a couple weeks ago my parents went out of town and me and my sister had the house to ourselve. so we invited some people over. this guy came over and we endin up having sex but he has a gf. i think im startin to like him. what do i do? and do you think his gf should know?
Melaur1001 answered Monday February 7 2005, 4:32 pm: that sucks. was that your first time? cus if it was then you get very attached to the first person you have sex with. I would let him know that you have feelings for him. but don't say it, just show it so he can tell and if he likes you too then hed probably end up going out with you. and yes i do think his girlfriend should know but you shouldnt be the one to tell her. maybe have one of your friends tell one of her friends and her friends will deffently tell her- then shed break up with him (maybe) and you could pull the sympathy act O:o) haha yeah its evil but thats the way girls play. Oh if his girlfriend is one of your friends then i wouldnt tell anybody. that could make both her and him mad at you and they would be mad at eachother too so that wouldnt be to great. be carful because things might backfire so think before you speak good luck!!! :o) [ Melaur1001's advice column | Ask Melaur1001 A Question ]
S_C answered Monday February 7 2005, 3:53 pm: Well I assume since you don't seem really worried that you already were tested for STD's and you already took a pregnancy test. If not, then DO THAT!!!!! Then it's both your decision and his if you want to tell his girlfriend. I'm not saying you both have to agree on it, but both of you had and still have the oppertunity to tell her. The longer you wait, the angrier she will be. But think about this, if someone cheated on you, would you want to know. If you answer yes, then get up the nerve to tell her. Or at least inform him that you want to tell her so if he says wait let me, because it'd be much better for the cheater to tell then someone else. If you decide that you wouldn't want to know, then I would still tell. Good luck. [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Monday February 7 2005, 2:57 pm: Well hello you probably should of waited til you liked him to have sex with him.. but anyways let him stay with his girl sounds like she not a hoe.. and yes his girl should know and beat the fuck with you.. take out your spine and stomp on it..Much Luv..~*DEZ*~ [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
Itsallkaitlyn answered Monday February 7 2005, 1:45 pm: Talk to him about it, and If he wants to make a relashinship with you then tell him he can only be with one of you.But to be honest eh doesn't seem like a very trustworthy person, he did cheat on his girlfriend, I think You should tell her though. I hope everything works out for you
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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Monday February 7 2005, 1:41 pm: I do think his gf should know but if he hasnt paid any attention to you from that night of the party till now.. then it was a one night stand. Sorri. If you met him just that night to that proves more it. Also if you 2 knew eachother before the party and you guys didnt talk much before and after the party it was defintly a one night stand. If he still talks to you and flirts with you he obviously had fun at the party and wants to maybe hook up later after him and his gf are done. But I dont think you should like a guy like that because if you do then if you hook up with him you could be where his gf is now not knowing that he had sex with someone else. -trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
lildiamyn_69 answered Monday February 7 2005, 12:39 pm: well... if he has a g/f, and he cheated on her, I wouldn't allow myself to develop feelings for him because if you guys go out, who's to say that he won't do it to you?
Now, about the g/f.... it's hard to say whether you should tell her or not because if she was a mean person, she might think that you're just trying to get with him, but if she's an okay person, then she would keep a closer eye on him or break up with him. So, you can tell her, but at your own risk. Hope I helped some:)
*Diamyn* [ lildiamyn_69's advice column | Ask lildiamyn_69 A Question ]
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