ive been in a relationship for 2 years now. at first everything was great, we even got engaged! since then hes been acting like a jerk! he hates my job and threatens to leave me if i dont quit,everytime we fight the first thing he does is tell me to find another place to live! he puts me down alot and he is getting more controlling. he seems to have little respect for me and when i confront him about it he just turns it around. im emotionally drained! is this the real him?
masterclinic answered Sunday January 13 2008, 2:56 am: I doesn't seem like your happy maybe because your seeing the real him for the first time love does not fade when its the right person for you. you should get out of this relationship before it can get to physical abuse. And don't give up on finding the right guy for you. [ masterclinic's advice column | Ask masterclinic A Question ]
MissKhalili answered Saturday January 12 2008, 6:02 pm: If your questioning yourself about leaving him then you shoud, but only if it what you really want.
think about what it would be like without him and ask yourself if its what you want.
also ask yourself if this is the kind of guy you want to marry?
if you confronted him about it and he didnt seem like he cared then you do deserve better then him and you'll be better off without him.
redhotchic answered Saturday January 12 2008, 2:22 pm: yes you should leave him cauz you need to have a guy who respecets you, and someone who dnt put you down.
theres way better guys out there than him, if hes actin like this now he'll most likely act like this when ur married. [ redhotchic's advice column | Ask redhotchic A Question ]
karenR answered Saturday January 12 2008, 1:43 pm: I'm going to guess it is the real him.
If it is then it will only get worse
after you are married. If its emotionally
draining now just imagine what it would
be like if you were married to him and
even worse had kids.
There are so many good men out there
who would give you the love and respect
you deserve. Don't waste anymore time
with one who doesn't seem to like anything
you do. Life is just to short.
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