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what are ways to get rid of cellulite in the stomach region.. will running help? and how much will i have to run for? (link)
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Exercise. Cellulite is simply fat.
So if you enjoy running it sure can't
hurt. Here is a search if you care to
have it. Keep in mind that "miracle
creams" will not get rid of fat.
I'm not saying you are fat either.
Skinny people can have cellulite too.
I think the prevention magazine link is
the best. :)
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okay so i had unprotected sex about a week before i was supposed to get my period but it came a week late probably cause i was stressing about it so much.. and i asked people on this site if it was possible to still be pregnant and most of them said no.. but now im not sure cause i feel movement in my vagina.. i dont know but its weird ..and ive never had this before.. does anyone know what this is? (link)
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If you have had your period then in all
likelihood you are not pregnant. You
don't feel movement until about the
4th month of pregnancy. This movement
is felt in your abdomen (stomach. There
should be no movement felt at all in your
vagina. If you still feel it, you should
seek medical advice.
This site has everything you need to know
about pregnancy symptoms & birth control
among other things you need to know. I
add in case you would like to have some great information.
http://www.coolnurse.com/
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okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a couple years and we both decided we were ready for sex. we tried but the problem was he couldnt really get it up. he's 17 he should be able to... when finally did get it up it was last a few minutes then it would be gone again, he never came.
i don't really know what to think. I am not trying to sound conceited but im not really unattractive, i have a nice body because i work out alot and a cute face and we're really in love so i dont really understand how he is having so much trouble getting turned on...
i've done everything i can think of, i've given him head and he said it felt good but the feeling just kind of went away before he came. i've asked him to tell me what feels good and he said i was already doing it right but obviously it isnt working! i wore sexier underwear and done little things that generally turn guys on like kissing his body, touching him, teased him or just kind of went for it, set the mood - nothing works
so, question #1
is my boyfriend just not attracted to me? what can i do to turn him on? i ask him and he says im doing everything right but i cant be....
question #2
guys, what REALLY turns you on? (link)
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I don't usually answer these but it isn't you.
I don't think you can here that enough. If he
weren't attracted to you he would be long gone
and you have been together a couple of years.
We aren't allowed to give sex tips but I don't
really think you need any. He says that isn't the problem.
First of all, where are you doing this?
You need to be somewhere private and not
somewhere that a parent, sibling or friend
could walk in any minute and catch you.
Fear is a major cause of that performance
anxiety mentioned before me.
If you were both virgins and you have waited
2 years, he may be afraid he will do something
wrong, He may be afraid he will hurt you the
first time. I'm sure he wants your first time
to be spectacular but hes probably heard it
can be painful the girls first time. Talk.
Realize the first few times may not be earth
shattering & let him know that you understand that.
You are both learning & you need no tips.
Enjoy the learning together. :)
If all that fails it could be a medical problem.
It is rare in younger men but is a possibility.
Is he diabetic for instance? It may be something
he needs to have checked.
Good luck. Just both of you relax. It will
happen. I'm sure this failure is stressful
to him also. That doesn't help things. Don't
rush it.
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Picture This:
You live in a 8000 sq foot home. You have a 13 year old, a 10 year old and a 5 year old. You've been married for 15 years. However, you're married to a man who calls your daughter a stupid bitch, and your sons dumbasses and idiots on occasion. He's called you a lazy, ungrateful, fat, stupid pig. You've been fighting since you met, and it only gets worse. He's abandoned you without a car, locked you out of the house, and is distant and shows no emotion for your kids. Your kids are upset.
You're an english teacher, and there's no way you could afford the house on your own, but you're not sure what to do with it because it's on your parents land and you don't want to sell it to someone who isn't family. Your struggling, considered divorce, but you know you love him even though your kids get upset.
What do you do? (link)
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Do you love him really, or is he just a habit?
I know staying is so much easier but how can
you really love and respect someone who treats
your children like he does?
And what about yourself? Don't you deserve
better than this? He is abusive. Not all
abusive people resort to hitting. Mental
abuse is just as bad and can leave big scars.
You talk to your parents about the situation.
If for some reason they don't take your side,
then you can go to any battered womens shelter
for help and advice. You get a restraining order
to keep him away from you and you have your
local law enforcement on hand and your dad
as you hand him is bags.
You may indeed love him in a way but he isn't
loving you or your kids. He is abusing you.
Enough is enough get him out of your life so
your kids and possibly even you are not holding
your breath and walking on eggshells waiting
for the next explosion.
Good luck and be strong. :)
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I was just wondering on your thoughts of homework helping and why so many people dislike it. I mean i know many people dislike homework but when a friend asks you for help would you help them? I do but it seems that when i'm in the time of need, noone will help me and it just seems to be impossible for me to finish it.
I'm on msn helping others with their but when i need help, everyone says that they have to go and my whole list practically goes empty! And I can't ask for help here because homework questions are forbidded. Is there some toher way I can get some help that's free online maybe? (link)
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Actually you can ask here for help.
The thing that gets people in trouble
is asking for the answer. Help is fine.
There are many who answer though with
the answer because they are to lazy to
"help". If all we did was give answers
to homework questions we would be buried
by them all. So most do get deleted.
If you want to ask here then don't give the
actual question. Ask instead " How do I diagram
a sentence" or "How do you solve fraction
problems?"
Another danger of asking for help here is
you might just get the wrong answer deliberately.
There are those who start columns just to be
jerks. We weed them out but there are rude
people out there just looking for laughs
at other peoples expense.
There are a lot of homework help sites
out there. Most are geared toward subject
so I will give you the search I used and
can check some of them out for bookmarking.
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ive been in a relationship for 2 years now. at first everything was great, we even got engaged! since then hes been acting like a jerk! he hates my job and threatens to leave me if i dont quit,everytime we fight the first thing he does is tell me to find another place to live! he puts me down alot and he is getting more controlling. he seems to have little respect for me and when i confront him about it he just turns it around. im emotionally drained! is this the real him? (link)
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I'm going to guess it is the real him.
If it is then it will only get worse
after you are married. If its emotionally
draining now just imagine what it would
be like if you were married to him and
even worse had kids.
There are so many good men out there
who would give you the love and respect
you deserve. Don't waste anymore time
with one who doesn't seem to like anything
you do. Life is just to short.
Good luck. :)
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hey its kristin from krissybabyxo and i am totally new to this whole thing; is there any advice that would help my column :) (link)
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More people should ask this question!
As has been said before me, if you don't
know an answer pass up the question.
Never be rude.
Never give advice that is illegal
or can get someone in trouble.
Never answer anyones homework questions
with the answers. For instance if it is
a math question, Use different numbers to
explain how to solve it.
Never use backgrounds that make your column
illegible.
Always use proper punctuation and English.
Do not give details on how to have sex. We
do have younger users here. We realize they
are going to have sex but we don't have to
give them every detail on how to have it.
Advice on how to prevent pregnancy and disease
is a plus whenever you can add it in.
Be cautious when answering medical type
questions. Many diseases and illnesses
share common symptoms. We aren't doctors
and there is also no need to scare someone unnecessarily. Its a good idea to encourage
people to talk to their parents or a doctor.
You will sometimes get frustrated with
seeing the same type of question over and
over again. Its normal! We all do. :)
I'm sure there is a ton of stuff I am leaving
out. Be sure and read the Help/FAQ. It has a
lot of information.
And always file an abuse report if you see
anything that doesn't seem right to you.
Someone being rude etc.
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16 f
My best guy friend who I've known for three years is suddenly not talking to me.
he won't look at me or even talk to me. In the hallways when we walk near each other he'll look the other way and pretend like I was never there. It never use to be like this he's not those type of boys either he's really respectfull and diffrent I'd had to really screw him over for him to be doing this but that's just it ! I haven't done anything to upset him the last time we talked was on tuesday he said hi to me like we always do and then wednesday he started avoiding me and its been like this ever since I'm really confused I don't want to loose a good friend . (link)
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You need to corner him and find out what
is upsetting him. You may not have done
anything but that doesn't mean someone
else hasn't told him you did. Don't let
it go on this way without trying to get
the answer. It only gets harder the longer
you wait. :)
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Ok I have this friend Terry (26). He is a very good friend and we always have fun hanging out. And yes I do have a crush on him. We flirt all the time but it is always ALL talk. We can about literally anything. I can talk about guys and he won’t bad mouth them and it is the same when he talks about girls. Sure of course there is a twinge of jealousy when someone tries to get in the picture, but I don’t do anything about it. That is just not right.
I want him to be happy. I know I have to give it time if it is meant for me and him. Sometimes I feel that it is right there in front of us but neither one of us is blind to it. Well I thought I would make a little effort on new yrs eve. My friends and I were out bowling having a lot of fun. I thought it would be cute and bought this cheesy mistletoe. Last day out of the year to get away with something like that. My friends got a kick out of it. (FYI I am sober throughout this whole thing) I also ran into Terry at the alley too and said he was going to have some people over at his house and that me and my friends were invited to come along.
Well I wanted to get there before midnight but my friends just took a little longer then I wanted them too. We got there just a matter of minutes afterwards when everyone is rushing outside to light off the firecrackers. I wanted to wish Terry a happy new yr, just was a little too hard with so many people around. I finally was able to stop him in the kitchen and I had the mistletoe. I thought it was a clever little trick to be able to kiss him. And it did work; also that it was new yrs too. I felt very proud of myself too, that I took a little initiative. And we went on with the evening like nothing had happen.
Well.... turns out, there was a girl that didn't know that was kind of with him. She was almost always around him. At first I figured it was one of these young little girls (teenagers) that do have a tendency to follow him around since he is attractive. Well that was until I saw them sitting on the couch holding hands and cuddling. I felt like such a fool. If I had known they were together that night I respectively would not have tried anything.
I know when to not step on toes even when it does happen to me. So I mentally tell myself, “ok I have to back off, and let it be” So the next night I am at our Tuesday karaoke Night which we always go to. Terry is there and the girl wasn’t. But we didn’t do anything out the ordinary. We still continued to banter and flirt back and forth like nothing was different, because it wasn’t. I few of us went up to his house since it was up the street.
While most were down stairs, I was alone with Terry upstairs and we were talking and I made the effort to apologize for the night before for kissing him not knowing he was technically there with someone. He told me not to be, since they weren’t actually together and the girl ( her name was Jenny20 yrs old) was very needy, moving too fast and that she lived in Sacramento and had come up to see him for the night, and was leaving the next day.( no hanky panky went on)
Also said that he thought it was very cute and that he had liked the kiss. Now what I need to know is what should I do about this? Should I just let things take their course? Should I forget about it? Am I in the right to be feeling like this? This has never happen between us. He is always telling me about these girls that like him but he doesn’t really want to start anything with them, since his last relationship really hurt him, but then he is looking for Mrs. Right and not Miss Right Now.
And he does tell this to the girls and they seem to kind of leave the picture, not even wanting to be a friend, yet I know well enough to keep being his friend. You think he is trying to tell me something and I am not taking it in all the way? I don’t really think he is trying to play me because he does look out for me and has not tried anything. I know this is very silly but it is still something on my mind. Any advice would be great. Thanks for making it through all this.
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I think I would sit down with him and
have a good talk. Tell him what you are
feeling. Ask him straight out if he
thinks your relationship will ever be
more than friends. Call him up and ask
him to meet you for a drink someplace
where you won't bump into friends. Don't
try and do it while friends are around,
or at a party. Have his undivided attention.
Then let things take their course.
Good luck! :)
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i saw this icon that said "i spent a month there one night" and i was wondering what it means? (link)
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I'm going to guess that was one LONG night. :)
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okay i'm on the pill and i normally take my pill within the same hour everyday since i'm supposed to take it around the same time everyday. my friend told me that i have to take it at the same time within like 2 minutes everday. if i take it within the same hour is that bad? (link)
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The reason they tell you to take it at the
same time everyday, is just to get you in
the habit of taking them. Its easier to
remember to take it everyday if, for instance,
you take it every morning as soon as you get up,
or with breakfast, etc.
So long as you remember to take it. Thats
all. The time isn't that important. Within
the same hour is not a problem at all. :)
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I recently saw my boyfriend, exactly 2 weeks ago. We had sex and I was on birth control, we did not use a condom. I had been on my period for half the week I was there and it ended for the duration of the week (he went back to Canada I went back to Massachusetts). Recently I've been having stomach pains and cramps, and this morning I found out that I had my period again. I stopped taking the birth control recently (4 days ago) I don't know if this is a side effect from being off birth control or if that I maybe had gotten pregnant and had a miscarriage very early on. Please let me know your honest opinion, I could really use the help. And if you believe it's just an effect of the birth control, could I still be pregnant? I shouldn't have received my period for another 3 weeks. (link)
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You get your period when you stop the birth
control. Did you finish the months pills?
Because you need to be on them at least 30 days before having unprotected sex. They need time
to get in your system.
It does sound to me as if you got your period.
Just be sure if you are going to be on the pill
that you take it as directed. Once you do that you need not worry about it at all. :)
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what is global warming and who believes in it? just a question i'm curious for an answer. and is the world going to be destroyed by global warming? and if global warming isn't real than what is really causing it? god? (link)
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OK my answer should rile up a few.
I don't believe there is a global warming problem.
We used to be covered with ice. All the weather
goes in cycles. It changes. Its natural. A few
years back we were going back to the ice age.
Don't let them scare you. Most scientists do
not agree with global warming. Ex political
candidates can always find someone to agree
with what they are saying as can others who
have noting better to do. :)
Here is a great place for more info on my point
of view.
http://www.junkscience.com/
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My ex recently came back into my life, and she was my first and only true love. We have been spending a lot of time together as well. She has a boyfriend of 4 years and he is the complete opposite of me. He doesn't treat her like she should be treated all the time. Yesterday she decided that he was the better choice. He doesn't go to school, he doesn't have a job, and he has no plan to do any of these things. Am I wrong in saying that I am the better choice?? (link)
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No you're certainly not wrong. The thing is
she has been dating him for 4 years and
obviously has strong feelings for him. Some
ladies have a knack for choosing the wrong guy.
Unfortunately there isn't a lot you can do to
make her see it. Also consider you, as a friend
are only going to hear the worst about the guy
when she wants a shoulder. :)
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ok im on birth control and i got it from my pediatrician last year. she gave me a year worth. well in may ill need a nw prescription. my mom says i have to go see the gynocologist because ive been sexually active. imnervous about the appointment. i dotn want somebody to be feeling my insides that i dont know. what is goign to happen at the exam? (link)
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This link will take you to a site that tells
exactly what goes on with your first pelvic
exam. I won't tell you they are fun. You would probably not find any female that would tell
you they were. They are important to have though
and you need one yearly to get a renewal on your birth control pills. Just one of those things
we girls have to do. It will be fine. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/pelvic_exams.htm
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does anyone think it'd be weird to taxdermize (?) your pet after he/she passes away? :`( how much will it cost to do a parakeet? (link)
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I think the problem you may have is finding
a taxidermist to do it. They are out there but
very expensive. The one I know will never do pets.
He says they never look like the person expects,
they get upset, they have spent big money and
it isn't worth watching them crying and etc.
He doesn't know of anyone who will do pets. :)
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On new years I took my birth control pill at 10pm (my usual time) but I had a little too much to drink and later that night threw up. That night I also slept over my boyfriend's house and had sex a couple times (no ejaculation inside, but no condom either). A week later (this past monday) I got some spotting that was pinkish and that's when it occured to me I possibly threw up my pill. I know you miss one pill and you can get pregnant, so is this implantation bleeding? It only lasted about 1.5 days and was very light. (link)
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Doing a test is your best bet for peace of mind.
If you are not new to taking the pill, if you have been on it for a year or so, throwing one up will probably not make a big difference.
Take the test anyway. Knowing for sure will
ease your worry. :)
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ok me and my boyfriend have had anal sex. it doesnt hurt bc he uses alot of lube im never doing it again though bc it wasnt that enjoyable but i just started my period in the summer and ik there supposed to be irregular when you first start and i havent had mine in forever. Im really scared that i could be pregnant bc i havent had it and my stomach feels really weird but maybe its just because im freaking out. when we do it i wear a tampon just so it wont go in but i cant remember if i took it out before he cummed idk what to do any suggestions? (link)
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"when we do it i wear a tampon just so it wont go in but i cant remember if i took it out before he cummed idk what to do any suggestions?"
You need to see a doctor. If this means that you have had sex with a tampon in it could easily get
lodged behind your cervix. Never ever have sex with a tampon in place. Having a forgotten tampon in or having one stuck in there can cause toxic shock syndrome. This is a very big health issue because TSS can cause death. I don't mean to scare you but if this is what you are doing please stop.
Use a condom. If he can't afford a condom, he
can't afford to support a child so no sex.
Here are symptoms of TSS just so you know them.
According to the National Women's Health Information Center or NWHIC, if you experience any of the following 7 signs and symptoms of toxic shock syndrome during your period you should contact your health care provider immediately!
1. High fever that appears suddenly
2. Muscle aches
3. Diarrhea
4. Dizziness and/or fainting
5. Sunburn-like rash
6. Sore throat
7. Bloodshot eyes
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so i have a best friend and she has a boyfriend. i like him, but i also have a boyfriend. and people are starting to notice. my friend always talks about how in love she is. i get annoyed. what should i do? ignore them all? (link)
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Does he like you too? They thing you have to consider is this. If you pursue a relationship
with this guy why he is dating your best friend,
you lose the best friend. You look bad to others too. Of course she is going to talk about how much she loves the guy. Thats what girls do when they have boyfriends! They don't really expect their friends to get angry because they like the same guy.
If it annoys you then change the subject or hang out with someone else until they are no longer an item. If he cares for you and breaks up with her, don't start dating him right away.
If you want to stay friends it is best not to let some guy come between you. Especially if you have been friends for a while. I know its hard to believe right now, but chances are this guy won't be around for either of you in a year or two anyway. Just don't blow a good friendship over it.
If it means staying away from this guy then thats what you need to do. Don't flirt with him or whatever you are doing that is making others notice. :)
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I think I have it , because i frquently have to go to the restroom , and sometimes what comes out isint even worth going to the bathroom for but it feels like im about to bust or pee in my pants . Im always having to ask to go to the rest room in every class & thats only 50 mins each .
i didnt want to go to the doctor [ at first ] because i thought my parents would be able to find out that iv had sex . because that could be a reason why i might have one .
So if yall would please , can any of yall tell me what they do when you go ?
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If it also burns when you pee its probably a UTI.
Regardless, it is something you need to check out.
There is no pelvic exam involved in getting a diagnosis. You go in explain symptoms to the
doctor, pee in a cup and thats it.
Since girls can have a broken hymen from many
things besides sex, a doctor wouldn't know for
sure you were sexually active, unless you told
him. If you told him, it is not something he
would tell your mother. Doctors have patient
confidentiality just SO you aren't afraid to
speak freely with them about things that could
concern your health. :)
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