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Is this normal? (Mental Health Question)


Posted Saturday January 10 2015, 2:15 am

I'm a 14 year old female with depression and anxiety. I'm a freshman in high school, but I'm homeschooled due to the mental illnesses. Well, I have NO friends. The only interaction I really have is with my family. I probably only go outside once or twice a week. All I really do is play video games, read, surf the internet, do my schoolwork, or other little activities. I love going outside as long as it isn't hot, but I'm just too depressed and anxious. Is there something wrong with me? I go to a therapist every week. I just feel like I'm worthless and not going anywhere since I stay in my room 23 hours of the day, on the internet for like half of that time. I just feel worthless. It's not like I'm a lazy bum who doesn't do anything with the...

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Not eneough freedom in my relationship? Or is it me, help??


Posted Saturday January 10 2015, 12:43 am

I have been with my fiance since high school. We are both 22 yrs old now and have a beautiful 1yr old daughter. My problem with my relationship is I feel smothered. Not smothered by attention or affection, there actually isn't much of that because of me. He works hard for our family and our future while I staynat home. I love him so much and couldn't imagine my life without him...yet at times I want to escape. He is a very sensitive broody kind of guy. He was both physically and mentally abused by his parents most of his life and he has passive aggressive issues BIGTIME. I on the other hand keep all my stress and insecurity locked up and don't show are act like anything is wrong. His behavior sometimes makes me want to just run and disappea...

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What do I do?!?!


Posted Friday January 9 2015, 9:56 pm

theres a guy that i really really like and ive know him for 3 years but im not sure if i dhould ask if he likes me, or how to say it. we do kind of flirt but i font know if ne really likes someone like me.

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Does he like me, or is he trying to be polite?


Posted Friday January 9 2015, 8:58 pm

Today, I asked my friend to ask my crush out. When she did she told me he said no, but I asked her how he said it, she said he was really nervous. He kept saying um and he shut his locker really hard that he got his shirt caught in it and then said no and smiled. Is this a good thing to a bad thing? Does he like me, or just trying to be polite?

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No where to go


Posted Friday January 9 2015, 12:28 pm

Hi. I am a first year graduate student trying to get my masters degree in psychology and I recently moved in with my boyfriend of a year. Last semester was hell. I had so much work to do and I was so stressed. The classes were so hard I would sit there listening to the professor as intensely as I could and still have no idea what he was saying. Many times I would have to leave the class because I was crying. This all caused me great anxiety. I was crying all the time, feeling sick to my stomach in the morning because of the nerves, and actually pulling my hair out. And to make matters worse my boyfriend and I were constantly fighting. He has anger issues and tends to take out his anger on me. He doesn't really mean to do it, he can't really...

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My eyes


Posted Friday January 9 2015, 10:38 am

Every morning, when I wake up, my eyes are very swollen. When I spend the night with people, they often wonder why, as I do myself. It is not attractive. It literally looks like I got hit by a bus. Do you know if there is anything I can do to prevent this? Thank you for your input! :)

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how much responsibility do I bear for something I did as a kid


Posted Friday January 9 2015, 9:22 am

Thank you for reading and advising!

When I was a child, too young to remember, I hit a golf ball with a hammer and it hit my sister in the tooth.

Now we are both around 40 years old and that tooth developed some problems and requires surgery. I'm not sure how much guilt/financial responsibility I should be feeling. I would appreiate some 3rd party advise. Thanks!

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Can I feed this to my baby?


Posted Friday January 9 2015, 7:35 am

Can I give almond and dates paste to my 2 month old baby?


I am from India but I live in London

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I feel useless and pathetic


Posted Thursday January 8 2015, 6:39 pm

These past few days I've been feeling really down. I'm a senior in highschool and I've always done good in school and gotten 90s and 100s but this year I'm getting 80s I know it's not horrible but I won't be able to make honor roll, which I really want to. I'm surprised I even made it last semester considering how my grades have dropped this year. But I'm taking honors classes and 2 AP's. I barely have any friends, only one that I really talk to in school and eat lunch with. I feel like no one likes me and thinks of me as pathetic and a loser because I'm quiet. The reason I don't talk much in my classes is because I might have social anxiety. I'm always worried about what other people are gonna say or think of me. It's always been like this...

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Commuting to College


Posted Thursday January 8 2015, 5:47 pm

I'm 20, female, junior in college.
For my junior year, I decided to commute for a job that I got while I was home and to save money. For my senior year, my old roommate and I had planned to get an apartment and live together. But the more I thought about it, the more I realized that commuting was the better option, especially since I want to work my way up at work and I can't do that if I don't work that much. I guess I never told my old roommate that I didn't make the payment to live on campus next year and she texted me today and said that we should plan a dinner for the girls we want to live with next year and I have no idea how I'm going to tell her that I'm commuting again. She has issues with her roommate this year and every t...

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Have I miscarried?


Posted Thursday January 8 2015, 5:33 pm

I am 16 years old, and recently, I lost my virginity. We had no condoms so I trusted the "pull-out" method (never again) and he ejaculated inside of me. I immediately told my sister and we went to the store for plan B (One Step). Now, 3 days later, I have a little brownish blood coming out of me. When I saw this, I immediately panicked because I just got off my period about a week ago, so I'm almost sure this can't be my period. What's going on??? 😔

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Gf hides stuff and lies about them.


Posted Thursday January 8 2015, 4:28 pm

I'm so pissed that my gf is not the same as when I first met her. She displayed herself innocent and sweet, which she still does pretend. But I came to know about some stuff about her which she is been hiding since we are togther. We did had ground rules about not hiding anything when we started dating. She doesn't knows that I know the true stories behind the stories she tells me. She is a single mother. She got pregnant when she was drunk when she was 20 years old. Then she decided to keep the kid. I'm dating her almost a year and half and I accidentally came accros her conversations. She's been talking to guys from university and her neighbors which I'm okay with but in most of conversation they discuss about their sexual activities. Man...

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Negativeness


Posted Thursday January 8 2015, 1:32 pm

- Money-----------Negative....!!
- Friend----------Negative....!!
- Love------------Negative....!!
- Eligibility-----Negative....!!
- Seance----------Negative....!!
- Family Support--Negative....!!
- Skill-----------Negative....!!

So i'm Suffering with STRESSED FEELINGS,,
What can i do....????
Please Help Me..


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Why do people have one night stands and to get over it?


Posted Thursday January 8 2015, 11:37 am

21/f, 28/m

I'm having a lot of mixed feelings right now. I know I have to separate one situation from another. But I need help gaining some perspective on why do people have one night stands. I never really followed the crowd, I don't really understand the whole "one night stand" situations.
In my opinion (I hope it doesn't offend anyone), I feel like those who do one night stands lack self-respect and has low self-esteem. I may be wrong.

The reason why I ask is because the guy I'm dating, I have asked him, twice, how many people has he slept with the past two years and when was the last time he's gotten tested (I obviously wasn't asking for fun, I asked to be safe). He told me, both times, tha...

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Im confused about what my guy friend said?


Posted Thursday January 8 2015, 1:05 am

Ok so today me and my guy friend were on kik and he said that "even if you did like me back I don't think I would date you" me and this guy have been friends for 2 years now. We are VERY close and we talk to each other all the time. He opens up to me and spills his life problems out to me or whatever he is going through. Ive helped him through a lot. He has this big crush on me but its not mutual and he gets me gifts, hugs me, texts me everyday, and gets jealous very easily. I asked him why and he said he would be scared if we were to break up and never talk again and that he hasn't been closer to any other girl then me even his ex. But last year (were much closer this year) he would constantly bug me and express how much he wante...

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Posted Wednesday January 7 2015, 9:57 pm

Wat should I wear so my 15 year bf to have a boner nd wat should I do

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Am I pregnant


Posted Wednesday January 7 2015, 8:12 pm

I really really am so scared . 16 years old and I don't have a trusted adult to talk to. Me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time(protected) but before that he didn't have a condom on and I was grinding on him , both of us were nude and he said the tip of his was resting on my pelvic bone . This all happened 3-4 days before ovulation. He didn't cum but I'm scared pre cum got down there could I be pregnant ?

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No kids at a wedding?


Posted Wednesday January 7 2015, 5:04 pm

Hi, I'm 26.. getting married in May. We're having a small wedding (40 people) in a church, followed by a very formal reception in a historical house.
We made the decision a while ago to have it an adults-only affair, as it's going to be a very late night (finishes at 12) and there's going to be a band and alcohol. We didn't want to put it on the invites (as weddings we've been to have) so we're just telling people. Everyone has expected so far not to bring their children, except my fiance's sister.

She hit the roof, saying that if her 7 month old baby can't be there neither will she. We said we can't make exceptions, it's not fair and she's far too little for the wedding. She said that she can't possibly leave her, eve...

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Posted Wednesday January 7 2015, 11:40 am

i don't want to do sex with my boy friend because i am always so scare about sex.

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I don't know what to do?


Posted Wednesday January 7 2015, 12:29 am

a few weeks ago my parents went out to dinner or something. So they called my cousin to take care of me it was really cool because I love hanging out with him(my cousin is 25 and 13 by the way). So he got to my house then we hung out for a while then i told him that i had a crush on him he said that he kinda liked me too but that our age gap was too wide and that I'm just too young and I couldn't help but cry so I went to my room without saying another word and he followed me so we sat on my bed and I was still crying and he was hugging me and telling me that he's sorry . so I asked him if he would have sex with me and he said absolutely not so after a while I kept asking him and he finally said he would as long as I don't tell anyone and I...

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