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I don't know what to do.
Okay, I'm 13/f and I have a Best Friend, 12/M and he's my only Best Friend. I know some of you guys might expect I need a girl friend, but I don't. I really don't like having girl friends because it causes drama, and fights and I can't stress myself over that. Anyways, I kind of have this thing where every girl says, "OMG, you're so popular, pretty, you have it all, every guy likes you, and you're so perfect." I know I'm not those things. I don't like hearing those. I mean, sure guys like me even older ones and they all hit on me. I don't appreciate it when they do that especially if they have a girlfriend of their own!! I mean it's very flattering they like me, but I don't know what is it I'm doing to make them hit on me. So, I talked to my Best Friend, and he's dating also, and he hit on me last night. I felt terrible. I don't know what to do. I feel like they are all just using me so they can get something out of me. I know they can't and they never will. A lot of them, have asked me out and I've turned them down. I never really dated, kissed anyone, I never gone beyond the point of hugging. What do you guys think? I love my Best Friend he's like my brother to me. It only seems like they hit on me while they're dating then, the guys dump their girl(s) then ask me out! That's really stupid. I don't know what to do. Please help.
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Tell those guys that you don't like being hit on, then ignore them. Besides, the guys your age are probably starting puberty so it could just be hormones. But I'm sure that eventually, you'll find the right guy. Someone who loves and appreciates you for who you are on the inside as well as the outside.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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I think you should tell your friend that it makes you feel uncomfortable when he hits on you and that he should be hitting on his girlfriend.
Boys will be boys......Where stupid.
Lol goodluck.
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Boys are just immature. They see something pretty and they're like, "ohhh shiny"
But seriously, if your best friend keeps doing this then talk to him about it.
It is extremely rude and horrible if they hit on you when they have a girlfriend. Those are the types of guys you want to stay away from.
You already know what they want from you and you already said they'll never get anything out of you so that's really good.
Just ignore guys like that and just talk to your best friend.
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