I really really am so scared . 16 years old and I don't have a trusted adult to talk to. Me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time(protected) but before that he didn't have a condom on and I was grinding on him , both of us were nude and he said the tip of his was resting on my pelvic bone . This all happened 3-4 days before ovulation. He didn't cum but I'm scared pre cum got down there could I be pregnant ?
Dragonflymagic answered Thursday January 8 2015, 12:58 am: If the tip was anywhere near your vulva/pussy lips, that gives any sperm present, a chance to survive long enough to get into the more hospitable environment of the vagina where it then can survive long enough to make you pregnant if one reaches a fertile egg. Because sperm can survive inside you for a while before fertilizing the egg. The going rate for most sperm is up to 72 hours. Many die off in the very acidic vaginal canal within the first 12 hours. However, once in the right cervical fluid conditions, they can survive much longer. They can be found with weak motility in the fallopian tubes for up to 7 days. The most important thing to remember is the capacity of the sperm's ability to fertilize an egg. This goes down dramatically after 72 hours. However, there are reports of women (who count their cycles to know when they ovulate) getting pregnant from sperm that was 5 days old. So 3to4 days is within that time frame meaning there is a slight of being pregnant if any sperm got inside. There isn't a ton of sperm in pre cum but there is a chance of the few in it to make it to an egg. Unless a guy wears a condom for all the pre sex play, there's always a chance, though slight. If you are within 5 days of having sex, you can take plan B emergency contraceptive. If its beyond that, buy a pregnancy kit. A sperm can survive depending on the condition inside the vagina, from 3 to 5 days to attempt fertilizing an egg. It take the fertilized egg about 6 days to travel to where it implants itself in uterus lining and that is the point at which hormones are released that signal a pregnancy. So taking a test around 12 to 14 days after your ovulation date is enough to get a strong reading if pregnant. Otherwise, taken too early it may say negative when the opposite is true.
If you meant pubic bone, that is near the folds that hide and protect your clitoral area so if he was hitting any where on your folds just above your vagina, theres a chance of a sperm surviving. If you meant the pelvic/hip bone and are saying his penis was againts your tummy with the tip near your belly button, then you're safe.
Note" because you are stressing so much, realize that stress can delay a girls period and make her late just as illness can. This lateness dos not necessarily mean you are pregnant. A test will tell for sure. If you want to be seen by a professional if pregnant or seek birth control for next time in case you're not pregnant, I suggest Planned Parenthood. It is confidential according the Hippa law rights and so you can be seen there without parents permission or knowledge. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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