im 9 years and want to know how to get him to touch my boobs im 100% sure i want to please tell me im in love pluse my boobs are big and sexy!!!!!so please help
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? holla13 answered Thursday July 12 2012, 11:14 am: honey, you're 9 years old. You need to be talking to your mom about this. Why and when did you start caring about your boobs?? You're like 9 years old, and I'm pretty sure your boobs aren't as big as they seem. I've met other 9 year old with the same chest as me, and I'll admit, they are a bit small for my age I'm 13/f. I mean, you mighht start caring because that's when you start wearing training bras. Sweetie, those aren't really bras, they are just like a tanktop only covering your boobs. Start being concious about your boob when your like in 5th grade because that's when you start wearing bras. Plus, you're not in love, your in love with the fact that you think a guy could feel you up. That is called lust. You shouldn't even worry about that yet. Some of my friends had sex and they are 13 yo like me!! They regret it because they were only thinking being felt all over the place. Only I know about it and the guy who my friend slept with. It's going to ruin your reputation and you're so young! Here let me give you a story. One of the girl in my Social Studies class let's say her name is Penny. So, Penny met this guy named Cain. He's 15yo. So, this all happened at a movie theatre where they show free movies. Well, one night and Penny are one of the lusty type of chicks. Anyways, a movie showed up, Cain came up to her led her to a dark alley behind the theatre and started making out with her. She was in love with the idea that Cain is touching her boobs, and grabbing her butt, she gave a guy a bad thing. She regrets it because EVERYBODY knew about it. She hate people caling her a slut, do you want to be called that?? I don't think so. See, you let a guy touch you he will spread it around and other guys are going to take advantage of you. So, focus on school and enjoy being a kid okay?
~MC~ [ holla13's advice column | Ask holla13 A Question ]
asknaee answered Wednesday July 11 2012, 4:10 pm: your 9 years old. Get out of elementary school first. you do not need to grow up fast in order for a boy to like you. boys aren't going anywhere. you have plenty of time. dont grow up too fast. im 18 years old, and i don't do any of the things 18 year olds are allowed to do. because i have plenty of time to still grow up [ asknaee's advice column | Ask asknaee A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Tuesday July 10 2012, 10:13 am: First: At 9 years of age you should not even be thinking about boys and getting boys to touch your breasts. You should be playing with dolls and doing other 9 year old appropriate things.
Second: At nine years old boys in general still think girls are yucky. It will be at least 3 to 6 years before most boys are even into holding hands let a lone feeling a girls breast.
There will become a time when it will be appropriate to allow a boy to touch you in different places. That won't happen until you are older and more mature, in about 6 years or so.
Allowing boys to touch in places that shouldn't be will give you a reputation in school you will deeply regret.
Please re think seeking to get a boy to touch your breasts and talk to mom about this. You are way to young to be having these thoughts. They are probably they result of puberty and hormones which mom can help you deal with. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
Xui answered Monday July 9 2012, 5:29 pm: Sweetie you are only 9 years old. You are still a child and you aren't even fully developed yet. A guy touching your boobs at this age is very inappropriate. Wait until you are in high school, Sex and touching is something that you do when you are older and more mature. Enjoy being a kid and stop worrying so much. You are too young!!! [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
ragingsquirrel answered Monday July 9 2012, 5:27 pm: umm... your 9. why do you already care about your boobs? And i agree with andrew. you should wait until you are 1. In HIGHSCHOOL at least, untill you worry about this subject and 2. 9 year old boys arent in the stage where girls are attractive. I'm 16 and i still havent touched a girls boobs. a time will come when a guy is touching, sucking, licking, bouncing and screwing you and your boobs. But not for a LONG time. try talking to your parents about this. [ ragingsquirrel's advice column | Ask ragingsquirrel A Question ]
Drewb13 answered Monday July 9 2012, 5:00 pm: YOU'RE NINE YEARS OLD! Focus on school and learn what love is because right now you're getting love confused with lust. When your in love, you like the way a person makes you feel emotionally. When your in lust, all you can thing about is satisfying your sexual cravings. Wait until you're older and maybe talk to you're parents and ask them what it felt like when they first met.
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