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my friend?
yeah okay, so my friend is being so stupid right now. so i know i have been doing a lot more with another friend, but she's one of my best friends. they both are. i think she's jealous or something. me and the friend i've been hanging out with more were saying how she's really pissing us off and being stupid lately. but she didn't know that. so whatever. i know you shouldn't talk about your friends but still, you know most people have. so randomly, she hasn't talked to me in 2 days. she's giving me and my other friend really nasty looks. we say we don't care, but i do. i hate people being mad at me. also, i'm in a state of minor depression, so this helps me none. she keeps saying like through profile and away message that someone should be killed, some is such a such a fag, or my friends are such bitches. but the thing is, i don't recall EVER doing ANYTHING to her to make her do this. i'm really ticked off. i haven't said or done the things she has, nor anything to provoke this. NO WAY would my friend tell her i talked about her because a)so did she, b)the girl is mad at her too, and c) she continues saying things about her...i say some but i am NOT the only one. so i don't know what the hell is up with her...but yeah. any advice?
note: don't say to just confront her, because when i do she says "whatever" or walks away or ignores me. so ya.
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carly
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Well im sorry to say this but you did talk behind her back and say mean stuff. I mean even if you dont think that your friend told her maybe one of your friends heard you talkin about it and told her. Also it sounds like she just feels left out like you have been ignoring her or sumthing while you've hung out with those other people. But she may be taking it a little over board. I know you told me to not say to confront her but thats the only thing you can do if you want your friend back. Just say that you have no idea why she is giving you nastly looks and stuff and that this just came out of the blew. If she walks off or says w/e just be like ok, if you just do that where never gonna solve this. If that doesn't work well maybe you should try and let the whole thing pass over.
Best of Luck!
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i think you should get one of your friends that is also friends with her (and not in the fight) to ask her why she's mad at you. make sure she doesnt mention you at the time though. once you find out what it is, you might want to ask your friend to plan something on the weekend with her and just the 2 of you, so you guys can work things out. but you dont have to, whatever works for you! hope this helps!
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I would suggest emailing her or IMing her, but say everything in ONE BIG PARAGRAPH so she cant block you, or say whatever, or anything until she reads it. Tell her that you dont know waht you did to make her mad and say just what you said on here but nicer. Tell her that sometimes she overreacts. and i suggest you try to stop talking abou tyour friend because i used to always talk about my friends and it is sooo mean and now we lost a friend because of it. So watch what you say because you never know when y our friendmight tell her. if she does - DENY it. :D good luck. ps- if you really dont wnat to be her friend, dont be afraid to let her go. at first it will suck and you will wish you never did it, but in the long run, it makes life so easier not having a nagging annoying friend starting all these problems!
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first talk to your other firend andmake sure she didnt say anything to her. then go up to her and trell her or u could just start spending time with her. she probely feels as if you ditched her for you rother friend hen backstaped her by talking about her! good luck hope everything works out! =)) x0x
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