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confused
16 f
My best guy friend who I've known for three years is suddenly not talking to me.
he won't look at me or even talk to me. In the hallways when we walk near each other he'll look the other way and pretend like I was never there. It never use to be like this he's not those type of boys either he's really respectfull and diffrent I'd had to really screw him over for him to be doing this but that's just it ! I haven't done anything to upset him the last time we talked was on tuesday he said hi to me like we always do and then wednesday he started avoiding me and its been like this ever since I'm really confused I don't want to loose a good friend .
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Hey, who knows? Maybe his feelings for you are changing...if you know what I mean. Perhaps he just doesn't know how to go about telling you, if that's the case, and suddenly feels shy or un-worthy of your attention. It's happened to me before...just an idea.
If you don't think that's the case though, I'd ask him what's on his mind. And you can do just that : "Hey, what's on your mind?"
I do it to my friends all the time...it catches them off guard sometimes though, so don't expect him to answer you right away, or say what you're expecting to hear.
Anyway, hope all goes well - and good luck!
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this probably doesn't help - but you need to talk to him.
ou don't have to confront the subject right away. just say hi like you normally do and ask if you want to hang out on *insert dasy here* and do *insert activty*.
he might just be having an off week. it might have something to do with school. like, his grade's could be stressing him out. or anything, for that matter.
or he could just be shy because he likes you. but thats jumping to conclusions.
pretty much, what i'm saying. is you're not gonna find anything out unless you do something about it.
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You need to corner him and find out what
is upsetting him. You may not have done
anything but that doesn't mean someone
else hasn't told him you did. Don't let
it go on this way without trying to get
the answer. It only gets harder the longer
you wait. :)
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Just try telling him how you feel and ask him why he been avoiding you.
I wish you the best of luck!!
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