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He broke up with me for his ex girlfriend and then yesterday he told me he left his ex girlfriend because she is too up tight for him. He wants to be friends now. But I still like him... A lot! I don't know if I should be friends with him because he doesn't feel the same way. What do I do? Be friends with him or don't? P.s we were friends before we started dating and personally I thought we got along better when we were dating. (link)
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It's all up to you. He wants to be friends and you want a relationship. Does he know that you still want to date him? You have to give him time because right now I think he's trying to figure out what he wants. And right now he just wants friendship. Now you can wait for him to come back to you or you can be friends with him, but look for other guys. It depends on how you both want to move forward. But make sure he knows how you feel. If you think you guys are better off as a couple, TELL HIM.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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Ok so im a 16/m and I have been having these random erections out of nowhere. I mean my penis just rises out of nowhere for no reason.
Like I usually always be getting erections at school when im sitting down , and I ALWAYS get an erection when Im riding the bus and it doesnt go away untill after the end of my class or it usually just stays till lunch break, so that means I have to hold my bag on my penis when I walk (makes me feel awkward)
I dont even think about sex, and I dont even really care about the girls in my school. I hardly never get excited.
But my little friend in my pants usually always gets excited.
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It's a part of growing up and maturing physically. Your body produces hormones which causes your unexpected erections. It's completely normal. I'm 16 also, so I know exactly what you mean and how you feel.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
P.S. Try crossing your legs when it happens.
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Okay, I'm 13/f and I have a Best Friend, 12/M and he's my only Best Friend. I know some of you guys might expect I need a girl friend, but I don't. I really don't like having girl friends because it causes drama, and fights and I can't stress myself over that. Anyways, I kind of have this thing where every girl says, "OMG, you're so popular, pretty, you have it all, every guy likes you, and you're so perfect." I know I'm not those things. I don't like hearing those. I mean, sure guys like me even older ones and they all hit on me. I don't appreciate it when they do that especially if they have a girlfriend of their own!! I mean it's very flattering they like me, but I don't know what is it I'm doing to make them hit on me. So, I talked to my Best Friend, and he's dating also, and he hit on me last night. I felt terrible. I don't know what to do. I feel like they are all just using me so they can get something out of me. I know they can't and they never will. A lot of them, have asked me out and I've turned them down. I never really dated, kissed anyone, I never gone beyond the point of hugging. What do you guys think? I love my Best Friend he's like my brother to me. It only seems like they hit on me while they're dating then, the guys dump their girl(s) then ask me out! That's really stupid. I don't know what to do. Please help. (link)
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Tell those guys that you don't like being hit on, then ignore them. Besides, the guys your age are probably starting puberty so it could just be hormones. But I'm sure that eventually, you'll find the right guy. Someone who loves and appreciates you for who you are on the inside as well as the outside.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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Hi, I'm 19/f
my whole life, I have been to maybe 5 different churches, and for some reason, I just feel as if church isn't for me. I find it very boring.
I believe in God to the fullest, but sometimes I have my questions, and of course, everyone's answers are going to be different depending on their beliefs.
But within the 5 churches I have been too, I have got many different answers regarding the following question:
DO YOU HAVE TO BE BAPTISED TO GO TO HEAVEN?
I have heard, Yes, you do; and I have heard no you don't, as long as you believe you have a right into God's Kingdom.
Personally, I believe that IF God is as mightly and loving as others make him out to be, than shouldn't he know who believes in him, and who doesn't? Why does baptism give you the pass to Heaven? Why can't believing just be enough??
I have never been baptised, but I have been saved. I pray to God; not just when I want something, but to let him know that I appreciate the things he has given me, and letting me live another day.
Everyone tells me to 'read the bible' but personally, I don't want too. How did God write the bible when he didn't have anything to use? Idk where it came from, who really wrote it, or even if it is true.
Is it wrong for me to have all these questions and these doubts? Does that make me a non believer?
My father told me to talk to a priest, but honestly, I won't get a solid answer, and I feel as if I'll be wasting my time. No one knows the REAL truth about any of it.
Sometimes I question if there is a Heaven or a Hell. How do we really know if they are real; has anyone died and came back and said, 'Man, Heaven is amazing; or Hell is hot as fire!"
I feel so guilty questioning this- but I'm just curious.
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Sorry it's a bit long.
This is a great question. Now you don't need a pool of water to be baptized. You can pray to God and tell him that you commit your life to him and that you want to be baptized in the blood of jesus and he can do it just like that. But you have to believe that he will do it and you have to mean what you say. Now about the bible. God spoke to people and some of those people wrote it down and it became part of the bible. I have a King James Version bible and it gives me an introduction to each book of the bible and tells you how that book came to be. For example, the book of Genesis was written by Moses. In the book of Song of Solomon, it is composed of speeches between two lovers, Solomon and a Shulamite girl. I know you said that you don't want to read the bible but it really does answer some questions. I felt the same way you did once. I would read the bible and understand none of it. I would try to schedule days to read but they never happened. But I made a decision for myself that I want to be closer to God.
You also said, "No one knows the real truth about any of it." Well that's where believing comes in. If you believe in God, then you have no doubt that he is real and what he says is true. It's hard to describe. We believe because we feel that it is true.
Christianity is a very spiritual and emotional thing. When it comes to God, you can't think with your mind. You have to think with your heart. That is what God speaks to. I'm sorry if I don't sound to convincing. But Jesus said let the children come to me. So you have to go to him of your own free will. Nobody can force you. When you decide to open your heart to Jesus Christ, it will be because you chose to do it willingly.
I really hope this helps.
~Andrew~
P.S. If you ever have any more questions about religion, just ask me.
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im 9 years and want to know how to get him to touch my boobs im 100% sure i want to please tell me im in love pluse my boobs are big and sexy!!!!!so please help (link)
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YOU'RE NINE YEARS OLD! Focus on school and learn what love is because right now you're getting love confused with lust. When your in love, you like the way a person makes you feel emotionally. When your in lust, all you can thing about is satisfying your sexual cravings. Wait until you're older and maybe talk to you're parents and ask them what it felt like when they first met.
Good Luck.
~Andrew~
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hey im from a place where people look weirdly if a guy and girl talk..they consider a girl a a slut
in such a place i was in relationship with 3 guys.
(this is was when i was 14) the first guy was crazy guy.. we had sex except for the blowjob and then we broke up.
(when i was 15 ) the second guy n me kissed n d cops caught us in a lonely place n later left.
(this was when i was 15)the third guy n me had sex except d blowjob... he seriously accepts knowing everything about the two guys and he wants me.. but i feel like i am a slut n he deserves better than me.
if my parents get to know about this. they will die. as in our place a girl losing her virginity is considered a slut.
do you think i am a slut?
do you think i should be with the third guy?
do you think my parents would forgive me?
do you think i should run away from all this?
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Well I don't think you should of had sex at 14. I answered a question about sex so you can look on my profile to find it. But just to let you know, blowjobs counts as sex. But sex is a sacred thing and when you lose your virginity you CAN NOT GET IT BACK. What you do can't be undone. You have to listen to your heart and love and appreciate yourself before you can be in a relationship. Tell your parents the truth and start forgiving yourself. And while you do that, don't have sex anymore until you know what it means and how big of a commitment it actually is. If you want to stay with your boyfriend, then you need to work on uilding your relationship on an emotional level. And running away doesn't help anything and I don't think you should die. You have the right to live as much as anyone else.
Take care and love yourself.
~Andrew~
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hi...i got married to this guy in 2011. now i know that he is bisexual... i came to know this by reading his messages in a gay community in his phone.i love him a lot... when i asked him he told me he was a bisexual , he is not involved with any guy after he got married , and he will be with me forever.i dont know if i can trust him or not. i hav't told this to my parents either as they would never get what bisexual is.
can bisexuals be loyal to a women... he says he had sexual relation with more than 50 guys. how can i trust him, he will not do it again.
now he wants me to get pregnant...please help me, i don't know have anyone to talk to.. i love him a lot, i feel like committing suicide nt able to decide what to do.please please please help me. (link)
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Well don't commit suicide! That would just be silly and you know it. Listen to your heart. Do you want to have children with this man? Or do you want to wait? Because you just got married a year ago! You have to decide for yourself. Nobody will do it for you. You need to consider everything that has happened and everything that will happen when you make your decision. Talk to your husband. If you love him so much than you should be able to tell him what you told us. Don't let him think everything is ok when it's not. Let him know how you're feeling. This is all the advice I can give.
~Andrew~
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I want to say that I appreciate your thoughts.
You are so right, suicide may seem selfish (I was of that opinion once), but it is EQUALLY selfish for loved ones to insist one with no future continue to live in misery because it makes THEM (the "loved ones") feel better.
Some of us are intelligent enough and thoughtful enough to realize that the situation we are in has no future and that there is nothing at all that can be done about it. I find it disgusting and terribly unjust that we have no option to get medication for a humane and painless death (like we give animals) when there is no possibility for any improvement in our situation.
I am a (50 year old) "useless eater" in a situation that will not change. I have no marketable skills, my husband can't work (long story there) and we're in deep shit financially. What purpose is there for continuing? I don't have any hobbies that bring me joy. I've never known joy, I have few pleasant emotions, been that way my entire life. Even if I did have a hobby that brought me joy, could I afford to do it? LOL
Thanks for your thoughtful and fair comment!
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I know I'm too young, but if your unhappy in your marriage then leave it. If you have tried to work things out mentally, physically, financially, etc. and you're still feeling suicidal, then get out of you're marriage. Don't keep doing something that you know is hurting you. And yes suicide is selfish. IT'S SELFISH TO YOURSELF! You deserve to live a full and happy life. Why end it short. You could live to be 100. I'm not joking. Your life is clearly not over if you want to end it. Go out and meet new people. DO SOMETHING. But don't sit around contemplating suicide and being miserable. If your unhappy, do something about it.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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Ok so recently i followed advice on how to make myself more attractive and it has made a huge improvment with my relationship with the guy but suddenly i dont have feelings for him anymore, i have feelings for another guy known as my 'lil bruv' yes i love him dearly but in a brotherly sisterly way but now i feel abit different about him like i love him in a bf & gf way wich i guess is normal but i still quite shy and didnt have the confidence to ask him out and great, now he asked out someone else and im heart broken, really, i feel real bad and have been sad alot recently and also really jelous that i feel i should give up but,i really want him to be mine. its quite impossible but another boy came up with the idea of playing dares and theyre dirty dares and recently iv seen theres hope but id need to use dares as an exuse to do something that will show my affection for him but will also hide it, iv been thinking of plans its not working out so good, i need a plan, any ideas? i just need him cuz without him theres something missing in my heart. plz help me! (link)
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Stop trying to hide your feelings! Go to him and tell him the truth. And the dirty dares thing is a HORRIBLE idea. Your not trying to get him to cheat on his girlfriend, but your trying to tell him the truth. And yes it is cheating because whatever the dare tell you guys to do will mean something totally different to you. Just talk to him when he is alone. If he is always with his gf, then call him on his cell phone. But tell him the truth. DO NOT TRY AND PLAY GAMES! Just tell the truth. I can't stress that enough.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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Yes you are too young to have sex. Just because you hear kids talk about it and you know some kids who have had sex before, doesn't mean you need to follow them. Your body is a sacred thing along with your virginity. Once you give it to somebody else you can't get it back. If you remember your parents giving you "the talk", then they've told you, "Sex happens when two people LOVE eachother." Yes sex is a pleasurable experience, but it is also an emotional experience. The pleasure only affects your body, but the emotions affect you on a mental level. Young kids don't understand the emotional part of sex because it is a very sacred thing between two people.
What I'm trying to say is, WAIT. Until you truly understand the meaning behind sex, don't get under the sheets with ANYBODY. When you do start dating (in a few years hopefully) and you think you're ready to have sex, listen to what your heart is saying. Don't have sex because of the pleasure, but because you are ready for that EMOTIONAL CONNECTION. Because what you do, can't be undone.
I hope this helps. And I hope you make WISE decisions.
~Andrew~
P.S. This advice is for BOYS and GIRLS of ALL ages.
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I had a small hole in the middle of behind my two front teeth last night any idea what it could b (link)
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I think thats a cavity. You can go to the dentist and scedule an appointment.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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So I've been talking to this guy for about a year off & on. I'm 13 & a female. Yes I'm young, but my maturity level is VERY HIGH. The guy I've been talking to is everything I look for in a guy, he isn't like the others. But he is 15. Now remember you donot know me, but anyone that does knows I'm very mature for my age. & this guy I like he isn't asking anything from me. He's not a virgin, but he's only had sex ONE time. With someone he was with for awhile. Anyways, what is your opinion opon such a an age difference? (link)
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I can tell you really want to date this guy. But the thing is that you are very young and most of the time older guys try to take advantage of that. YOU NEED TO BE VERY CAREFUL. Don't let him tell you what to do or try to pressure you into anything. If he EVER says, "If you don't do this, I'm going to break up with you!", than you need to get out of the relationship IMMEDIATELY! I would tell you not to get involved with this guy at all, but it's not my decision and I'm sure that you would still go out with him regardless of what I say. Overall, just be careful and put your feelings and beliefs before your boyfriend. Don't let him affect you negatively and always decide for yourself, what is right and wrong and don't be willing to follow him anywhere. AND LISTEN TO YOUR PARENTS! It sounds silly now, but you'll be thankful for their advice later on. Hopefully they know about your boyfriend.
Be careful and be safe.
~Andrew~
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I have been helping a guy friend for the past two years through a divorce. He has recently bought a new house, got his divorce and has a new girlfriend. Suddenly all the help, emotionally and physically such as moving, etc.that I provided is out the window and he has turned into an ungrateful self centered brat. I have listened to his whining about the divorce, moved furniture, stored it at my house, provided advice, a real estate agent, shopping for mattresses, babysitting for his kid, rearranged my schedule and life to help him during this period.
A month ago he said he would be a supportive friend to me at a going away party which he knew I would get emotional at. One of my best friends were moving. The day before he called for details and asked if the girlfriend could come and that he was coming to support me. Really, with the girlfriend along? I have tried to get to know her but she is always busy and I have a feeling she has no desire to get to know me. So, he showed up for about an hour, alone, checking his email the whole time and then left without even a goodbye! Seriously! I emailed later that night and thanked him for coming an told him that I felt that we were no longer friends due to the lack of respect lately and that his new girlfriend wanted nothing to do with me and that she was the winner of everything and I lost everything. Well, I never heard back from him and that was 8 days ago. I am refusing to reach out like I usually do and am going to wait until he contacts me. The question is when he will or even WILL HE? What should I do. I will probably see him in a few days. He has changed since the divorce and everyone told him not to date for a little while but he says she is perfect and so smart, etc. but when they are together he treats her no different than the rest of us and even talked her into babysitting when we all went to a festival. I thought that was tremendously rude but he said she offered since her friend who was suppose to babysit did not show up. All I know is that she did not look too happy about staying behind. I know I sound jealous, but I think I am more resentful that she was not there holding his hand the past two years and I did not even get a thank you. What do you think?
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WELL YOU NEED TO TALK TO YOUR FRIEND! If he is acting different then you, being his best friend, are the only one who can tell him and let him know. You have to tell the truth and let him know how you really feel and tell him what's on your mind.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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So my girlfriend has this guy friend, and they've been friends for awhile. Not as long as I've known her, but they're still pretty close I guess. I don't like the kid. We just don't hang out or talk much... We're very different guys. He bothers me though, not just for what the title says either. He just acts like a tool. But what bothers me the most, is how he treats my girlfriend sometimes. He gets handsy with her, and a little rough at that. They'll "fight" over the remote and he'll pin her down to get it. When really. She's 5'4 and 100 pounds. Not necessary. Or she'll call shot gun and he'll scoop her up and phsically put her in the back seat. She does complain about this sometimes but it doesn't bother her that much, she says they have a brother-sister like relationship, it doesn't bother her that he'll leave her with a bruise every once in a while. But it DOES bother me. And I've talked to her about it. She says he doesn't do it in a flirty way, that again, its like sibling fights, but I'm mostly just upset that he hurts her... I'm not okay with it. It doesn't bother me that he touches her, even if he is doing it in a flirty way because I trust her and I know she doesn't see it that way. I just wish he'd be a little more gentle with MY girl. So do I talk to him or do I try to get it across to her more... and either way... how?? I'm 17/M shes 16/F. (link)
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I think you should talk to both of them. Let her know that you don't mind him touching her, as long as she doesn't get any bruises or scars. And also you need to talk to him and let him know that you don't like him playing rough with your girl. Tell him he needs to have a litle bit more respect for women.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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Is God only a pure and loving God who does positive things in our life when we trust in Him and give Him our lives?
I have very bad anxiety. I've seen therapists and have taken pills for it, but it affects my relationship with God greatly because, I've always been scared of life-threatening illnesses or disfigurements... or something just happening to me that will keep me from finding love or being married... or just being able to live my life to its fullest.
I'm scared that if I trust God and hand my life over to Him that something along those lines will be His plan for me.
Does God hurt people like that? The people I see in wheelchairs... or the people burned on over 90% of their body... is that the work of God? Or the devil? Or... humans...?
Is God only responsible for the good and pure? Or does he cause harm as punishment? Or... because it's someone's plan?
I'm very scared of this. Every day I am scared.
I want to be able to love and trust God fully... but I need to know that he won't hurt me like this if I trust him.
Why do terrible things happen to good, God-fearing Christians? What causes that?
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God is a good god! He is all powerful and all knowing. Keep in mind that God always wants the best for you and will never stop loving you. You have to trust God, and what you'll go through will be to your benefit. NO MATTER WHAT IT IS! You have to make a promise to God that you are going to serve him and that you will hold on to his hand no matter what. But God can't promise you that you'll go through life unharmed and untouched because that's not a part of life. Everything that happens to you in your life is supposed to teach you something. You're supposed to learn from your experiences. When you trust God, what you're saying is, "God I give my life and myself to you willingly, knowing that the road will get rough but I'll trust you no matter WHAT." Many well-known preachers and prophets had to go through hell and high water just to get to where they are today. So if you want God to take you to that next level, you'll have to go through some things. But as long as you trust God wholeheartedly, it will all be worth it.
God bless you and Good Luck!
~Andrew~
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So, I'm in love with this guy I've known for a year, he's 15... he's in highschool. He makes me smile! He's the sweetest, anyways I'm 13 female I will be finishing my last year of middle school this year. He claims he's in love with me as well, but I feel bad because of the fact that I can't just make plans with him because my dad doesnt know about him & also there is females out there that are his age & can have a boyfriend. I'm not sure if I can have a boyfriend or not.. But I'm just scared to ask my dad. So how should I tell him? HELP! (link)
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Tell the truth and let your dad know how much you like this guy and he might be understanding. Maybe even let your dad meet him probably.
Good Luck!
~Andrew~
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I need to know wot people think of rules in a relationship. I have this boyfriend with whom I got too many do's and dont's.
Well things like get home early in the evenings when out with friends (m talking 7 pm!)which is really early. Strictly no meeting up with Male friends unless my boyfriend is informed. Even if allowed to meet any, strict deadlines to get back home early. No talking to anybody after 10pm (be it anybody except family )family was made an exception on my request. No wearing shorts or sleeveless! though something i wud have loved in a store.Strictly no drinking when he is not around (he is in a different country). One of my best friend's happens to be a guy. my boyfriend never liked him since this friend cared a lot for me. So one more rule added- 'never talking to him again'!
Well all this i followed religiously until today where I got 2 days left for my birthday and my friends are planning a girls night out. so that means drinking involved. I tried asking my boyfriend if could have this party(strictly girls party) . But he says 'NO'! n also mentions its hurting to say 'no'. Last birthday he didnt let me receive phone calls! so i missed lot of people trying to wish me on my birthday. Later he justified saying he said that only when we were busy with something else. Is this healthy? peolpe say life is not a fairytale. is it true to this extent? what should I do? (link)
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Your boyfriend has way to many rules. Rules are very healthy in a relationship, but to many can be suffocating. Rules are supposed to be more like boundaries you don't cross in order to maintain a trustworthy relationship. But not letting you live your life is not one of them. Think about if you were married to this guy. Would your marriage be like this? If I were you, I wouldn't want my girlfriend to have me under lock and key. I would want her to be able to trust me. So here's the deal. You need to talk to your boyfriend and let him know how you feel and ask him to give you a good reason as to why he has so many rules. Once you've done that, you both will come up with a few rules and they must be reasonable and both parties must agree to the terms. You could even put it on paper. But if he doesn't want to listen, then you can decide where you want your relationship to go.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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Thank you to anyone who takes the time to read this!
I am 20 and was in my second long relationship about a month and a half ago. We dated for about 3.5 years but were long distance for the last 2.5 years. (about a 6 hour drive but we would still see each other every month at least)
Well I ended things with him because right now things werent working out. He is seriously addicted to drugs(crack and pills) and relapsed after going 90 days strong after getting out of rehab. I have always been there for him and always talked to him and tried to cheer him up. But the fact was, I cant help someone who wont help themselves. My two older brothers suffured from addiction too and I so desperately wanted to free my life from that. Plus I'm in college working on my senior year and will end up doing what I love more than anything and I felt like I was being weighed down.
So those are all the reasons "being friends" wont work for me. I am completely in love with this kid regardless of the fact that drugs are the number one thing in his life. I pray and pray that he finds his way soon and I cant help but find myself holding onto the hope that we will someday make things work.
Here comes my other problem. I am constantly depressed because I'm just waiting for him to find someone else. I feel like he finds relationships to make himself less lonely and then will be clean for a couple months. I am so torn up about the idea of him moving on and being with someone else because I would like to think if he did get clean or did have emotional space to get a girlfriend, he would come back to me. I heard from a mutual friend that he may have been talking to someone else. I never felt worse in my life. Its horrible when someone can move on so fast. But the thing is they weren't sure if he was using "im going out with this girl" as an excuse to get his parents off his back about drugs and lend him money for the "date". because they wouldnt think he was doing drugs if he was dating. So I really dont know what to believe
Then for about a week he has been trying to contact me and left me a voicemail saying how much he wanted to get together and talk and how much he missed me. I ignored it and then 2 nights ago he kept calling and said please just answer so I did.
We havent talked for a month and a half and it was weird. He kept saying he reread and reread this note I wrote him while he was in rehab and how much he wanted to make it work with me one day but knew that he couldn't right now. He said he wasnt talking to anyone.
This call killed me. Now I'm waiting more! I love him so much but I know that I cant sit around waiting because chances are...he will just find someone else. I mean time heals all for most people and his feelings will lessen when he doesnt talk to me. I dont know how to move on and its so hard to resist the urge to just call him and try talking to him when I know hes not what I want right now (just becasue hes what I will want in the future maybe)
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It's like you said, you can't help somebody who won't help themselves. You have to move on and leave the past in the past. If he wants to come back to you, it will be when he is ready. The most you can do is pray that he gets help.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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My grandmother passed away about 4 months ago now. She left behind a small will, but many possessions that were not listed in the will. Currently, most of these things (decor, books, jewelry) are sitting in our house. With several items, people have just expressed interest in them and my mom or dad will just generously give them away, as we don't really need them, and it seems like what my grandma would have wanted.
There is one box, however, that has remained untouched. This is all of my grandmother's jewelry. We aren't sure of a lot of the value, and so we haven't really decided what to do with it. Recently though, I was made aware that my grandma's wedding and anniversary rings are also in this box, and she hadn't left them to anyone in her will.
Here is my question- I am getting married next year, and currently my boyfriend and I are looking at rings. Honestly, I would really love to have my grandma's ring, but it seems a little rude to ask for it, because I don't want to seem like I am trying to profit off her passing or anything...
Is there anyway I could bring this up without coming across like I am using my grandma's death for my own benefit?
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Just ask your parents for it. Let them know that you want something to remember her by.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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My name is david and im 16 and im having trouble asking a girl out, but the problem is that she is my best friend, her name is tiana she is also 16, we have been best friends since 3rd grade and now where sophmore's. i recently broke up with my gf about a month ago for cheating and tiana has been helping me deal with it every step of the way, i started noticing that i liked her when i started dreaming about her in my dreams, and now i just cant stop thinking of her, everytime i meet her at school i get butterrflies, i just cant stop thinking of her. i want to ask her out on a date but im scared she might reject and we might stop being best friends. i dont know what to do i wanna be with her but i dont wanna lose her, i dont want to lose my best friend... SHOULD I ASK HER OR LEAVE IT THE WAY IT IS? i dont know what to think. (link)
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It's all up to you. Do you want her to know the truth or do just want to stay friends? If you do ask her out and she says yes, than you need to be faithful and trustworthy. DO NOT CHEAT ON HER! She already knows you did it once to your ex-girlfriend. This is a very tough situation, but all I can say is trust and follow your heart.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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