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liking best friends boy friend


Question Posted Tuesday January 8 2008, 7:44 pm

so i have a best friend and she has a boyfriend. i like him, but i also have a boyfriend. and people are starting to notice. my friend always talks about how in love she is. i get annoyed. what should i do? ignore them all?

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karenR answered Wednesday January 9 2008, 12:22 am:
Does he like you too? They thing you have to consider is this. If you pursue a relationship
with this guy why he is dating your best friend,
you lose the best friend. You look bad to others too. Of course she is going to talk about how much she loves the guy. Thats what girls do when they have boyfriends! They don't really expect their friends to get angry because they like the same guy.

If it annoys you then change the subject or hang out with someone else until they are no longer an item. If he cares for you and breaks up with her, don't start dating him right away.

If you want to stay friends it is best not to let some guy come between you. Especially if you have been friends for a while. I know its hard to believe right now, but chances are this guy won't be around for either of you in a year or two anyway. Just don't blow a good friendship over it.
If it means staying away from this guy then thats what you need to do. Don't flirt with him or whatever you are doing that is making others notice. :)

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