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Q: so I like this guy, he knows that I like him.. but I don't know if he likes me.. but I do know that he has NeVeR made out or anything.. I have never made out or french kissed anyone. I'm going to ask this guy out.. and I'm hoping he will say yes, if I do ever like go to the movies with him.. what do I do, cause you know how people say, that the guy will lead the way? well that won't really work because be have never made out.. so what in the nation am I sopost to do?
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You don't necessarily have to make out at the movies. You could simply hold hands or cuddle while you watch the movie. If the both of you haven't made out or anything, then maybe you guys aren't really ready. Making out is something that has to be special....and you have to make sure you're completely ready.
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Q: i cry all the time. and im sick of it. i wish i could stop but i cant, i dont know what to do. i want it to be so that i dont cry at all. or not every day atleast. i feel so weak and helpless when i do. is there any way for me to stop or am i just stuck with it forever? i know this is a stupid question to ask but i really need help with this...
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This is not a stupid question. It's obvious that you are very depressed. The only way that you can really get help is discussing this with an adult. Whether it's a parent, teacher, or counselor, they can and will help you. You could also talk to a psychologist, and they can perscribe you antidepressants. Don't be afraid to ask for help. You'll be ok. Hang in there and good luck!!
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Q: Hi,
I'm 5"7, aged fourteen and weigh ten stone (which is 140 pounds I think). I know this isn't majorly overweight or anything, but I feel fat and would like, if possible, to gradually get down to nine stone (126 pounds). I wouldn't mind if this took, say a few months.
I exercise regulary but find it hard to stop snacking between meals. Has anyone got any tips into how to stop this?
Or any other gradual-dieting tips.
Any advice would be very much appreciated :-)
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Well it's good that you exercise regularly. Keep on doing that. If you do decide to snack between meals, maybe try something healthy, like fruits or veggies. Make sure your diet is balanced though. Good Luck!1
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Q: My sterio CD thing wont open. I have a Cd stuck in there and it won't open. i'm worried. Anyone know how i can get it to open? answer QUICKLY!
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Well try to stick a pen into the crease to try and get it opened. That always works for my PC. If not then take it somewhere to be fixed. Good Luck!
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Q: iunno why i'm late for most things because i sleep in. i get like 10 hours of sleep a day or i need 10 hours of sleep a day if i dunget 10 hours i sleep in so i get 10 hours. how can i make myself wake up without stalling and needing more sleep?
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Try using an alarm clock. You have to make an effort not to hit the snooze button. If you still live with your family, or a room mate and they get up before you have them wake you up.
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Q: I like this kid jeremy alot. i just need him to notice me. he knows who i am i just want him to want me. any tips?
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The key thing is flirting. Guys love to flirt. Flirt with him, become his friend. Wear clothes that get you noticed. Same thing with your hair, and makeup. Make sure that you be yourself though. It's important not to be fake. That's all I can think of but good luck!!
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Q: ok im really selfconsious about my boobs but recently i had mark onmy boobs and they look like strech marks and i dunno y i would have them i mean my boobs aint even that big and im not fat of anything.. wut could it b from?
ahhh..
shaiina
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Don't worry. They are stretch marks, but that's because your chest is slowly growing, and your skin is expanding with the growth. They'll become less noticable sometime but to reduce the appearance faster put cocoa butter on it. Hope this helps!!
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Q: ok.. i have some problems with the way i look. i have chubby cheeks and a small mouth so like u can barely tell when i smile.. my skin texture is terrible..ive tried everything but i just have really low confidence and self esteem and i always feel like everyone looks better than me.
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The only way to really change your looks is plastic surgery. That's a little over doing it. There is always that special something that makes someone feel good about themselves and that's the key thing. Try makeup, experiment with different kinds. Maybe try a different hairstyle, and go shopping for some new clothes, maybe mix your style up!! Hope this helps!!
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Q: Is there a medication that can be taken for worrying and feeling anxious?
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Yes. Zoloft is good for depression and anxiety disorder. Hope this helps!!
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Q: 13/m
hi,
i've taken the whole am-i-fat testing and stuff from different websites, and they all say the same thing, that i don't weight enough. i don't have an eating disorder or anything like that. my doctor i guess knows about this, but hasn't really told me to do anything. so... what can i do? i eat until i'm full, and thats it. please don't say "eat more!". i'll rate you if you give extremely good advice, give extremely funny advice, or give extremely bad advice.
yours,
the thin one
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You probably have very fast metabolism. Try eating protein like meat,eggs,peanut butter, fish etc. Don't over eat, because it's unhealthy. Exercise is helpful because it builds up muscle and muscle weighs more than fat. Just contiue to eat right, eat protein, and exercise and you'll do fine. Hope this helps!!
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Q: I am 15 and have been going out with the same guy for 4 years. I lost my virginity 2 him when I was 14. He is starting to act way to controlling and we have gotten into several fist fights and he forces me to have sex with him sometimes. I met a guy on the internet that lives 1700 miles away. We have been talking for a while and I think I am in love with him. Is it possible to love someone that far away? He also says he loves me back, and wants to meet. Thanks
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It's very possible to love someone who lives so far away. You have to be careful though. I mean, look at our life now and look at the man you are with. You know him, but you don't really know the guy that lives 1700 miles away. He could turn out just like you boyfriend now. If you want to meet him go right ahead. Be careful though. Good Luck!
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Q: I need some advice:Every time i go to bed at nite i
> cant fall asleep, it takes me a long time, i get a
> good 9 hours every nite, but i just cant fall
> asleep, ive tried writting down all my problems on a
> sheep of papper, like, homework due, chours, owe
> someone money, stuff like that, then i solved them,
> but its not the stress thats keeping me up then what
> is it? how can i fall asleep?
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You could be an insomniac, which is a disorder that prevents you from sleeping. Go to the doctors and tell him your symptoms and maybe that will help you out.
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Q: i just got the snapple lipgloss thats in those little bottle looking things, and i dont know how to use it...Can anyone who knows how tell me plz? thanks
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The bottom of the bottle twists to make the lipgloss moves up and down. Make sure you take the cap off first though!!
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Q: I've had a really, really sore throat for the past 3 weeks, which was the last time I made out with someone. This kid was saying it sounded like when his friend had mono and that I should check it out, because I have some of the other symptoms of it as well [fatigue,headache,body aches,abdominal pain],but I wasn't sure if that's true because it has been three weeks.
Does anyone know if mono is a possibility?
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People call mono the kissing disease, so the fact that you made out with someone is ironic.*lol*. Anyway, you should get tested just in case, because those are the symptoms. It could easily be something else though, like a cold or something. But just to be safe I'd get tested. Good Luck!!!
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Q: I give advice on this site, and yes, I'm also a Wiccan, almost on the verge of being an atheist and lately there has been someone harrassing me about my faith, she has left 2 messages so far in my inbox, about God, and I've given her actual proof about why I don't beleive in God like that. What I wanted to know is, have I been the only one getting messages like that? Thanks.
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No. Even though I am not a wiccan my best friend is. She gives advice on this site and someone left a message in her inbox saying "wicca is bad, you should choose Jesus." I love Jesus and I am religious, but I hate when people harass her. Wiccans can believe in God and be religious, and she is. It's her faith and she shouldn't be discriminated and neither should you or anyone else with a different religion. I know people have different opinions and I agree with that but sometimes it can come out the wrong way. Peace and Blessings.
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Q: The first time I had my period it was from the 19-22 then it became 25-29 then 3-7.Wat is wrong?Is this normal? I need advice and i rate very high.thanx
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Nothing is wrong with you hunny. You just got your period, so it's perfectly normal for you to be irregular. It takes about a year for your period to regulate.
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Q: ok so i've started using tampons and sometimes they leak so i take it out but when i do it hurts like i havent left it in long enough.... i dont know what to do get bigger ones or what
pleez help!!!
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You probably need a bigger size if you leak. And if it hurts when you take it out, then you probably pushed it in too far.
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Q: ok so i know im kinda old to be asking this but im 15 and i really want to start using a tampon. i have tried a couple times but it always feels uncomfertable and i can never get it in all the way, only half way. i dont know if im putting it in the right spot. any help would be great! ill rate high
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Well maybe you're using the wrong size. To make sure you put it in the right way(not to be gross) make sure when you're on the toilet that your legs are spread apart. Relax your vagina and then it should go in the right way. Hopefully this helps you out!!
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Q: I have a friend who is SO not over her ex but really pretends to be. They both really like each other and flirt all the time and they still act like they are going out. What should she do, or what should I tell her to do???
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It's her decision on whether she wants to be with him or not. Some people prefer to be single and flirt with whoever they want. Don't tell her what to do with her realtionship, she'll figure out what she needs to do.
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Q: I'm looking for some really great teen fictional books. Can anyone recommend some to me, or even if you can't, a great website that has a list of them? I'm looking for a book along the storyline of like love and romance.... but even if you have a book name that's not about that but it's a great book, thats good too! THANKS!!
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I think a brilliant teen book is Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson. It's one of my favorites. It's about an teen outcast that overcomes many struggles(I don't want to give the book away). So definately check it out!!
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Hey guys! I've been off the site for a while but I'm back! So you can feel free to ask me anything you want. I give the best advice I can to any question asked. I try to answer each question truthfully, honestly, and straight up. My advice can be good or bad, it all depends on how YOU take it. Feedback and ratings from questions answered help me out on how well I'm helping you guys out.♥
xOxOxCassandraxOxOx
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Info
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Dracut,Mass Occupation: Student Age: 14 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: August 30, 2004 Answers: 142 Last Update: October 2, 2005 Visitors: 11027
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