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Let him come to me
I hung out a little bit with this guy and now I really like him. It's kind of breaking my heart. We haven't really talked or spent time together in a week and it feels sad. I decided that I need to try my best to get over him and let him come to me if he wants to. Am I right in doing this?
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Yes. If he has all the possible ways to contact you, a correct phone number, knows where to find you on social media and does not do so, then he is not very interested. Women tend to interpret the meaning of a date or couple dates, or a hook up as more than it really is to a guy. Its not that men all try to hurt women. Just that men have no idea how women interpret what they say and do, and of course the same problem vice versa. I just recently finished reading a book on dating, relationships and how to understand men etc... that I believe you can learn from. It is called "What Men Say, What Women Hear" by Linda Papadopoulos. She writes with the knowledge of a psychologist background in cognitive behavioral therapy so it is fun, light-hearted but also very helpful and to the point. Not that I needed to read it for my life, I've already learned all this from the school of hard knocks in life experience. But I sure wish there was a book like this for me to read years ago when I was young. I found mine at my library and thats a place to look. But it is best to have your own copy to keep going back to and refer to as you go along. Ask at your local book store and if they dont have it, stores can order it for you and that saves on shipping costs for you. Good luck dear.
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