I recently had a fight with my friend....and we havent talked in months. at first when we had our fight she told everyone she didnt want ot be my friend ever again...but today i asked my friend to ask her online our status. and she said she didnt think we would be the same, but she may still want to be friends. how should i act if i want to be friends but i dont want to seem annoying or clingy? i really want to repair this friendship! any tips for what to say and when?? help! i rate ^!!!
sshelbyy answered Monday June 6 2005, 10:18 am: Ok, I think you should be like, "hey you wanna go to the movies or something, because we havent talked to eachother in forever and even though we might not become as close as we used to be, i think it would be really fun to hang out with you every now and then " and go out and do something with her. chat friendly every now and then. :D good luck! [ sshelbyy's advice column | Ask sshelbyy A Question ]
OrangeChikn answered Sunday June 5 2005, 9:35 pm: Tell her your sorry, first and foremost. Plan a day to hang out and just talk about whatever you normally talk about. That's the first step. If you need anymore help let me know!
kooka-burra answered Sunday June 5 2005, 9:28 pm: Well just be yourself, yes i know that doesn't sound like alot of advice but think about it.
why do you want to be some ones friend when you have to keep your guard up about every thing you say. If you do that she will see right through you.
relax, it'll be awkward at first but then i'm sure you'll start acting like old friends again. I'd bring up some inside jokes. Ask about her family members or pets. " so, how is so and so doing? did she get that Mp3?" stuff like that.
SweetStarx89 answered Sunday June 5 2005, 9:24 pm: hey. dont have your other friends talk to her. if you want to be her friend again then be the one to speak up about it. ask her yourself and talk about what went wrong that you guys got into a huge fight and haven't talked in months. things wont be the same thats true but you can make this friendship stronger by learning from the last fight you guys had. nothing is better then making a friendship stronger. talk to her and i'm sure she feels the same way. dont be afraid to speak up first. hope i helped. let me know how it goes. Take Care. =) x3 SweetStar. [ SweetStarx89's advice column | Ask SweetStarx89 A Question ]
LauraRoxz answered Sunday June 5 2005, 9:16 pm: hey! haha i was that person... so nee wayz.. it told you.. i dont no if you have ne classes with her but say hi 2 her and mayb at lunch save a seat 4 her.....?? also maybe when you get to talking in a regular convo say like 'mayb you wanna got see a movie with me and LAURA? or go 2 the mall or something?" ahah cuz i no you both it would be fun! well thats all i can say
cya at skool tommrow! [ LauraRoxz's advice column | Ask LauraRoxz A Question ]
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