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Right to be mad?
During 4th period yesterday, my friend, Ryan had my cell and I forgot to get it back from him at the end of class. So he had to keep it and his 5th and 6th periods are football. All the football guys know me so I guess they thought they could mess with my phone and it would be alright. Here's just a few things I found out they did:
1. changed my b/f's name to "cock sucker"
2. took pictures of themselves in the shower (surprisingly enough, I wasn't turned on)
3. sent dirty texts to people
4. changed my dad's name to "do not answer"
5. downloaded all these songs and games
6. i have a "never delete" folder for the texts i want and didn't want to delete and they of course, deleted them! (they claim this one was an accident)
7. and changed the language to German
I was furious with them when I saw my cell. Mostly at Ryan for letting them do it. So, I am not talking to any of them until I figure out if they're worth it or not. Specially Ryan. Now, he claims he is mad at me because I had no right to be mad at him because it wasn't his fault! How immature is that? I don't care that they used up my texts or downloaded stuff that cost money and I don't want them to pay me back or anything but what should I do?
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Im really sorry but that is kinda funny! I mean i would be pissed for a while but then i would end up laughing! I dont think you should be mad at any of them just change it all back! Its no big deal. And then next time you have his phone do the same thing(LOL Not really i mean unless you want to).
Hope I helped!
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omg you deff. have the right to be mad at him! he should have been responcible for the cell phone and not let other peopel do that to YOUR property.. but i do think you should make them pay for anything that they did.. other than that hun i don't know what you should do :-( hope i helped if you need anything else let me no
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what they did was definatly wrong but here the thing with guys...they dont care if some girl is mad at them. seriously. and you'll never know who really did it so your just mad b/c you choose to be. i think you guys should have a long chat about responsiblity, suck it up and be friends again. you'll be fine...just change everything back, apologize to the people that got dirty texts and never let them use your phone again. hope that helps! <3
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You def have the right to be mad at them... I would be very upset about it... I would def make them pay for the games and ringtones they downloaded.. that stuff can be very expensive.. and you shouldnt have to pay for it when they did it.. So I would def confront them about it.. Ryan has no right to be mad at you.. He had your phone.. and he had the responsibility to protect your phone like it was his own..
Hope This Helps... Good Luck
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Wow what they did was very immature. But, they're your friedns..I guess, so just take a break for a little while and let yourself cool down. Because you shoulnd't waste your time being mad at people when you'll eventualyl be friends again...so why stress about it right? I've wasted my time being mad at people and in ther end I'm the only one that suffers because I stress about ti all the time...what they did was their idea of funny..so they weren't neccasarily doing it to hurt you. Just tell them that you don't want them messing with you phone and that they can make you laugh and all btu not by doing stuff like that. Well good luck and I hope you get your cell back to normal!! ♥ caitie
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You should be REALLY mad at the football people. but give Ryan a second chance caus eh could have been peer preseaured.Just don't makeout with him for a week as punishment.also stay away from those football people. P.S rate a 5
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Oh my god that tends to happen to me a lot! I would let someone look through my phone and forget to get it back. The worst I had happen to me was the girls decided to try and schege a date at PF Chang's with 3 of my recent exes (clearly marked in my address book) on the same night as, well, another "date". Of course, this was all totally forgiven since they put a stop to it before the initial date.
What it looks like to me is just a bunch of boys being boys and trying to outdo each other with silly pranks. What bothers me, though, are the nude pictures, dirty texts to other people, and deleting your folders and texts. Everything else seems very typical, but those are violations, possibly one that is punishable by law in your state. Aren't cell phones officially banned from all gyms and locker rooms?
If you're willing to forgive them, I would suggest talking to them, SEPARATELY, rather than as a group, and if you don't feel they're taking responsibility for being an ass, then you should tell the coach or your administrator. This kind of joking-around can bar them from the season. Again, these are just boys, being boys, and they don't mean it in any sordid way. Personally, I would make sure they restore my cell phone and what they can't, make sure they apologize for.
As for your friend Ryan, are you sure that's the kind of person you want to be friends with? The nude pictures are just foul. When you're talking to them, try and remain calm, and offer strong points about why what they did was wrong. Firmly let them know that next time this happens you will take action.
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the downloaded games and stuff..that costs money doesn't it?
ask your friend to ask them to each pitch in a buck for that.
you have a right to be mad because that was very immature..but they were just having fun and when a bunch of guys get together they can often go overboard.
you can't hold a grudge on all of them because..it's not THAT big of a deal..just make sure they know you didn't appreciate it and that they apologize.
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Ok thats so crazyy haha they do sound VERY immature. I would be soo mad if this happened to me, but you can't hold a grudge on all of them for the rest of your life. You should be lucky you even got your phone backk! My 3 past cellphones all got stolenn (its horrible). yahh they shouldnt have done that, but i think if you just talk to this ryann kid and explain why you got so mad and IF he says sorry, you should forgive and forget. I know its hard, but sometimes you have to. good luckk
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thats so wrong you should be very mad the best thing to do is to tell the football coach he will handle this i gurnetee you he will! he will make them pay for that and the probaly all will get in big trouble for taking naked pics.
tell the foot ball coach i promise you football coaches are strict and he was the one that was in controll when this happend so you should most defrentally tell him trust me please rate
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