I have a friend who is SO not over her ex but really pretends to be. They both really like each other and flirt all the time and they still act like they are going out. What should she do, or what should I tell her to do???
c_assi_e_x_12 answered Monday February 7 2005, 4:51 pm: It's her decision on whether she wants to be with him or not. Some people prefer to be single and flirt with whoever they want. Don't tell her what to do with her realtionship, she'll figure out what she needs to do.
AskJosie answered Monday February 7 2005, 2:57 pm: As long as they're both still friends and no one's getting hurt, I'd let them just be as they are. It shouldn't bother you that your friend is still friends with her ex, sometimes that happens. Just be happy that they can still be friends and that she isn't upset over them breaking up. [ AskJosie's advice column | Ask AskJosie A Question ]
Itsallkaitlyn answered Monday February 7 2005, 1:44 pm: Ask her and Him whats going on and if they just like flirting then let them, but if they both still like eachother and you know this for sure then tell them to try again. Hope I helped Kait* [ Itsallkaitlyn's advice column | Ask Itsallkaitlyn A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Monday February 7 2005, 1:32 pm: Well if they both like eachother its fine. And if they both flirt all the time thats fine. I dont really see wha the problem is here. Maybe they just dont want to go back out for fear of breaking up again and would rather just stay friends. I know i've done that i went out w/a guy i dumped him and we still like eachother like 2 months later and we flirted and we decided not to go back out cuz we thought maybe with that extra pressure we'd not be as close. So they may be in that situation. You just have to put yourself in her shoes-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
lildiamyn_69 answered Monday February 7 2005, 12:44 pm: well if he's her EX, then there must be a good reason why they split. You can see for yourself if he's a good b/f or a bad one.
She pretends to be over him because she really wants to, but just can't.
if he has a g/f, and they're still flirting, he probably cheated on her, but if he's that good kind of b/f, then you can just leave them be. I think they both wanna go back out, but I don't know the reason they broke up......but i hope this helps you any:)
*Diamyn* [ lildiamyn_69's advice column | Ask lildiamyn_69 A Question ]
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