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weird friend
i have this friend right. we have been really good friends for a long time but latley she has been bugging the hell out of me. all she ever does is critisize me and disagree. she has such a big ego and it is so annoying. she thinks that only she has the answers. i would stand up to her but i can't i'm at the point to where i am going to explode on whoever back talks me! what should i do? i can't talk to her because she knows everything.
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Ok, if you have AIM or XANGA, you should write a huge message that says everything you feel, and then send it to her and she cant like, ignore it because everythings there for her to read. Tell her that if yall dont stop critisizing eachother, eventually its gonna ruin your rfiendship and you dont want that to happen. Tell her everything you said here and if she doesnt accept it, tahts her problem and you should ignore her for abou tlike 3 days and go from there. If she really cares about you and wants to be your friend, she'll come after you, or call you or whatever. good luck! :D
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I think that you should tell her that she should maybe stop and listen to you more because all she ever does is think "oh im always right and you cant tell me otherwise" i had a friend like that and confronted her about it and now we're really good friends and she seems like a better person!
*hope this helps!*
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ignor her!!
x3 Gracie
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she thinks shes a know it all... maybe you guys need a break
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OMG! I thought I was the only one with that problem...I Finly brook loos and told my friend that she needs to have respect for me...I mean she always treeted me like I was dumb! She always made better grades than me and told me that my clothes were ugly...Tell her that you won't to tell her somenthing and that you are going to talk and that you don't won't her to say a word and when you get finshed you can listen to her. Show her how bad it hurts to have lost a friend and to be constantly put down becasue she thinks that she knows more than you! I am sure that you know just as much as her!
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Stand up to her. If you say you cant you're weak, and tahts why she's doing it in the first place.
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This pRobably isn't what you wanted to heaR, but I think you Really ought to gatheR up enough guts to confRont heR on this; seeing as how it DOES sound like she could use someone to put heR in heR place. SoRRie that seems like such a lame answeR, but honestly.. it seems like the only thing *TO DO*, ya know? The absolutely WORSE thing to do in this situation would be to take it out on a guilty paRty who has absolutely *nothing to do with this. So at least foR the sake of THEM.. talk to heR... Goodluck; hope this helps!! =D
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take some time away from your friend. don't ignore her, but hang out with some other friends until you cool down. when you do start hanging out with her again if she acts the same, start by saying "hey, pam, i really feel angry/upset/ect. when you say/do _______." make sure to say it in a calm tone, if you come at her in a harsh way it will make things 10 times worse. good luck.
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