see if your cherry is still not popped.
If you werent a virgin..the only way to tell is to go to the hospitol and get tests. Or do you maybe feel sore down there? Thats a way of telling.
Ask around to his friends or your friends..maybe they know?
By the way...he put his dick in your mouth..this counts as some type of rape if you didnt want that to happen. He took advantage of you..are you ok with that? If not..report him.
good luck..be careful next time!
-hope i helped,melissa-
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IF HE RAPED OR TOOK ADVANTAGE OF YOU YES YOU WOULD KNOW BECAUSE YOU WOULD BE SORE....WELL THAT IS IF YOU HAVENT HAD A LOT OF SEXUAL CONTACT! IF YOU ARE LOOSE THEN WELL YOU MAY NOT KNOW! IM PRETTY SURE THOUGH THAT IF HE DID ANYTHING SERIOUS YOU WOULD DEFFINTLEY KNOW!
J.J.
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you'd know if you had sex, unless you have sex on an extremely frequent basis, or had in the couple hours before you passed out, you would be a little sore, or feel at least a little stretched out. You should tell someone though, cause he sounds like a perv and you should get him arrested, or at least slap him pretty hard.
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