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Are we moving to fast?
Okay so my boyfriend and I have been together for a month and a half and we've already gotten to second base. I am completely comfortable with how far we have gone, but what I wanted to know if we are moving too fast physically. I’m 16 and he’s 17, he doesn’t push me about any of it, it’s all on my terms. So are we moving to fast?
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This varies from person to person. I've had many friends who all move at different paces. What it comes down to are the individual people. If you feel okay and comfortable, then don't even worry about it. Make sure you have open communication with your boyfriend to make sure that you're on the same page. Nobody should define how you and your boyfriend act in the relationship, just have respect and communication and that's all that matters.
Hope this helps!
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Here are the Bases of Love ( My opinion )
-The Sporting Goods Store
Your single and trying to find WHAT (who) you want.
-The Batting Cages
You know WHAT (who)you want and your tesing it out. ( your hitting on them and asking them out)
-Little Leagues
1st Base: Going Out
2nd Base: Hold Hands
third Base: Hugs
Home Base: Kiss
-Big Leagues
1st Base: French Kissing (tounge action)
2nd Base: Playing a little while you kiss ( his hand on your butt)
third base: Marraige ( I'm Christian, these are my bases)
Home Base: Move in with each other
- World Series
1st Base: Protected Sex
2nd base: Unprotected Sex
third Base: Raise Child
4th Base: Die with each other
OR
- You strike out (Break-up, divorce)
It sounds like you two are prolly at kissing ( thats what most people 2nd Base is. I'd say your fine. Keep taking it slow!
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I've known people who have moved much faster. I don't think you are moving way too fast and it's not all bad since he's not pushing you, plus you're comfortable with it.
Although most relationships that move fast in the beginning don't last very long. It is possible that it could last long though so it's not like that will kill the relationship.
Just remember if you ever get uncomfortable with any of it, just ask him to stop. Just because you move fast and have already went to second base doesn't mean you have to keep going. Good luck!
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