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Boyfriend travels a lot, not spending enough time together


Posted Monday October 19 2015, 12:37 pm

22/f, 28/m

I'm upset. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now and it has always bothered me about the amount that he has traveled. We do have communication and trust issues that we're trying to rebuild (due to his past mistakes), and we're going to our first couples therapy on Wednesday. However, I'm debating on whether or not to go at this point.

My boyfriend travels at least once a month. It's for both business and for travel for his fraternity (not college fraternity). Recently, I told my boyfriend that I felt that he travels too much. When he's back, he works during the day, comes back home, uses the restroom for 20-30 minutes, comes to bed and wants alone time for awhile, leaving me only ...

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a boy asked me out


Posted Monday October 19 2015, 11:27 am

a boy at school who I like asked me by message if I wanted to go out with him
my mum thinks im too young but I want to say yes what should I do
im 11 btw

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Depression Aneixty


Posted Monday October 19 2015, 8:58 am

23 Female.

Back in June my boyfriend broke up with me. We were in a 5 year realtionship and it was really hard for me to adjust. I now realize i deserved a lot better. He never took care of me i was always taking care of him needless to say he didnt desreve me as a person. Which is fine i am over that but during that time i was so depressed. I also suffer from depression and aniexty but never addmited to my problems, i thought it was always normal feeling this way. My mother tried telling me i was tempoary depressed and i told her she didnt understand. 4th of July weekend i was feeling at my lowest point and i looked at my medicine cabinet wondering what i could take to kill myself. I was in the right state of mind and stoppe...

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I find it difficult to understand americans when they speak


Posted Monday October 19 2015, 2:06 am

Give advice ?

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Friend is always with boyfriend?


Posted Sunday October 18 2015, 7:09 pm

So my friend got a boyfriend about almost a year ago and he's her first boyfriend. I've never had a boyfriend but I've had friends who've had boyfriends in the past and they've never acted like she does, I know all people are different but she's over the top. So last year before she got her boyfriend we used to hangout outside of school, went to the amusement park, movies etc. Then when he came along we all did the same things just with him there, as their relationship began to become longer they would basically be joined at the hip with each other, and don't even bother to invite anyone else out with them anymore. Last summer she basically blew me off the whole time to hangout with him, no exaggeration he was at her house everyday, his fam...

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Body Image: Is too skinny even a thing?


Posted Sunday October 18 2015, 3:41 pm

(14/f) Is too skinny even a thing? Well apparently I am and no matter how hard I try, I can't seem to put on any weight. It's really annoying and kind of depressing how my friends are curvy with a nice body and they seem to joke that they're fat and take the piss out of my lack of it.

I have little boobs and a small bum and I hardly ever get a second glance while my friends get wolf whistles. Now what I really want to ask is: How can I accept my body image or is there another way to put it on?

Does protein stuff work? Or am I doomed to eat carbs for the rest of my life?

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Let him come to me


Posted Sunday October 18 2015, 2:36 pm

I hung out a little bit with this guy and now I really like him. It's kind of breaking my heart. We haven't really talked or spent time together in a week and it feels sad. I decided that I need to try my best to get over him and let him come to me if he wants to. Am I right in doing this?

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Boyfriend gone off me?


Posted Sunday October 18 2015, 1:34 pm

So me and my bf are 20 and have been together for two years. Because we live an hour away on the train we only see each other once a week (if that).
So recently my bf said for his 21st birthday he wants to spend it in Dublin on a lads weekend. (we live in England)
I told him I felt left out and he just said that every guy has lads weekends. Then he said he'd come and stay with me a few days before he flies to dublin for his actual birthday-but because I live near to an airport so it'd be handy!
Its also things in the past he's done-like he doesn't seem keen to have full blown sex anymore and the other day he refused to go for a meal at a restaurant with me opting instead for 'fast food' (so we just bought our own) and t...

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Controlling Mother


Posted Sunday October 18 2015, 1:05 pm

My best friend (age 15) cried to me over the phone that her mother keeps having arguments with her. She has to deal with her mother changing her friends, calling into the school and taking all her things away because she has depression.

My friend is worried that her school now thinks she has issues and she hates it because she tries so hard. I really want to help her but I don't know what to do or say. I had to keep repeating, calm down, think about this rationally and it just wasn't helping.

What can I do?

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I'm having problems with haters in my steam life


Posted Sunday October 18 2015, 4:20 am

Note: I will not tell you my steam username but I will tell you this. I got haters on steam and they manage to have 2 hate groups and sometimes i will haters coming by posting a mean comment. One day they had the guts to hack into my account and reveal my real name. What should I do? I'm a 15 year old boy and I desperately need an advice.

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Am I pregnant Help advice or anything I'm really scared...


Posted Saturday October 17 2015, 6:11 pm

Hi...so my boyfriend and I had sex on October 16 2015 and we did not use a condom he pulled out before he came and I wiped it off of him. He then fingered me and I don't know if I missed sperm and if it got on my clit or opening....Help advice or anything I'm really scared...

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My mom is being a control freak!


Posted Saturday October 17 2015, 5:21 pm

So I was going to this Halloween dance with my friends, I was going as a mime. I had this white T-shirt that I turned around so you couldn't see the letters on the front, and a black jacket to wear to cover up the words on the back of my shirt. My mom said we were going to the store because my outfit looked bad to her, I honestly liked the way it looked. We drove to the store and she picked out this shirt and jacket and made me try them on. I didn't like them, so we got into an argument, and she started crying in the middle of the store, she took me home and here I am now. I know I should feel bad for this, but I really don't, I feel like she deserved it. Whenever I cry like that I get yelled at, its no fair that she gets to do it without p...

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MY FRIEND KEEPS ON LYING?


Posted Saturday October 17 2015, 9:06 am

Hi! I need advise. My friend keeps on lying for some reason and it is SO obvious sometimes. Like the other day I told her I got a new Tablet, she then told me she has one too(last time I asked she said she only has a phone). A week later she says her father bought for her a Tablet and that I am not the only one with a Tablet between out group of friends.
There was also a day she showed us pictures of her 'boyfriend' on her phone, the pictures were clearly taken from a magazine. All my friends knew but they didn't tell her they knew. I told her and she denied it.
She also sometimes tells us how her mother abuses her. Other days she tells us how 'sweet' her mother is. One day she hates her father the next day she really loves hi...

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Will I get in trouble for doing this?


Posted Saturday October 17 2015, 8:39 am

Hi. So I was on a site and it said I won an iphone 6. I read the comments and it was real buuut I need a credit card to get it and my dad doesn't have one(NO ONE in my family has one). Anyway I came across this site where I can download fake credit card numbers and CVV codes but I don't know if I should download one. Will I get in trouble if I download a number? I really want that Iphone 6.

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Too Much Affection?? Kinda creeps me out...


Posted Saturday October 17 2015, 7:45 am

Ok, so I have this friend. He's been my bestfriend since we were 12, and we're currently 16. One day, he went to the countryside and met his male cousin. When he came back, they texted as if they were lovers, like "Hi... I miss you... I love you". When I ask him, why would he say that, he always replies "He's my cousin. It's normal" I still feel like it isn't. Also, his cousin has a bad reputation, he lives alone at a young age, and his FB wall is filled with dirty stuff. My friend, on the other hand, is basically the kindest person I knew. Gosh... this is really weird to share...

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Helping a spouse that won't help himself


Posted Saturday October 17 2015, 12:36 am

When I met my husband 3 years ago he was obsessed with fitness and his body. Well now he is not at all and he has lost all his definition and has put on 20 pounds. He hates the way he looks and won't even take pictures because he knows he isn't in shape. But he doesn't even try to lose weight. He ordered 2 large pizzas yesterday and said one was for me. Well that was yesterday at 9:30 pm and today at 10pm (25 hours) he ate both pizzas. He gets up atleast twice at night just to eat and normally it is peanut butter on some sort of chip or cracker. So I have been calling him out on it because I want my sexy husband back and he told me to mind my own business. What do I do? I love my husband but I don't want him to be fat. So lost?

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am i pregnant


Posted Saturday October 17 2015, 12:10 am

i and my guy were sleeping nude day before yest.i gave him a blowjob and he fingered me. there was a gap of 1-2 mins or so between both the things. and his hand felt dry to me. al this hapened the next to next day wen my period gt ovr. so if he had sperms on his hand by any chance then is there a possibility of me being pregnant? im having fever from yst. and my cycle usually is 32 days. sometimes even more than that. am i pregnant? please. im really scared



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Liking someone is the most horrible feeling


Posted Friday October 16 2015, 6:47 pm

There's this guy I hung out with a few times and we got a little intimate and I've been starting to have feelings for him, even though I don't know him very well. We haven't really talked in a few days and it doesn't seem like he's necessarily coming after me so I'm not sure if he feels the same way I do. This is just such an awful feeling--not knowing how he feels and having doubts about whether he wants me or not, missing him when I'm not around him, just wondering when the next time we'll hang out is. By normal standards it doesn't seem like he's dying to see me, but I can't just expect someone to feel exactly the same way I do right? I am just so emotional and sad and anxious all at once and it feels horrible!

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My friend is really starting to annoy me


Posted Friday October 16 2015, 5:43 pm

So I am 13 and I have a friend in my class. She tries to be cool by saying things like "bruh" and "dawg" and once she giggled at the way that my tongue was slightly sticking out of my mouth and I was like "So what?" because it was really rude. She judges people just by one look at them. and she is rude to people just for one little thing. She always tries to make excuses for gym. She is so lazy and she doesn't do ANY work in school. I feel like she copies my work and sometimes when we are in groups together, I feel like I'm doing all the work. I also don't want to sit with her sometimes but she sits beside me anyway. I also don't want to be in her group at all because she distracts me and is a really bad educat...

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i think i might be dumb


Posted Friday October 16 2015, 5:42 pm

i'm not sure how to word this properly. i'm 23/f and my entire life i've been curious as to whether or not i am as smart as someone my age should be. i don't feel like i'm quick witted and i never did well in school. i'm not sure how well i retain knowledge because i smoke weed, also. of course no one around me can answer this honestly because of fear that my feelings will get hurt. but i want to know. so i guess my question is what tests can i take or what can i do to find out this information?

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