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two of my friends are coming over next friday for the first time...they are going to spend the night too...but the problem is that one of the girls has a proem of talknig about it infront of this other girl(who is not coming) and i feel bad cause she is getting left out...but lately she has been kinda annoying..like getting mad for no reason at all...so is it ok to still have just the two girls over or should we invite her too?? one of the girls says that she needs to relize that she dosent have to do everything with us...but i feel really bad....thanks!
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You do not have to invite this other girl if you do not want to. If you just want it to be your two friends then just let it be your two friends. It's natural to feel very bad. Ask your friend that keeps talking about it to stop. She should understand. And if she doesn't then let her know that is annoying you as much as your the girl your not inviting can get sometimes. THat should stop her. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck
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Dont feel like you HAVE To haev a friend over that you dont want to come! Maybe you could invite the friends you WANT to come and only them, and some other time, have a sleepover with just you, the annoying girl, and another girl that LIKES the annoying girl. If you want the sleepover to be fun and you want everyone to get along, than dont invite this girl. Dont brag about the sleepover though, or talk about it. If she finds out, she finds out, just say your mom wouldnt let u invite more than 2 people.
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It's a tough choice, but you can't make everybody happy. I think I would leave her out of this one, but then do something special with her so that she knew that I still loved her. But whatever you do, there will probably be one person who doesn't like it. That's really their problem, and all you can do is let it go and try to be everyone's friend.
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its your desicion but think . . do YOU want her to come . . what do u think will haeppened if she comes? good luck hope it helped! =) x0
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