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am i to young to be sexual ? at 12
i live in aurora colorado
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You are obviously way too young to have sex. Just because you might start ppuberty that doesn't mean lose your VIRGINITY! It sort of sounds like your doubting it which is good because when having sex at suuch a young age you will regret it. I honestly believe you have to wait until you feel you're ready enough by that I mean between the ages of 18-and up. We all have to enjoy our childhood and sex isn't part of it. WAIT WAIT AND WAIT. Trust me, if you lose your virginity you're going to regret it for the rest of your life. Good luck and make wise decisions.
~MC~
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your ready when you feel your ready. theres not an AGE FOR SEX. your body will tell you.
i had sex when i was 13 and i dont regret anything.
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Well yes because you're obviously in doubt about it which means you're not ready.
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You are not ready emotionally or physically for sex of any type. You may be going through puberty and having your period. That does not mean the rest of your reproductive system is ready for intercourse.
Sex is not a contact sport that you play at. Participating in sex without the proper precautions and proper, call it preparation, can have life long adverse effects on you, not the boy.
While being 12 is a long time ago for me. One of things I do remember is that for the majority of us the subject of sex was more talk than action. About 99% was talk and 1% was action. Of the 1% that was action few of us actually had intercourse with anyone. So don't trust what your friends are saying. Some of it or most of it is being said to get someone else to do it first.
Your virginity is the most precious gift you can give to someone and you can only give it once. I'm not saying you should save it for your wedding night, although that would be nice.
What I am saying is over the next 4 or 5 years as a normal teenage girl you will go through a number of boyfriends, this is normal. Save your virginity until your older and you find someone you will be in a long term loving relationship with. This may sound old school but trust me. You will feel better about yourself if you do and you will have a much better sexual relationship with him and anyone else who might come after him.
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Yes you are too young to have sex. Just because you hear kids talk about it and you know some kids who have had sex before, doesn't mean you need to follow them. Your body is a sacred thing along with your virginity. Once you give it to somebody else you can't get it back. If you remember your parents giving you "the talk", then they've told you, "Sex happens when two people LOVE eachother." Yes sex is a pleasurable experience, but it is also an emotional experience. The pleasure only affects your body, but the emotions affect you on a mental level. Young kids don't understand the emotional part of sex because it is a very sacred thing between two people.
What I'm trying to say is, WAIT. Until you truly understand the meaning behind sex, don't get under the sheets with ANYBODY. When you do start dating (in a few years hopefully) and you think you're ready to have sex, listen to what your heart is saying. Don't have sex because of the pleasure, but because you are ready for that EMOTIONAL CONNECTION. Because what you do, can't be undone.
I hope this helps. And I hope you make WISE decisions.
~Andrew~
P.S. This advice is for BOYS and GIRLS of ALL ages.
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At 12 years old you are way too young to be thinking of sex.
What is the rush? You are still a child. Also by law in many states the age to consent to sex is 16.
If you have to come to us and ask strangers if you are too young, Then yes you are too young. Wait until you are older, mature and ready. Enjoy being a kid because trust me time goes too fast. Stop worrying so much.
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Having sex at 12 can be detrimental to your mental health. You are very young, and not ready. Wait until you are older. There are lots of risks associated with sex such as accidental pregnancy. You may think you're ready, but believe me, you'll regret it. How about enjoying yourself and having fun with your friends? You're only a child once, you don't want to ruin it for yourself. Sex comes later on in life.
Good luck :)
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