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In love with my 'lil bruv'
Ok so recently i followed advice on how to make myself more attractive and it has made a huge improvment with my relationship with the guy but suddenly i dont have feelings for him anymore, i have feelings for another guy known as my 'lil bruv' yes i love him dearly but in a brotherly sisterly way but now i feel abit different about him like i love him in a bf & gf way wich i guess is normal but i still quite shy and didnt have the confidence to ask him out and great, now he asked out someone else and im heart broken, really, i feel real bad and have been sad alot recently and also really jelous that i feel i should give up but,i really want him to be mine. its quite impossible but another boy came up with the idea of playing dares and theyre dirty dares and recently iv seen theres hope but id need to use dares as an exuse to do something that will show my affection for him but will also hide it, iv been thinking of plans its not working out so good, i need a plan, any ideas? i just need him cuz without him theres something missing in my heart. plz help me!
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Regardless of how it turns out. I think that you owe it to both of you to tell him how you feel. I am 42 years old and when I was 19 I had a female friend that I felt that way about. I didn't want to risk loosing her friendship. I guess that I was afraid that she would reject me and it would just get weird after that and break our friendship. I have regretted not telling her how I felt for 23 years now. Don't spend the rest of your life wondering what might have been. It may work out or it may not. Just don't make the mistake that I made.
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Stop trying to hide your feelings! Go to him and tell him the truth. And the dirty dares thing is a HORRIBLE idea. Your not trying to get him to cheat on his girlfriend, but your trying to tell him the truth. And yes it is cheating because whatever the dare tell you guys to do will mean something totally different to you. Just talk to him when he is alone. If he is always with his gf, then call him on his cell phone. But tell him the truth. DO NOT TRY AND PLAY GAMES! Just tell the truth. I can't stress that enough.
I hope this helps.
~Andrew~
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