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Am I pregnant Help advice or anything I'm really scared...
Hi...so my boyfriend and I had sex on October 16 2015 and we did not use a condom he pulled out before he came and I wiped it off of him. He then fingered me and I don't know if I missed sperm and if it got on my clit or opening....Help advice or anything I'm really scared...
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The fact that your boyfriend did not cum inside you does not mean he did not emit enough sperm when inside you to make you pregnant. There is a common misconception that if the boy pulls out you won't get pregnant. This is false. If you are fertile at the time of intercourse the precum he emits as a lubricant has enough sperm in it to make you pregnant.
For most women, about 80%, they are most fertile in the two weeks in the middle of their cycle, from the 7th day after their period to the 21st day after their period. The other 20% they can be fertile at any time during their cycle even during their period.
You did not say how old you are so let me add this. Men in general dislike condoms as it desensitizes what they feel in their penis, especially latex condoms. Teenage boys will tell you anything to get you to have sex with them without a condom. Lambskin condoms while more expensive will allow for more sensitivity
If you are sexually active you should be on birth control and or use a condom. To have sex with someone and not use a condom does not only raise the chance of pregnancy if on no other form of birth control. It is dangerous to your health as well. Condoms protect you from many of the STDS but not all and the HIV/AIDS virus. You should adopt what girls told us before there was the pill. "No rubber, no lover."
If you are over 14 a Federal Law called HIPP allows you to get Birth Control without parental permission. You can ask your family doctor or go to any family planning clinic and ask to be prescribed birth control medication. Just mention you are asking under the HIPPA Law.
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