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am i a slut? will my parents forgive me? do you think i should die?
hey im from a place where people look weirdly if a guy and girl talk..they consider a girl a a slut
in such a place i was in relationship with 3 guys.
(this is was when i was 14) the first guy was crazy guy.. we had sex except for the blowjob and then we broke up.
(when i was 15 ) the second guy n me kissed n d cops caught us in a lonely place n later left.
(this was when i was 15)the third guy n me had sex except d blowjob... he seriously accepts knowing everything about the two guys and he wants me.. but i feel like i am a slut n he deserves better than me.
if my parents get to know about this. they will die. as in our place a girl losing her virginity is considered a slut.
do you think i am a slut?
do you think i should be with the third guy?
do you think my parents would forgive me?
do you think i should run away from all this?
do you think i should die?
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ill be straight up with you. i been also call a slut and whore and many other mean things.
look i relate to you SOOO MUCH!!
1st guy: he was just a one nightstand had sex at 14 years old
2nd guy: he was my bff but we just got caught in the moment 15years old
3rd guy: MY BF! <3 he makes me the happiest girl alive!! and i sometimes also feel he deserves better than me but again i know i make him happy,so i keep going.
& look before i met my BF i was depress just like you i tried to kill myself because i was labeled.i even went to a mental hospital for almost a month.
girl trust me NO ONE DESERVES TO DIE JUST BECAUSE THER BEIGN CALL A SLUT!!
held your head always high and fuck those bitches! trust me forget about them AND JUST BE HAPPY!! YOU ARE WHAT YOU THINK YOU ARE!!
DONT LET THOSE BITCHES OUT THERE DEFINE YOU.
keep in touch and tell me how your life goes...or if you need to talk to someone you can email me: GATITALATINA2010@HOTMAIL.COM
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I really do not like labeling people a slut.
However, I'm not sure what your current age is but I would tone down the sexual activity a bit. You are still young and there shouldn't be a rush to jump into sex. Sex is not something you just do because you are bored. It's something you do when you are ready and been with someone for awhile that loves you.
I think you need to chill out a little bit
Yes, I think your parents will forgive you. Everyone makes mistakes, It's not unusual. Next time you meet someone just take it slow.
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Well I don't think you should of had sex at 14. I answered a question about sex so you can look on my profile to find it. But just to let you know, blowjobs counts as sex. But sex is a sacred thing and when you lose your virginity you CAN NOT GET IT BACK. What you do can't be undone. You have to listen to your heart and love and appreciate yourself before you can be in a relationship. Tell your parents the truth and start forgiving yourself. And while you do that, don't have sex anymore until you know what it means and how big of a commitment it actually is. If you want to stay with your boyfriend, then you need to work on uilding your relationship on an emotional level. And running away doesn't help anything and I don't think you should die. You have the right to live as much as anyone else.
Take care and love yourself.
~Andrew~
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