Should i tell my bestfriend about my period? I'm not sure. We tell each pther every one of our secrets
It really isn't that big of a deal if you tell anyone about your period. But it's nothing you should hide, we all go through it, so just tell her and everything will be easier. She IS your best friend :]
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okay. my birthday is on march 21. which doesn't give me a lot of time to figure out what to do for my birthday. i'll be turning 14 and i'm not totally sure if i even want to have a party. my parents are going to be out of town for my birthday which totally sucks. i just wanted to spend my birthday all alone because so far it is really going to suck. my friends and my boyfriend refuse to let that happen. does anyone have any ideas for a way for me to celebrate my birthday?
WOAIhAIHFIWH !
My sister is turning 14 on the 20th of marchh. WEIRDD haha
Anyways, I would get your closest friends [including your boyfriend and some guy friends of yours] and go out to eat at a nice restraunt . After that maybe you ccan have a sleepover with your girl friends at one of their houses. :]
ps. dont try and throw a party at your house while your parents are away because its justttt asking for trouble dawg. :eaguaeigh !
happy birthday :)
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During 4th period yesterday, my friend, Ryan had my cell and I forgot to get it back from him at the end of class. So he had to keep it and his 5th and 6th periods are football. All the football guys know me so I guess they thought they could mess with my phone and it would be alright. Here's just a few things I found out they did:
1. changed my b/f's name to "cock sucker"
2. took pictures of themselves in the shower (surprisingly enough, I wasn't turned on)
3. sent dirty texts to people
4. changed my dad's name to "do not answer"
5. downloaded all these songs and games
6. i have a "never delete" folder for the texts i want and didn't want to delete and they of course, deleted them! (they claim this one was an accident)
7. and changed the language to German
I was furious with them when I saw my cell. Mostly at Ryan for letting them do it. So, I am not talking to any of them until I figure out if they're worth it or not. Specially Ryan. Now, he claims he is mad at me because I had no right to be mad at him because it wasn't his fault! How immature is that? I don't care that they used up my texts or downloaded stuff that cost money and I don't want them to pay me back or anything but what should I do?
Ok thats so crazyy haha they do sound VERY immature. I would be soo mad if this happened to me, but you can't hold a grudge on all of them for the rest of your life. You should be lucky you even got your phone backk! My 3 past cellphones all got stolenn (its horrible). yahh they shouldnt have done that, but i think if you just talk to this ryann kid and explain why you got so mad and IF he says sorry, you should forgive and forget. I know its hard, but sometimes you have to. good luckk
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I know this guy. lets call him...joe
we used to be friends, put we*re not close anymore .
tonite he*s going to try drugs
i am completely against this.
what can say to him that can make him change his mind adout trying them?
PLEASE
helppppp!!!!!!!!
- tell himm "you knoww thats so unatractive and no girl will want to go out withhh you if your doingg drugs, trustt me" (in disgusted tone)
- also tell himm they are very bad for him and that its gay and its not cool and then be like
"HUGS NOT DRUGS"
and give him a hug
and let him know its not cool because i bet thats one of the reasons hes trying in the first place.
good luckkk doll
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Hey hey hey! How iz life Shelbo? well i'm on advicenators now and i'm so bored! nobody has sent or asked me anything. Well, so wat have you done so far this summer? Me, i've done so much! I have a bf. and his name is Ian Lovett! He's so nice and talk about hot. Well i'll talk to ya later. Bye! My popcorn's burning.Wow it's black. ewww. Well bye!
llol hey! who is this? lacey? hehe anyways, im doing prrettty good. :D um ive been hanging out with tanya nad holly the whole summer. llol thats cool that u have a bf nameed ian llol. hope your popcorn tasted good. hehe bye!
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I have this friend that i really dont like and i really didnt want to be her friend in the first place..she pretty much took my BEST friend away from me in the first place..! i really cant explain why i hung out with her .. but i really need to end our " friendship " and i really dont know how! Please help i rate high!
That's a little harsh. Yeah, i understand that you are mad that she took your best frined, but before you blow up and get rid of her, you have to think of the reasons WHY you dont like her. Did she ever do anything to you that bothered you? You can't just dump her beacuse you dont like her. You COULD just let the friendship fade away. Like, dont invite her ANYWHERE from now on and if she invites you places, say your grounded or something and eventually yall will stop hanging out and talking and stuff. But DO NOT be rude to her because then you miht lose your BESTFRIEND if you havent lost her already. :D goodluck
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Ok, last week my 3 friends and I got in a fight, them vs. me. It kinda sucked cause i was like, definatly on my own and no one coul dback me up on anything, so we arent talking, none of us. And I want to talk to them so bad I just cant because I dont think they even like me anymore. One of those 3 friends was like my friend since 3rd grade so I see her as a BFFFFFFF. And shes the one who doesnt even want to TRY to make it work again. She even told me that we should just give up and that we arent gonna be best friends again. Hmm. what do i DO?
Ok, - I agree wtiheveryones answers. You are here trying to solve everything and they arent putting an effort in, especially that one girl that was y our frind since 3rd grade. Im sorry hun, but best friends are not forever, only the friends who stick by your side and do everything in their power to stay your friend, are the ones who last forever
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Hi, Im Andrea 15/f Ok, i've basically lost my best friends. I dont know what to do at all. I love them so much and I hate just not talking to them for a DAY so whats it gonna be like the rest of my life? And I mean, I just wish one of them would text me or IM me or try to talk to me because I feel like they don't even miss me. I don't know what to do, and right now I have NOONE to go to because i dont have any friends now. So how can I get them back? And what should I do? AAAA. This is ruining my life. I cry every 10 minutes and I've NEVER cried over friend problems before. I just dont wanna lose them, they mean so much to me. OMG. HELP!
aaaaw man. wow. thats kinda weird. anyways, um, yah, i think we are twin sisters having the same problems. forget your friends, or try to, i know its freakin the hardest thing you will ever do, but you have to, because obviously (since they havent made an effort to talk to you) they dont want to remain friends so why should you sit there and beg them? meet other people and hopefully one day you'll find a new best friend who cares about u enough to even talk to you during this hard time.......
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Well..i have these two friends lets call themm Tina and Mellisa well Mellisa has been a very good friend of mine for a long time n she has been my bestestfriend for a while.. so the other day me tina n mellisa were hanging out n then mellisa was acting differnt around tina n i dont like it at all cuz they like talk n say its private n stuff, n i feel like there talking about me n now everytime we hang out it sucks cuz mellisa acts differnt..what do i do?
Ok this kinda in a way happened to me, and I felt that my two other friends were getting closer and that i would get left out, and i like freaked out and thought one of my friends was changing, so we kinda have the same situation lol. But heres whats going on, tina and mellisa are probably getting closer, and i dont think they WANT to leave you out, they just are becoming better friends and i know its not gonna be the same and i know you probably wish it was back to how it was, but your gonna have to roll with it and try as hard as you can to be niec and not get jealous. Maybe you could do things with both of them sepearte so YOU could get closer to each of them. Like invite Tina over for a sleepover and then maybe the next day you can go somewhere alone with mellisa, just until you feel like your in the circle and your good friends with BOTH of them. hmmmm kinda long and confusing, lol, but o well good luck. :D
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i have this friend right. we have been really good friends for a long time but latley she has been bugging the hell out of me. all she ever does is critisize me and disagree. she has such a big ego and it is so annoying. she thinks that only she has the answers. i would stand up to her but i can't i'm at the point to where i am going to explode on whoever back talks me! what should i do? i can't talk to her because she knows everything.
Ok, if you have AIM or XANGA, you should write a huge message that says everything you feel, and then send it to her and she cant like, ignore it because everythings there for her to read. Tell her that if yall dont stop critisizing eachother, eventually its gonna ruin your rfiendship and you dont want that to happen. Tell her everything you said here and if she doesnt accept it, tahts her problem and you should ignore her for abou tlike 3 days and go from there. If she really cares about you and wants to be your friend, she'll come after you, or call you or whatever. good luck! :D
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I recently had a fight with my friend....and we havent talked in months. at first when we had our fight she told everyone she didnt want ot be my friend ever again...but today i asked my friend to ask her online our status. and she said she didnt think we would be the same, but she may still want to be friends. how should i act if i want to be friends but i dont want to seem annoying or clingy? i really want to repair this friendship! any tips for what to say and when?? help! i rate ^!!!
Ok, I think you should be like, "hey you wanna go to the movies or something, because we havent talked to eachother in forever and even though we might not become as close as we used to be, i think it would be really fun to hang out with you every now and then " and go out and do something with her. chat friendly every now and then. :D good luck!
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yeah okay, so my friend is being so stupid right now. so i know i have been doing a lot more with another friend, but she's one of my best friends. they both are. i think she's jealous or something. me and the friend i've been hanging out with more were saying how she's really pissing us off and being stupid lately. but she didn't know that. so whatever. i know you shouldn't talk about your friends but still, you know most people have. so randomly, she hasn't talked to me in 2 days. she's giving me and my other friend really nasty looks. we say we don't care, but i do. i hate people being mad at me. also, i'm in a state of minor depression, so this helps me none. she keeps saying like through profile and away message that someone should be killed, some is such a such a fag, or my friends are such bitches. but the thing is, i don't recall EVER doing ANYTHING to her to make her do this. i'm really ticked off. i haven't said or done the things she has, nor anything to provoke this. NO WAY would my friend tell her i talked about her because a)so did she, b)the girl is mad at her too, and c) she continues saying things about her...i say some but i am NOT the only one. so i don't know what the hell is up with her...but yeah. any advice?
note: don't say to just confront her, because when i do she says "whatever" or walks away or ignores me. so ya.
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carly
I would suggest emailing her or IMing her, but say everything in ONE BIG PARAGRAPH so she cant block you, or say whatever, or anything until she reads it. Tell her that you dont know waht you did to make her mad and say just what you said on here but nicer. Tell her that sometimes she overreacts. and i suggest you try to stop talking abou tyour friend because i used to always talk about my friends and it is sooo mean and now we lost a friend because of it. So watch what you say because you never know when y our friendmight tell her. if she does - DENY it. :D good luck. ps- if you really dont wnat to be her friend, dont be afraid to let her go. at first it will suck and you will wish you never did it, but in the long run, it makes life so easier not having a nagging annoying friend starting all these problems!
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Hey guys ok well .. two of my 'so called best friends' have just like .. ditched me & come up with excuses of why they hate my guts. One of my best friends [not one that hates me] i dont really know if i can trust but everything seems to be fine. But in the past we've had a number of fights and they might be like ruining our friendship. She says everything is ok though. And for my one, true best friend.. she has always stayed true but the two friends who hate me are like trying to turn her against me. I dont think they'll ever be able to though, we've been best friends for like, ever. I just want to know what I should do. Should i make more friends? Im really the shy type, so it would feel pretty awkward for me to just start talking with new people. I will appreciate ANY advice. Thanks soo much
I guess I can sort of relate to this situation. See, your friends HAVE to have a reason to not like you. You may not see it in their point of view, but you must be doing something that irritates or makes them mad. Its not smart to lost your friends over a few fights. When you make the choice to let go of one of your friends, you have to get everything sorted out and ask questions. Try emailing/IMing/xanga commenting your friends and say "Ok, I dont want to lose yall as my friends, so I just want to try to figure some things out. I know you guys probably have a reason to hate me, and I wish you would tell me so I would know to stop whatever it is that I am doing that makes you mad. Im sorry if I didnt realize this before and I hope we can sort out all of these problems." and as for the trust thing, all you have to do is not tell your friends ANYTHING that you dont want anyone else knowing! As for your BFF that you trust, you can confide in her, but try to keep your secrets to yourself around the other girls. Sometimes people cant help not being trustworthy, but atleast you know how to avoid any trust issues that may lead to future fights.
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two of my friends are coming over next friday for the first time...they are going to spend the night too...but the problem is that one of the girls has a proem of talknig about it infront of this other girl(who is not coming) and i feel bad cause she is getting left out...but lately she has been kinda annoying..like getting mad for no reason at all...so is it ok to still have just the two girls over or should we invite her too?? one of the girls says that she needs to relize that she dosent have to do everything with us...but i feel really bad....thanks!
Dont feel like you HAVE To haev a friend over that you dont want to come! Maybe you could invite the friends you WANT to come and only them, and some other time, have a sleepover with just you, the annoying girl, and another girl that LIKES the annoying girl. If you want the sleepover to be fun and you want everyone to get along, than dont invite this girl. Dont brag about the sleepover though, or talk about it. If she finds out, she finds out, just say your mom wouldnt let u invite more than 2 people.
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ok, well, this so called "friend-of-mine" is being rly well not herslef lately and we use to be bffaeae's until i realized that i dont need a friend like her and she was talking about me behind my back with another bff of mine but it looks like my so called friend doesnt wanna lose our friendship but i dont think i need her as a friend if shes gunna do that what should i do??!! PLEASE HELP
lol, it sounds like you dont really want this girl as a friend, i can tell by your subject lol. I know it's hard, but sometimes you just have to let go of a friendship if you think it wont work. I did that before and it was like an elephant was lifted off my shoulders! I think thats great that you realize that you dont need her, so now all you have to do is talk to her about it and dont be mean, just suggest that you not be "BEST FRIENDS". If she gets mad, its not your fault, you just want whats best for, well, yourself. Good luck! :D
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what are some good truth and dares for when you play truth or dare??
lol my friend holly dared me to run out in the middle of the street thing where all these people were and started shouting things at the sky like i was talking to god. lol i wouldnt do it. um, some more dares are below:::1. ask your friend to put on a wig and some serious makeup and crazy clothes and go next door or to a neighbor to ask for sugar! take pics!2. eat spinach in icecream. ahahaha3. call soemone hot from your school and say HI THIS IS (NAME) and YOUR MOMMAS SO FAT I MISSED MY SHOW BECAUSE SHE HAD TO WALK BY THE TV!. lol i dunno have fun
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i think im a really good advice-giver on here. my rating a 4.62. well when my friends come to me for advice i dont really know what to tell them. but when random people ask me advice i no right away a 'solution'. can someone please tell me if this is normal and what i can do to start helpin my friends?
maybe your afraid that if your friend follows your advice, you'll watch them get hurt and know that its your fault. and with random people, you dont care as much if your advice doesnt turn out the way it was supposed to. i totally understand that. i guess if my friends ask me for advice, i have no clue either. but i guess on here you have a long time to think of ways to word it, etc, and you can erase it and start over! i think you should tell your friends what you honestly think but tell them they should do whatever they think is right.
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When a guy puts his arm around a girls waist do u think the girl should put her arm around his waist or like his shoulders??
shoulders
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ok here is the thing i met this guy from my BFF...i backed off bc i knew she liked him and i didnt want to let her know i liked him...yet he is 2 months older yet a grade younger so he isnt in the high school with me yet..
im tryin to think of a way to let them both know that i like him with out obvious signals
he seems to flirt or whatever with me...like he will sometimes hug me or hell run from me n make me catch him..idk
i will most likely see him 2morro @ the mall again but im not sure...any ideas on how i can pull this off?
(should i keep my love to myself or no? lol)
Ok: first of all, if you and this guy get together right now, when your friend likes him, 1 of two things can happen: either your friend wont care and she will be happy, or she will hate you for "stealing" him. Most likely the second. I think you should just wait a while, and introduce your friend into other people and once she stops mentioning his name and talking about him, etc, than you should tell her that you like him and hooook up with him. :D good luck!
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My friend and I used to be really close and walk together to class. Now everytime I try to meet her she isn't there because shes with her new friend. What sould I do?
I think you should try and hang out with her more often by yallselves. Maybe you can befriend her new friend and you wont be so left out everytime they walk together. Also, just because ur friend is walking to class with another friend doesnt mean yall arent friends or that yall arent as close, im sure she just doesnt know how you feel!
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