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Acting Differnt...
Well..i have these two friends lets call themm Tina and Mellisa well Mellisa has been a very good friend of mine for a long time n she has been my bestestfriend for a while.. so the other day me tina n mellisa were hanging out n then mellisa was acting differnt around tina n i dont like it at all cuz they like talk n say its private n stuff, n i feel like there talking about me n now everytime we hang out it sucks cuz mellisa acts differnt..what do i do?
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Ok this kinda in a way happened to me, and I felt that my two other friends were getting closer and that i would get left out, and i like freaked out and thought one of my friends was changing, so we kinda have the same situation lol. But heres whats going on, tina and mellisa are probably getting closer, and i dont think they WANT to leave you out, they just are becoming better friends and i know its not gonna be the same and i know you probably wish it was back to how it was, but your gonna have to roll with it and try as hard as you can to be niec and not get jealous. Maybe you could do things with both of them sepearte so YOU could get closer to each of them. Like invite Tina over for a sleepover and then maybe the next day you can go somewhere alone with mellisa, just until you feel like your in the circle and your good friends with BOTH of them. hmmmm kinda long and confusing, lol, but o well good luck. :D
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get better friends
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ask them why they dont tell you what they have to say in stead of behind your back.
also if they say something behide your back then there not ur true friends
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first of all, never change the peoples names because it makes you look like a dumbass. with all the millions of people in the world how the fuck are we going to know who your two friends are.
ok now. why dont you ask "mellisa" about it? tell her its bothering you and tell her what you see when the three of you are together. this may be something youll want to talk to tina about too.
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Well, honestly, if "mellisa" has been your bestestfriend for so long then you should be able to talk to her about it. Tell her that you feel like she has been acting different, let her explain. And if you get an answer that isnt the greatest, then maybe she wasnt the greatest friend you thought she was. Don't become too upset about it right now, at least give her the benefit of the doubt
Tell me how it goes, and good luck
Janay
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I think they just don't like the fact that you can't spell.
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well sumthings going on but theres only one way to know and thats to ask them about it
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